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The Great Debate... Do you define yourself as your illness or are you a human being living with an illness?
Dear Reader's,
My friend Momentum has posed a very important question! Do you conform to societal labels or do we challenge the system when the system attempts to self impose their views on who we TRULY are?
It can become very easy to be consumed by external factors when Identifying who were are. I am first and foremost, a human being. I am a daughter, mother, sister, grandmother, friend, colleague, peer, employee, a woman, etc. And, I live with depression and anxiety that I am NOT ashamed of. I did not cause it but am very proactive in minimizing it's effects on my life. Last year, being proactive did not work because a group of administrator's were on a mission to destroy my career, my life, my livelihood and my self worth.
However, still, I refused to conform to their biased views because I am who I am and am very proud of myself despite that they are ashamed of me for being proud. Does this make sense? In life, we will come across individuals that know we are exceptional and competent workers but for some reason THEY NOT US cannot get past a label.
I know people, who have been treated in this broken system since they were adolescents and are now in their 50's and all the know is the label they are giving. Some will have been so poorly condition, that they actually believe "I am a Schizophrenic" versus I am a human being living with Schizophrenia.
Lizkat wanted to educate healthcare provider's! Well, here we go. The helping professions is suffering and it needs to revamp itself and go WAYYYYY back to the friendly visitors in the early years of social work. People should not further be exposed to victimization because of their unfortunate circumstances. And, people living with any type of illness should not be made to feel like they are worthless and cannot dream and do BIG things with their lives.
In my last year in graduate school, I was suicidal but you know what my friends? The employer and familial issues were the culprit that exacerbated my illness. Regardless, of all of the roadblocks that presented themselves, I graduated and was told by my thesis professor that my thesis was one of the best in his class in 2010. So, did I allow other's hurtful actions to negate my dreams and goals? Absolutely not......
You can be diagnosed with the most horrific condition but the mind is powerful and when we focus diligently on the task at hand that one is trying to achieve no label can stop you!
I have good days, and I have days, when all seems overwhelming but I refuse to conform to what society or some select insensitive individuals try to say as to...... what I am or am not capable of.
By now, most of you can tell that I am a writer and most recently put together a case for the US District Court that some believe a lawyer put together. I, until my last breath, will always challenge the status Quo because it is wrong, it is hurtful, it is demoralizing, it can ruin lives and there is no place for this type of practice and/or behavior in our world.
Big Hug Your Friend,
Roxie
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can you post them or do i need new glasses lol
I had an employer that really fits this subject. It was when I first started going to a therapist. I would need to leave early for my appts so I trusted in her to say that I was going for depression. One day at work when I was having a stressful day she actually asked me if I was taking my meds and how my sessions were going!! How rude and insulting!! I have been hesitant ever since to trust who I tell. It sucks.
Hi it's so not good when you feel discriminated like that in a workplace situation. It's such a pity that more people are not compassionate enough to understand how a comment would make someone like that feel, Sorry that this happened to you. Take care Piglit
So pleased for you when do you start. Take care piglit
Thank you for sharing. My employer has targetted me for over a decade but other's with disabilities are not targetted at all. Some people fall asleep at their desk and nothing but when I stand up for my rights as a human being, employee and hard worker I become the victim of retaliation...
It's horrible especially since I work in the mental health field..
Some people are so miserable themselves that they project their feelings onto anyone that stands up for equality.
You are so right...no compassionate, no heart, no empathy, no respect etc...
Unforunately many doctors look at a persons list of medications and assume that whatever u r being referred to them for is "in your head" because they judge the person ss being a "hypochondriac" how unfortunate. It has happened to me and it it is so degrading
It's so sad that people have to put up with this some on a daily basis because they feel that they have no alternative
I can relate to this a wrong diagnosis was placed on me, of bi-polar , unfortunaltey this is on my hospital records and at times you can know that people are looking and speaking to you differently It does make your feel degraded.But always remember the special person that you are and try not to take notice of their ignorance
Hi rox good post I enjoy it hugs jodi