Hello again @bobkat1065

I am glad that your situation allows you and your mom to be there for your dad.

On Mayo Connect, we also have a Caregiver's Discussion group that you might find helpful. Here is the link to that discussion, https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/caregivers/ @IndianaScott is the mentor for that group.

Have you looked into community resources that may be available? Perhaps respite care or assistive devices may be available.