How, when, where do you start the liver transplant process?

Posted by shacquie @shacquie, Mar 21 8:09pm

Hi. My mom was admitted to the er and they said she has high ammonia levels, sent us home with lactulose. The soonest appointment to see a gastroentologest is in 15 more days. Has anyone heard of this?

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@shacquie
It took about six months. All the testing took 2-3 months, then I went to Mayo Clinic in Arizona for a week where they repeated many of the tests to confirm my diagnosis and determine if I was a fit for their program. A week after I got home, Mayo called me and said that I was now in their program and that I should come right back to Phoenix and settle in to wait. I was there two months before a match was made. Because of some challenges I stayed in Phoenix for two months after the transplant.

Waiting in Arizona was a challenge, especially in the summer, and we were tempted to go back home to wait. I live six hours away. But our dedicated nurse strongly told us that would be a mistake so we stayed. When I did get the call, the liver was already in route and I was told to get to the hospital in half an hour. What a relief that was. Waiting is really hard--your life is basically on hold.

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@deb2025 what a blessing 🙌 your story gives me hope. I feel very in the dark right now. Since she's swollen and being forgetful as time passes. No gastro available for 6 more days. Its a nightmare. It feels like forever. Im afraid to take her to the er here, we dont have much. Im afraid to drive all the way there and be turned away. Then come back across the hot Arizona desert with a sick mom.

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@pgruetz
I can definitely recommend Mayo Clinic in Phoenix. They explain everything, and guide you step by step. It's important to have a team that is so well versed in the whole process.

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@deb2025 thats exactly what I would love to have. I hear everyone thrilled with Mayo in Phoenix.

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@deb2025 My situation was identical to Debs but in 2024. Testing at home 3 months. Then Mayo did testing on me in AZ for a week. Less than a month later I was added. Lucked out and they had a match a month later and we flew down to AZ again. Transplant went well but needed to stay in AZ for two months before they would release me. The days were hot but we came out to the pool more after the sun went down. We met 6 families going through the liver transplant process staying at the same hotel and my wife still keeps in touch with them. Mayo was great in every way. Five of the six transplant patients in our little group are doing well 2 years later. Here's to hoping you guys can work out the same. Best of luck. Prayers up.

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@craigcraig thank you for your story, it helps soo much. Did you have aceities during the time while you were waiting?

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@shacquie my husband has allstate medical insurance and Medicare l, so we paid 126.00. I don’t know the price before insurance. However before we were on Medicare, I always asked for a payment plan.

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@woodstock1959 can you order an insurance in a situation like this or once your sick carriers won't pick you up?

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@shacquie my husband slept a lot. He was always freezing too. If she starts to have problems breathing, that’s the aceites. She would need to get a paracentisis. They put a little tube in the belly and siphon the fluid out. You need to take her to a good liver specialist. She probably needs to get on the transplant list.

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@woodstock1959 yes she's always cold it seems. I wish we could move the process along before any of that.

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@craigcraig thank you for your story, it helps soo much. Did you have aceities during the time while you were waiting?

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@shacquie Hi. No. A few other things but not that. Hang in there.

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@woodstock1959
This surgery takes a huge mental toll on the organ recipient. I wasn’t used to many medications and had fairly severe brain fog because of them. The first month was the worse. Six months later and I still notice it sometimes but only for a minute or two. I know it’s obvious to others. There is also the emotional impact of living with someone else’s organ: being grateful and sad simultaneously. Your husband needs a lot more time and healing.

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@deb2025 thank you! 🙏 I am hoping everything will be better.

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@woodstock1959 yes she's always cold it seems. I wish we could move the process along before any of that.

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@shacquie I hope and pray that you can get her some help.

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@woodstock1959 can you order an insurance in a situation like this or once your sick carriers won't pick you up?

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@shacquie I know that in Texas you have to wait for enrollment period November thru January is our enrollment period. Not sure how your State works. Can she get on disability? That might help

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@pgruetz I think you are right. Im clinching my teeth, not sleeping, not eating as the hours pass until we can see someone here. The days go on and on, feels like forever. Meanwhile I have mo idea what's going on in her belly. She seems to be a tad bit more absent minded as the days go by.

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@shacquie
Hang tight and get to the right doctor my first one said I will never get a liver and go home and basically die my daughter was with me and equally appalled so a few days later something hit me so bad and called my girlfriend that lives in Washington state and said I’ll fly you down and you need me to take me to the hospital in Santa Barbara the next morning she picked me up at that point I couldn’t drive and was admitted immediately and was given 5 days to live at that point I realized this is serious. After many months in and out of ICU 7 months later I received my new liver. The whole time my acites was really bad. I wouldn’t put it off and hear the right thing from the right doctor they’re not all the same. 3 years later today I can actually do a freestyle stroke in the pool again, I always look at any gain is a big gain so get going on the road to recovery

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