Concerned about Abraxane + Gemzar at age 82: Hospice vs treatment?
After 2 years of clear scans my pancreatic cancer has metastasized to my stomach and duodenum. Incurable. Dr says he can put me on abraxane gemzar but I am concerned about the side effects since I am already in a great deal of discomfort. Otherwise I have maybe 6 months to live. Considering hospice instead of chemo
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I am curious. How many out there with pan cancer have had a stint inserted called an ERCP Endoscopicallly into their bile duct to stop blockage of bile duct from liver to stomach that is blocked by their pancreatic tumor? It stops pain and sets your indegestion back on the normal track. My husband presented with jaundace, was diagnosed with his cancer and then got the stint all within his first 2 days. I fully believe the stint is the reason he has had NO symptoms or side effects for 22 mos and no sickness from his chemo. If you have not had an ERCP you might ask your doctor why/why not, and can it help with discomfort ,nausia, diarrhia, and pain. It's an easy overnight proceedure almost as simple as getting your port put in.
Just curious.
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@colleenyoung thanks
capecitabine pills are 5-Folfirinox in pill form... My husband has never had 5-F our doctor said it was not worth the side effects at 80 yrs old and he was right...we have had pain free side effect free 22 mos on just gem/am meds and chemo was ever other week only.
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1 Reaction@roboticwhip, c-difficile can be so hard to deal with and get rid off. I can't imagine dealing with 5 occurences. I'm glad to the that the fecal implant has been sucessful (to this point).
Congrats on finishing chemo. It's been almost two weeks since you rang the bell. How are you feeling? When will you review the results of the follow-up CT scan with your oncologist?
@colleenyoung Tomorrow, 24th, I will meet with my Oncologist to go over the CT and blood test, hopefully will hear, see you in 3 months
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1 Reaction@cfrench48, what helpful and hopeful posts about your husband. It must've been such a relief for both him and you that his discomfort from the cancer improved with chemo and that chemo alleviated his pain and nausea.
How many treatments has he had so far? Does he continue to do well?
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You asked how many had a stent put, my wife has had 2 put in since June 2026, The first was plastic and considered 'temporary". It got plugged up within a month and her bile duct was blocked a 2nd time. A metal one was then inserted. Liver enzymes were quite elevated each time and pain in upper right quadrant of her stomach and around to her back. She's now able to do her chemo but that's another story.
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1 Reaction@roboticwhip, how did the appointment with the oncologist go?
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1 ReactionWhile I think we are making progress on helping with pancreatic cancer, I am disappointed with all the media hype on Rasonque as a huge breakthrough that doubles life expectancy for advanced pancreatic cancer - I wouldn’t exactly say 6 months extra is a huge breakthrough especially when you have to go through 6 months of major chemo before you can even try it. And then there is the cost. The media makes it sound like an absolutely fabulous thing with minor side effects for most. That’s not what I am hearing. And when you stop it the cancer comes back. We need real breakthrough not a bandaid. Pharma needs to work harder for an actual breakthrough
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