Life after bilateral orchiectomy how do you cope

I had bilateral orchiectomy 7 years ago and had no counciling offered before or after surgery because it wasn't cancer related. I've had emotional problems dealing with this ever since. I don't fit into any support groups because of the surgeries were for medical reasons and not gender affirming or cancer related. I need help finding resources to deal with this. It would be nice to have someone who has experience this to talk to. The surgeries had many complications and healing took 9 months and had to use wound care clinic for 6 months. Everything that could go wrong did. Been dealing with this by myself with no support from anyone not even family.