Holiday Feelings: Are They Merry or Stressful?
We are in the middle of a holiday season marked by twinkling lights, music, movies and sentiments that are supposed to bring joy and cheer. What if you don’t feel those sentiments right now? Is that OK?
Perhaps you have experienced difficulties, maybe health problems, loss of a job, or loss of a loved one. Maybe it is not possible to work-up the holiday cheer that everyone else experiences.
What do we do with the holidays if we are not feeling cheerful and upbeat?
Let's share together what you are doing with your less-than-merry holiday feelings.
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hugs dear woman, hugs. At least you got part of what you wanted. Having no control is the worse part. Yes, I can think of many "guy" solutions such as having someone else finish it, not paying him(an option?) locking up all his tools, taking him to court, etc but that doesn't help getting it done any sooner. Royal Caribbean has a nice cruise Jan 24-Feb 2 to Bahamas? Yes, it is so nice being in your own bed. Hugs again sweet woman, eventually it will pass, like a kidney stone.
@users Are you in a position to call in another contractor to finish the job, and fire this current guy? Then report him to state contractor's board, Better Business Bureau, Yelp, and Nextdoor. Like others have mentioned, I hope you have not paid him at this point. Does he have a plausible reason for being so slow? I sincerely hope you achieve results soon!
Ginger
My husband won't let me because we are so close to being finished.
He said he is just slow. I told him when he took on this project if he could not finish this in a reasonable amount of time he should have told us. And 4 mo is not reasonable.. are there any contractors out there. Do we have to pay him the full amount of the bid ?
@suerc did you have a contract with him? If you did and he isn't complying I think you can if you didn't have a contract with him then I would say he,s just taking his time ?
We are not paying by the hour. And my husband has already chimed in and said will pay no more than the bid. We can't go over that. The weird thing is is that the guy we wanted to do the project was remodeling my sister's house. When I talked to him in Sept he said he was a ways out. He called me just after Christmas and said he has time now. At that point my husband said no we are to far into this. I talked to mark the other contractor and told him the situation. He said. You always clean up after yourself every night. You don't take up both stalls of there garage for 3 1/2 mo and you certainly do not put a wet saw in there bed room for over a week to cut tile. He said after Christmas if this guy does not come back or something to let him know. Last night I told this man he needs to be done with my bathroom by next Friday or else. He has to grout a 6 × 6 floor put 2 bars up on the shower wall. The shower door. Install toilet and sink and mirror. It's a race against time how many think he can do it ???
@surec Glad you gave him a timeline that might make him move faster 😕
We gave him 1 time line before December 18 th
@suerc Only recourse I know of report him to the contractors union? I don't know
He did not come today !! Funny that