@jakedduck1 Hello, again. This must be so difficult to deal with especially when it’s your mother. But at the same time, it’s very common. Hospice says that people talk about death and dying as a journey. For your mom, her journey is to go home. It may be difficult for you, but try to engage her in conversation. Ask if she’s seeing someone special, if she’s remembering good times. And, also be sure to let her know how much you’ll miss her and what a great mother she has been. Say all the things you might not have said before. Let her know that you will be OK, that you have friends here. Reminisce about special times together. This was neither of you will have regrets as she continues her journey. It might also help to call her doctor and request Hospice. They are the real experts. I hope all goes well for you

@jakedduck1 Leonard, that must have thrown you for a loop. Like Becky said, talk to her. Tell her what you want to say, in case she slips into a state where she cannot process your words. You have been a faithful son, and I'd bet you have most if not all arrangements figured out for the "what if" times. Now is the time to call on your close by friends, for a physical connection, not just us as we are cyber only. My mother did that as her cognitive abilities diminished. We're here for you.
Ginger

@jakedduck1 Your spirits have been go good lately! Talking about not cooking and not drawing straight lines. Has your mother gotten better so you’re not so stressed? Let us know