I had a prostecomy at age 70 almost 2 years ago. Unfortunately the prostate pathology found both Cribriform and IDC. My PSA has been undetectable, but I'm a bit of a "worrier" by nature. My "pearle of wisdom" you asked about is that I've found that I don't worry as much when I focus on my gratitude for how many things have turned out well. Specifically, my cancer was found early, the surgery went well, I'm alive, pain free, and able to be physically active (long walks, hiking, etc). I'm continent, my ED was disappeared at 15 months, and without that old enlarged prostate I urinate like I'm 30 years younger. For me, frequently reflecting on how lucky I've been so far and how much worst it could have been. I can honestly say I acknowledge and appreciate the simple things in life more than before my diagnosis. For me this helps keep me from spending much time "looking over my shoulder" pondering if it returns, and it helps remind me to squeeze as much joy from each day as I can. Best wishes.