Remembering KateMN - losing a virtual friend hurts too
On August 4th our dear mentor, Katherine left us. Her son, Scott, sends this message that she wanted to share with you.
I HAVE A PAINTING .. IT SAYS .. “TO TRAVEL IS TO LIVE”. THE FUN OF RESEARCHING .. PLANNING .. TRAVELING IS GONE FOREVER FROM MY LIFE. HOWEVER I HAVE BEEN BLESSED TO TRAVEL SINCE MY 50’S TO ALL THE CONTINENTS BUT ANTARCTICA .. MY FAVORITE COUNTRIES .. MANY TIMES. IF MY FUTURE HELD GAZING OUT AT THE MEDITERRANEAN SEA FROM OUR BELOVED ITALIAN AMALFI COAST .. YES! I WOULD GRAB IT WITH BOTH HANDS!
MY SPIRITUALITY AND BELIEF SYSTEM .. NONE OF US KNOW WHAT IS ON THE “OTHER SIDE” BE WE CHRISTIAN, BUDDHIST, JEW, HINDU, MUSLIM OR WHATEVER FAITH .. UNTIL WE “PASS OVER”. THEN AND ONLY THEN WILL WE TRULY KNOW WHAT IS ON THE “OTHER SIDE” .. DESPITE THE DESTRUCTION RELIGION HAS WROUGHT ON PLANET EARTH. BUT I HAVE EVERY CONFIDENCE THAT AS I “PASS OVER” I AM GOING TO BE MET BY GRANDMOTHER BENNETT AND GRANDMOTHER HUNNICUTT WITH THEIR LOVING HANDS TO HELP ME “PASS OVER”. THIS I BELIEVE.
*I WAS TOLD MANY YEARS AGO THAT IN REALITY “EACH OF US IS THE STAR OF OUR OWN SHOW” .. MEANING THAT EACH OF US GO ON IN TIME WITH OUR OWN LIVES .. SO I WANT EACH OF YOU TO QUICKLY BE ” THE STAR OF OUR OWN SHOW” .. LIVING YOUR LIFE AS WELL AS I DID WILL BE YOUR BEST TRIBUTE TO ME!
I HAVE HAD A FULL LIFE. I HAVE A LIFE I CAN FEEL PROUD OF. I HAVE LIVED LIFE ETHICALLY .. LOVINGLY. I RAISED ONE SON THAT I AM VERY PROUD OF AND ONE SON THAT HAS RISEN ABOVE MANY DIFFICULTIES IN HIS LIFE THAT I AM ALSO PROUD OF. I HAD A VERY SUCCESSFUL CAREER IN AN ERA IN WHICH IT WAS VERY DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN TO SUCCEED .. ALLOWING ME TO ACCUMULATE A PORTFOLIO SUFFICIENT TO ESTABLISH A SCHOLARSHIP AT THE U OF MONTANA IN A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUNT FOR GIRLS FROM MY BACKGROUND. I TRAVEL EVERY CONTINENT BUT ANTARCTICA .. FAVORITE COUNTRIES MANY TIMES OVER .. ONE OF MY FAVORITE PIECES OF ART SAYS “TO TRAVEL IS TO LIVE” .. THAT SAYS IT ALL! THIS SAID .. I HAVE LIVED WELL .. LOVED WELL. IT IS NOW TIME. GOOD BYE.
KATHERINE
Katherine -- Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Mentor
Back in 2011 @katemn posted a simple message on Connect with “I am new to Mayo online .. I was hoping to find others…” That single post has grown to establish an incredibly supportive and knowledge community of people helping each other live well with MAC and bronchiectasis. Katherine’s relentless trumpeting of the message “knowledge is learning to advocate for yourself. Knowledge is taking back the power over your health care” will forever remain with all the members of the MAC group and continue to echo throughout Connect. Her presence and words will continue to comfort, educate and strengthen to the community.
Thank you forever, Katherine.
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@ling123, Hi Ling. I looked up those bugs when she told me which ones she had back in March or April. After reading up on them, I knew she was going to have one helluva fight ahead of her. She knew it too.
@windwalker But Terri, the Wikipedia seems to suggest that Serratia Marcescens is the pink slime: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serratia_marcescens
@ling123 Wow, Ling! I looked it up on another site and it did not mention it being in our bathrooms. I just now looked at the wiki site you posted. Gee, there is no end to the puzzles we must solve, is there? I have been exchanging e-mails with Dr. Falkinham who is a microbiologist at Va. Tech. He studies the pink 'slime', I will ask him tomorrow about that. Will get back to you about that one. Thanks for the tip-off.
@windwalker terri, I have read that the Serratia Marcescens also found in the shower. Its all so confusing. I hope you are correct.:)
@johnbishop Good morning John. I find myself re-reading Katherine's posts. Like you, I am learning from her how to respond better to our members. I hope today finds you well.
Good morning Terri (@windwalker)! I have been doing the same thing. It helps me focus on what's really important in life. I'm fortunate emough to be able to still be working and have a job that I can work from home. My "office" is a lower level room with a window next to my computer that I can look out and see all sorts of little critters and some big ones sometimes. I put a couple of bird feeders outside that are visible from the window so that I can take pictures of birds and more. Something always pops into view when I seem to need a little extra support for thinking.
John
Sorry, the picture is not showing for some reason. It was a really pretty yellow finch that just happened to drop by.
This is Pamela in Boston - I have just read today about Katherine's passing and I am devastated, like so many of you. Ling has expressed everything I am feeling right now. Katherine gave me hope, advice, love, and so much encouragement. Her constant daily emails were comforting and informative. I will always hear her voice as we continue on with our day to day challenges. Pamela
Terri - my heart goes out to you in hearing of Katherine's passing. You have done such an incredible job in helping us all process this sad event. I have only returned to the forum today after 3 months absence. I will give you a call soon but am travelling now and do not have your number.... will call once I get home, around the 25th of this month. Much love, Pamela
@ling123 that is where I read it also, will be great to be able to find out from Dr Falkinham through Terri, I have read some of his articles in the past and he is so knowledgeable in this field. Heather