Staying Motivated for the Long Haul
My biggest obstacle to maintaining a healthy weight is a seemingly invisible "switch" that goes on and off in my brain. When it's "on" I am in the zone and can avoid the most decadent temptations and will exercise faithfully. But, about a year to 15 months into my healthy lifestyle, the switch turns to "off" and I lose focus and revert to my bad habits of poor food choices (both in what I eat and how much I eat) and I become more sedentary. I am at that point now and I feel a slow panic building as the number on the scale inches upward. I know what I should do, but I am at a loss as to how to get my mojo back. Suggestions, anyone!?
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@rosemarya - Reading your link and the few posts above I think what I need to get me through the long haul is someone to keep me accountable and preferably someone who eats well and exercises regularly - a heath mentor.
@fessmom - I was just watching a video on the Mayo website about obesity and the doctor described it as a chronic condition and that really hit me. I think of my kidney disease or diabetes as a chronic condition but those who constantly struggle with eating and exercising as we should might have a chronic condition with obesity (whether it is being obese or keeping it at bay). That does not solve my problem but it does change how I think about myself being overweight.
@contentandwell - Not that I am a specimen of health but I have heard that when you make a mistake (don't eat well or exercise) realize that tomorrow, or the afternoon, or the evening is new and you can get back on track. I used to think that I blew it one day so I'd keep eating poorly until the next day. I just need to acknowledge the mistake and not write off the rest of the day but start over immediately . I know it is easier said than done but it did help me to think all was lost and give up for the remainder of the day.
Jane, good luck at the club! I hope I didn't add more confusion to a topic that already has so much to think about. I actually began college studying exercise sciences and took some nutrition, exercise, and excercise planning courses.
You are correct in that BMR is the amount of calories your body theoretically burns just to maintain your current body. The more muscle tone you have, the higher your BMR is because muscles burn more calories.
The best way to burn fat, and keep it off long term, is to do excercises that get you breathing hard for longer periods than 2 minutes. Don't overdue it if you have any health concerns, but oxygen is what actually burns fat, so moderate excercise that elevates your heart rate and has you breathing a bit harder is what actually burns an animals fat deposits! This of course all goes hand-in-hand with a good diet. But, simply cutting calories is not always a long term solution! I hope this didn't muddy the waters more! These are the same things I struggle with daily. The diet is hardest for me as well.
@colleenyoung - I'm just getting involved in this conversation. I use MyPlate app to record food but I assume they are all quite similar. You will find that at first it is cumbersome to record but you will also learn that you probably tend to eat the same things (especially breakfast and lunch) and my app remembers what I ate previous days. This feature is helpful because my most recent foods pop up and I can just check the box instead of recording again. Also, MyPlate has a feature to scan the barcode which is great for a breakfast bar for example.
@JustinMcClanahan - thanks for sharing! I have never heard of BMR and that lack of knowledge might explain some, certainly not all, of my plateaus.
I should mention that I am definitely no expert and it is always best to consult with a professional nutritionist, trainer, or physical therapist. A personal tip for overcoming plateaus is to switch up your routine from week-to-week or every few weeks. I was taught that our bodies adapt to the same routines so we see great initial returns and gains but then slowly plateau. Finding ways to switch up your exercise routine is helpful to avoid plateauing!
@JustinMcClanahan - I'm aware switching routine is good but I struggle with that because I have a few things I like, or are comfortable with due to my weight and plantar fasciitis, so I'm in a bit of a rut. I know there is more I can do but it is a matter of taking the time to find new things and the courage to try. I really like lifting weights but I can't do too much due to cysts on my kidneys. Instead I try to use lighter weights and more reps and sets. Lack of consistency is my biggest downfall. Seems to be a theme here...
@colleenyoung The disinterest of your physician regarding your weight issues is surprising to me. My experiences have been much different. I agree that few physicians offer concrete, useful suggestions for losing weight. Almost every physician I have ever seen has commented on my weight, most to tell me to reduce to avoid negative consequences. My current long-term physician was the first one to just treat me for my illness without bringing up excess weight on our first meeting. That is a big part of why he has been my primary physician for over 30 years. I now understand that weight issues are rarely a huge focus of their training. His area of expertise is not weight loss and he refers to those who are experts for that. He has always noted my weight without lecturing and we have a good working relationship. He listens to my concerns and we work together toward my best health. Everyone should have such a physician in their corner.
I don't know what your weight goal is, but what you have already lost is impressive. Congratulations on your good work. I am glad to see that you are not using a fad diet, chemicals or starvation to reach your goals. I must admit that I am resistant to the technical aids now on the market. I become overwhelmed with all the entries, numbers, counting and research I need to get started and maintain these programs. I don't enjoy it and prefer my simple guidelines of: appropriate food lists, portion size, frequent small servings, appropriate exercise and chemical/preservatives limitations. I check my weight every morning. I know this is controversial but works for me, as I clearly and quickly see if I am off track within 2-3 days. If I wait a week, as some suggest, I may have been gaining for 6 days before getting that visual reminder. The scale is my honest friend now.
God bless us all as we walk our paths.
Thank you Justin for putting all of this in context and words that make sense:-)
Rosemary