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"Quality of life"......a gift that just keeps on giving.
The 2020 Holidays are over. What was your favorite gift? Was one of your gifts what I call a “quality of life” gift? Was it a new special pillow that made you sleep better? Perhaps you were given something that made your life a little easier like new shoes with a softer sole. Or maybe your family gave you a Mayo gift like the Pain course or a Habit workshop?
It’s never too late to think of and thank yourself for your endurance, generosity, and kindness to yourself. And these may be things that you have never mentioned because you didn’t want to be a burden or a nuisance or appear to be selfish.
I went crazy this year and got three of my quality of life gifts. I’ll share them with you and hope you realize how very important they were and are to me.
1. My MFR therapist began to feel that one session a week was not sufficient. So, we set up a six week trial of 2 sessions per week. The difference in tolerance was amazing. I didn’t have to endure increasing discomfort for 7 days….just 3. And so….gift #1. When I let my family know they found a way to help with the additional cost called a “stocking stuffer”.
2. For over a year I have been noticing more and more pain in my hip. Several years ago, I had an injection which was done poorly and so I wasn’t too excited about trying again. This time I had a chat with myself. “Why, Chris, are you going through increasing pain when there is a solution?” So I gathered my strong determination, had the injection, and am just jumping for joy. And my insurance covered it. Great…..another quality of life gift received and appreciated.
3. My 2021 quality of life gift brigade begins tomorrow when I have my preliminary appointment to fix my arthritic thumb. I can no longer open a jar or turn a key in the door lock. Seven years ago I had anchovy surgery on the left thumb. It is perfect. Now, why have I let the other one reach such a painful stage? I really don’t like surgery but this one is relatively doable and I won’t need too much help at home.
So Happy Holidays to me.
And thank you friends and family who shouted encouragement and helped support my wishes for a few things that just needed to get done.
What items would qualify for your quality of life? Let’s all share and help each other develop our 2021 list of can dos and must-dos.
Be happy and content in 2021.
Chris
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@fiesty76 Im receiving it this morning not sure what brand it is . I,ve never done crewel embroidery have to look into that . Right now I,m still painting have done a couple for gifts .But want to change hobbies like you when it is safe to go out I will take a trip to JoAnn,s Glad you doing o.k
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3 ReactionsI cannot sew, embroider, knit or paint. One thing which drives me crazy is: "I can't carry a tune in a bucket"! I got kicked out of the church choir when I was around six. I really wanted to wear that robe and join the singing. I did. Then, I was asked to hang up my robe. In school, when we were supposed to sing the notes, the teacher cringed. He didn't want to even hear it! I scared my nephew when I sang happy birthday--he ran and hid. That ended my trying. My parents could not sing either. People tell me to make a joyful noise to the Lord--they don't understand we are not all gifted the same way.
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9 Reactions@woogie You are right we all are not gifted the same way gut you are before the Lord and He matters in your life . Maybe you can do something else good that you enjoy ,danceing or humming a beautiful song that makes you happy thats all that is needed . Don't put yourself down because you cant do things others can just enjoy them be happy to see them .
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5 Reactionsplease how can I quit this site
I second Kathy2020 request. This blog / site is about hearing related issues. It has gotten off track.
@golden418 and @kathy2020, Discussions do sometimes get off track and it does hurt members who are looking for information relevant to the discussion. I look forward to things getting back to normal where I can go out and meet a friend for lunch or a cup of coffee. Until then one of the things that helps my quality of life is try and get some time outside to enjoy nature. On my bucket list for 2021 is to visit the National Eagle Center in Wabasha, MN - https://www.nationaleaglecenter.org/. It raises my spirits when I see one sitting on the side of the road, soaring in the sky or sitting in a tall tree.
Hate to see you leave the discussion but this should help if you still want to stop notifications:
- How to Stop or Restart all Notifications: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/get-started-on-connect/#stop-restart-notifications
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9 ReactionsThe Person who is suppose to be monitoring the HEARING LOSS group - has not been redirecting everyone to keeping to the subject. That is why the subject matter is not correct. If you want to get out of it...go to the Groups Menu and look for the Hearing loss category. Touch the arrow and unsubscribe from the conversation. Wait for around two weeks until this chattering is over and then come back if you want to join the Group. Perhaps we could start a new one and label it..."COVID & Hearing Loss"... and see if that will muster up some talking.... Eloise
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1 Reaction@johnbishop @nurseheadakes @golden418 @kathy2020 Often, a discussion thread is housed in several groups. For example, this comment on "Quality of Life", has been dropped in to the following main groups: Skin Health, Just Want to Talk, Neuropathy, Joint Replacements, Hearing Loss, Aging Well. The premise is to allow a greater number of members the opportunity to respond to a particular thread.
I hope this helps you understand a bit clearer.
Ginger
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6 ReactionsYou are in my thoughts. You have already faced so much. I will think of you in a special way in June. I used to crochet as well, but am not sure I could do it again. It did keep my hands busy and many relatives received not so attractive shawls for Christmas. I think just the doing helped my sanity a bit. I never did knit even after taking lessons. After a lesson I would go home and try to do more. At each class meeting, the instructor ripped out all I had done because I had dropped a stitch or something like that. I dropped the class along with plans to make a sweater. I do admire those who can knit. My sister is the one who can do crafts. She makes lovely cards. She used to do macrame, embroidery, and needlepoint. I was not good in my home ec class in junior high. I despised sewing on a machine and also the cooking part. I still remember having to wear my dress I had made (with lots of help from others) as all of us modeled. The grade I made in that class was a "C", the first ever for me. Ah well, I should have insisted on not taking the class and doing shop with the boys. Maybe I would have done better at that because later in life I took a woodworking class and made a dinner table. It served for many years. As we are trying to downsize, we knew getting rid of that would allow a bookcase from my mother to be in its place. We put the table by the mailbox on a Sunday and put a "Free" sign on it and it was gone when we left the house two hours later. Best wishes to you @joycelynk. @joybringer1
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7 Reactions@gingerw Is right. This discussion is in a lot of different groups. You are frustrated that the topic isn't staying solely on hearing loss. Did I get that right?
@kathy2020 @golden418 @nurseheadakes It sounds like you may be looking for a discussion that is not in multiple groups as this one is. You are looking for something very specific to hearing loss.
We have an extremely active Hearing Loss group. I have linked the Hearing Loss group but you obviously already found that on your own. You may want to scroll through the other discussions and see if any are of interest to you. I can help if anyone needs help finding a more focused discussion. If we aren't able to find a discussion together, maybe a new discussion can be posted exclusively in the Hearing Loss group.
- Hearing Loss https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/hearing-loss/
Are there any Hearing Loss only discussions I can research for you or any discussion topics you'd like to post?
P.S. @kathy2020 I see @johnbishop gave you instructions on how to unsubscribe etc. If you choose this option and need further instruction, I would be happy to help.
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