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The Prostate Cancer Support Group is an in-person and virtual group for Mayo Clinic patients and their caregivers. The group meets monthly on the 2nd Wednesday of the month from noon to 1:30 pm CT.
Each month guest speakers from the Mayo Clinic oncology team provide education on specific topics related to prostate cancer. Following the presentation and Q & A time, members share information and experiences.
In-person space is limited, but all are welcome to participate via Zoom.
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Thank you jc. Appreciate your insight and your personal experience. Very helpful.
My last PSA was 25
I'm 88 My new Doctor (Urologist)think I should have a Biopsy
I spoke with my Doctors (Urologist) who have treated me for the past 10 years for Blatter
cancer so far very good They are both aware of my PSA almost doubled in past 10 years
Because of my age they don't advise the Biopsy
What is your opinion
John
I am very moved for your very thoughtful ,detailed information.My brother did the PET-CT scan .The results were not good. Findings are worrisome for a prostatic neoplasm.He is reluctant to do any further tests and treatment.He is living alone but not in nursing home.My heart is so heavy.I appreciate your warm thoughts and concern for my brother.Hope your treatment goes well and wish you the best!
Ps:My brother did not have urinate difficulties. He felt ok.But the PET-CT scan also found 1cm hypermatolic area in his pancreas.He had been a strong man in the past.thank you again for thinking about a person you don’t know .
My husband has decided not to do anything about his issue. PSA went from 12 to 18.3 in on year. His father had prostate cancer. My husband will not see a urologist and will not talk about it with his primary doctor. He has heard friends giving their grievances about side effects of removal, medication and others. He is not willing to go through that. He is 59. I can’t talk about it, he refuses. I’ve tried pleading. He has 3 children and they all know. No one has been able to convince him. I’m lost.
I’m compelled to reply. My husband had his prostate removed 30 years ago due to a cancerous biopsy. He is now86, and has had four recurrences of prostate cancer cells, in his pelvis, his femur, his bladder, and now again, he is in the process of a surgical procedure to determine if the mass his doctor found is positive again for prostate cancer. He has every cancer treatment available, and still it recurs. However, at 86 years old, the only downside he has had is being very tired all the time. I think we can live with that at this point. Radiation treatment is probably his next step, once again, but it’s okay, he’ll be happy to go through that.. (no pain, no discomfort). Good luck to you!
If I was in that condition,I wouldn’t want to have a biopsy .
Thank you and hope you do well and live long life.
In that case,your husband is much younger.If he go through the necessary tests and treatments he may live a lots more years.Now a day there are choices other than surgery. I did some reading and found radiation therapy is very effective for prostate cancer and ultrasound therapy is not painful and could prolong life.My brother thinks he is 80, and he doesn’t want to go through a treatment (maybe a Series of ).
I know your feeling I am the same.As my brother’s younger sister, my heart is heavy.What I can do is pray and give you a hug.
Thank you for your reply .You have a very brave husband . I am happy for his life prolonged so many years and also Feel sympathy for his suffering. Your supporters must give him the strength to fight this battle.
Hope your husband and you do well.
I am 67 and chose Proton therapy. I have 2 points to share. The first point is; I had a choice and your husband does as well. His first choice is to die slowly and likely painfully. That is a scientific fact and exactly what my first doctor told when I asked what would happen if I did nothing. That motivated my to become knowledgeable and find the very specific choice that I was ignorant about. Thus the ignorance was cured with some effort in learning on my part. Ignorance can be cured by knowledge. Finally my second point; Men can stare the risk of death in the face and ignore the risk. That is our nature. Many fine men also need a shock that prompt thoughts. Tell him (don’t ask) to write his obituary and then hang it on the fridge giving him the option of revising it as he sees fit. Good luck and God bless.