How, when, where do you start the liver transplant process?

Posted by shacquie @shacquie, Mar 21 8:09pm

Hi. My mom was admitted to the er and they said she has high ammonia levels, sent us home with lactulose. The soonest appointment to see a gastroentologest is in 15 more days. Has anyone heard of this?

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@pgruetz thats an incredible story. Thank you so much for sharing with me. I really appreciate it. Your story is similar to what im going through right now. Its incredibly hard to get an appointment with anyone. Her gastroentologist is on vacation till the end of the month and doesn't have anyone else she can see there. Ive thought of driving to Mayo in Phoenix because its the nicest closet hospital to us. Only 6 hours.

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@shacquie
100% I would make the drive Mayo Clinic is set up to stay there and your caregiver it’s way better set up than my hospital was I would have your general practitioner refer you to them or call them , the bigger hospital the better for such a extreme surgeries it’s a 3lb organ the largest except the skin I’ll keep you in my prayers

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@deb2025 than you for responding to me, im so grateful for everyone on this website. How long did it take for you to get a new liver?

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@shacquie
It took about six months. All the testing took 2-3 months, then I went to Mayo Clinic in Arizona for a week where they repeated many of the tests to confirm my diagnosis and determine if I was a fit for their program. A week after I got home, Mayo called me and said that I was now in their program and that I should come right back to Phoenix and settle in to wait. I was there two months before a match was made. Because of some challenges I stayed in Phoenix for two months after the transplant.

Waiting in Arizona was a challenge, especially in the summer, and we were tempted to go back home to wait. I live six hours away. But our dedicated nurse strongly told us that would be a mistake so we stayed. When I did get the call, the liver was already in route and I was told to get to the hospital in half an hour. What a relief that was. Waiting is really hard--your life is basically on hold.

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@shacquie
100% I would make the drive Mayo Clinic is set up to stay there and your caregiver it’s way better set up than my hospital was I would have your general practitioner refer you to them or call them , the bigger hospital the better for such a extreme surgeries it’s a 3lb organ the largest except the skin I’ll keep you in my prayers

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@pgruetz
I can definitely recommend Mayo Clinic in Phoenix. They explain everything, and guide you step by step. It's important to have a team that is so well versed in the whole process.

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@shacquie
It took about six months. All the testing took 2-3 months, then I went to Mayo Clinic in Arizona for a week where they repeated many of the tests to confirm my diagnosis and determine if I was a fit for their program. A week after I got home, Mayo called me and said that I was now in their program and that I should come right back to Phoenix and settle in to wait. I was there two months before a match was made. Because of some challenges I stayed in Phoenix for two months after the transplant.

Waiting in Arizona was a challenge, especially in the summer, and we were tempted to go back home to wait. I live six hours away. But our dedicated nurse strongly told us that would be a mistake so we stayed. When I did get the call, the liver was already in route and I was told to get to the hospital in half an hour. What a relief that was. Waiting is really hard--your life is basically on hold.

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@deb2025 My situation was identical to Debs but in 2024. Testing at home 3 months. Then Mayo did testing on me in AZ for a week. Less than a month later I was added. Lucked out and they had a match a month later and we flew down to AZ again. Transplant went well but needed to stay in AZ for two months before they would release me. The days were hot but we came out to the pool more after the sun went down. We met 6 families going through the liver transplant process staying at the same hotel and my wife still keeps in touch with them. Mayo was great in every way. Five of the six transplant patients in our little group are doing well 2 years later. Here's to hoping you guys can work out the same. Best of luck. Prayers up.

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@woodstock1959 thank yoy for sharing your story. It sounds like it was. Nightmare, exactly how I feel right now. Once you went to the ER that day, what was the prices for you there and from there?

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@shacquie my husband has allstate medical insurance and Medicare l, so we paid 126.00. I don’t know the price before insurance. However before we were on Medicare, I always asked for a payment plan.

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@woodstock1959 we can drive. No doctors say much here. I can take her to mayo clinic 6 hours away. Shes a tiny lady and her belly just swelled up the size of a volley ball last week. The lactulose has helped bring it down a bit about half the size but no completely and it seems to have bloated a bit more since yesterday. But she's not delirious or confused like she was anymore. We are both very sleepy, im exhausted so I cant tell if she's overly sleepy in a danger zone or just tired from the stress of this.

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@shacquie my husband slept a lot. He was always freezing too. If she starts to have problems breathing, that’s the aceites. She would need to get a paracentisis. They put a little tube in the belly and siphon the fluid out. You need to take her to a good liver specialist. She probably needs to get on the transplant list.

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@woodstock1959 yes. Six months ago.

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@deb2025 hi how was your post operative healing? Day 11 and my husband is still not mentally stable. Did you have anything like that?

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@pgruetz thats an incredible story. Thank you so much for sharing with me. I really appreciate it. Your story is similar to what im going through right now. Its incredibly hard to get an appointment with anyone. Her gastroentologist is on vacation till the end of the month and doesn't have anyone else she can see there. Ive thought of driving to Mayo in Phoenix because its the nicest closet hospital to us. Only 6 hours.

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@shacquie, before driving to Mayo Clinic, I recommend calling to request an appoinitment. https://mayocl.in/1mtmR63

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@deb2025 hi how was your post operative healing? Day 11 and my husband is still not mentally stable. Did you have anything like that?

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@woodstock1959
This surgery takes a huge mental toll on the organ recipient. I wasn’t used to many medications and had fairly severe brain fog because of them. The first month was the worse. Six months later and I still notice it sometimes but only for a minute or two. I know it’s obvious to others. There is also the emotional impact of living with someone else’s organ: being grateful and sad simultaneously. Your husband needs a lot more time and healing.

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@shacquie
100% I would make the drive Mayo Clinic is set up to stay there and your caregiver it’s way better set up than my hospital was I would have your general practitioner refer you to them or call them , the bigger hospital the better for such a extreme surgeries it’s a 3lb organ the largest except the skin I’ll keep you in my prayers

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@pgruetz I think you are right. Im clinching my teeth, not sleeping, not eating as the hours pass until we can see someone here. The days go on and on, feels like forever. Meanwhile I have mo idea what's going on in her belly. She seems to be a tad bit more absent minded as the days go by.

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