Early dementia or just part of aging

Posted by cosynook @cosynook, Mar 3 8:43am

Hi! I’m 76 and have worried for years about getting dementia because many of the women in my mother’s family suffered from this. Since childhood I’ve always had what I describe as “ADD concerns” but never had a formal diagnosis. As an adult I considered this but never moved on it because as my husband always said “ Why? You multitask, never miss appointments or get confused driving etc.” But internally I knew I faked a lot. Now I can’t fake things. Now it’s noticeable as I have obvious difficulty remembering /retelling programs/ movies I watched the night before, spelling when I’ve always was a good speller and especially word recall…..I know what I want to use but just can’t recall it . How do I know what’s just an “ aging “ thing or signs of dementia? Does anyone have input or can direct me what to read about this. Thank you all!

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@jamessaxo
Would you be kind enough to recommend a reliable company to purchase B12? The one I've been using, Solgar, was bought awhile back by Nestle and reviews are concerning.
I constantly read Thorne is the best company but their B12, is only sold in uber high doses. I realize B12 is water soluble but there are also some drawbacks to such high doses. Unfortunately, they are capsules, not pills, so I can't break them up.
Thanks for any feedback.

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@glinda47 I got Mason Natural, 50mcg caps…hard to find low dose B12…I’m not supposed to do high dose…this way I can control the dose……@ Amazon. If anyone knows a better solution, let us know.

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@glinda47 I got Mason Natural, 50mcg caps…hard to find low dose B12…I’m not supposed to do high dose…this way I can control the dose……@ Amazon. If anyone knows a better solution, let us know.

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@nycmusic Thanks so much! I won't buy consumables from Amazon, but I'll see if the company sells them outright or from other places.
Best to you!!!!

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@rashida
One day at a time....I am about to turn 77 in May and trying to ignore the "word search" and name forgetfulness that was once no problem at all.
My mom was diagnosed at 82 and died at 86 as well. But she was covering up for a few years.
She did OK on her own but finally, it was quite obvious as she began to tell us people were breaking into her apt and we watched her struggle to use her keys.
It's horrible. I'm looking for ways to end things when I'm pretty sure I'm headed her way. No thanks.

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@glinda47 I’m 79 and notice I’m not recalling things! Good idea to have really good schedule on my phone. I find most times if I wait a few minutes the word will be recalled. I’m thinking as long as I don’t get lost or forget my name I’m OK. I never could remember people’s names!

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There are tests online you can do to check your own memory recall etc. The one I did was with a research group called Mind Crowd here is the link...
https://mindcrowd.org
I also use and feel like it's helped is MegaRed Krill oil 350mg and when I am wound up before bed I take Magnesium Glycinate 1/2 dose to get me to sleep. If I dont' sleep well I can be a bit off the next day too and Allergy season gives me brain fog also having a lot on my mind also causes me to feel forgetful. Here in Virginia if your Dr. gives you some dementia test and you fail he has to report you to DMV and you lose your license.

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My friend was in her mid 70's. She had always been a bit scattered. She knew something was really up when she lost where she parked her car a couple times. Had gone out to meet a friend. Ended up having to have friend drive her home and going back the next day to search for her car. That was her wake up call. Got rid of the car and went to the Dr for diagnosis.

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@glinda47 I’m 79 and notice I’m not recalling things! Good idea to have really good schedule on my phone. I find most times if I wait a few minutes the word will be recalled. I’m thinking as long as I don’t get lost or forget my name I’m OK. I never could remember people’s names!

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@alto22 Sounds normal to me, not a doc or anything, but recall does slow down for many of us as we age. If you've never been good at remembering names, I would not be concerned about that at all.

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@jamessaxo
Would you be kind enough to recommend a reliable company to purchase B12? The one I've been using, Solgar, was bought awhile back by Nestle and reviews are concerning.
I constantly read Thorne is the best company but their B12, is only sold in uber high doses. I realize B12 is water soluble but there are also some drawbacks to such high doses. Unfortunately, they are capsules, not pills, so I can't break them up.
Thanks for any feedback.

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I buy B12 in our local pharmacy here in NZ.
It's called METHYLCOBALAMIN.
COBA stands for cobalt.
Soil bacteria utilize it to make B12. Grazing animals eat grass coated with
soil so they absorb B12. But us elderly don't eat enough animal protein so
we have to take the supplement.Thats METHYLCOBALAMIN. Go for it.
James

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I buy B12 in our local pharmacy here in NZ.
It's called METHYLCOBALAMIN.
COBA stands for cobalt.
Soil bacteria utilize it to make B12. Grazing animals eat grass coated with
soil so they absorb B12. But us elderly don't eat enough animal protein so
we have to take the supplement.Thats METHYLCOBALAMIN. Go for it.
James

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@jamessaxo
Thank you, James!

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@jamessaxo
Thank you, James!

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@glinda47 methylcobalamin is a sublingual tablet, 1,000mg.

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Of course we all worry about this... and about arthritis, and cataracts, and...the list goes on. My daughter (they all spend a lot of effort researching all the stuff that could go wrong) recently informed me that wearing my hearing aids, since I have had them for years but seldom wear them, is a defense against encroaching dementia. I gave her my standard reply: "Huh?"

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@capnjack

It is absolutely true.
Multiple randomized valid professional studies done on the subject; not just some random internet opinion.

I wear hearing aides and don't even need them because when a person runs around not hearing clearly other people treat you differently or ignore you or think you are stupid and vain for not wearing hearing aides.

Thus you get isolated out of the main stream. In addition, the brain needs active, reliable stimulation to work properly, it uses hearing as that stimulation.

Besides, at some point if you are not wearing hearing aides you may step out into traffic and get hit by a car.

So not wearing hearing aides can shorten your quality life in many ways.

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