Making the best out of what I have: Meet @drsharon

Mar 12 8:00am | Teresa, Volunteer Mentor | @hopeful33250 | Comments (25)

Painting of a rose by member @drsharon

TERESA: What brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect?

@drsharon: I found Mayo Clinic Connect when I was trying to understand what was happening to me and why I felt so sick. I have been referring to the Mayo Clinic website for years and trusted their advice and somehow happened upon Mayo Clinic Connect. I read the stories and not only learned things, it made me realize there were many others going through similar issues.

TERESA: What motivates you to take part in Mayo Clinic Connect?

@drsharon: I started taking part in the community when I realized I might be able to help other people learn some of the things I have learned, just as I have learned from other people‘s experiences. As a health professional (dentist), I was forced to stop working very suddenly due to asthma caused by external irritants. I really miss being able to help people and make a difference.

TERESA: What about Mayo Clinic Connect makes you feel comfortable to share and to be open with the community?

@drsharon: I think the community is very honest and is just trying to cope with difficult and limiting situations. I share many of their issues.

TERESA: What support groups do you participate in?

@drsharon: On Mayo Clinic Connect, I take part in the discussions in these support groups:

Outside of Mayo Clinic Connect, I follow art groups and take EdX courses.

TERESA: Tell us about a meaningful moment you've experienced on Mayo Clinic Connect. 

@drsharon: I found it quite meaningful when I realized that other people were dealing with the same issues. It is difficult when you have to limit yourself and stay home when you really want to go out. Living with asthma, it’s difficult when some people don’t understand and won’t make changes to help, such as removing scented candles or not wearing perfume. Sharing strategies and helping others to recognize that these items are also unhealthy for everyone is important. Being connected and not alone really helps.

TERESA: What surprised you the most about Mayo Clinic Connect?

@drsharon: I was surprised by the number of people out there dealing with the daily challenges of asthma. I don’t know anyone else personally.

TERESA: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?

@drsharon: My family and friends are really supportive and make sure that their homes are safe for me which helps a lot. I like to cook and have people over. I also have my art and my art teacher is making the studio safe for me (hopefully). I exercise and read and try to live as full a life as possible.

TERESA: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity.

@drsharon: My favourite pastime (or obsession) is realist art, from portraits to still life. I like challenges.

TERESA: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?

@drsharon: I guess my favourite life motto is to never give up. Keep fighting to live my best life and make the best out of what I have. It could be a lot worse.

TERESA: What do you appreciate the most in your friends? 

@drsharon: My friends and my family have been my rocks through this journey and I’m so grateful for them.

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I have a friend who has taken up painting. He had a learning curve with what he was painting and has gotten much better. I love his work when the painting tells a story. Sometimes he tells a well known story and sometimes he "had a dream". For instance he did a painting around 2002-4 of a forest and a river. Two groups of men were in the picture. One on horseback and the other in canoes on the river. On the far side of the river is an Indian (Native American) village. I looked at the painting and immediately said, "Lewis and Clark expedition on the Yellowstone River." He replied, "How did you know that?" I said, "the expedition was two hundred years ago and the government is trying to make a big thing of it.

To me, Still Life is just that, while your painting may be a study of color and brush stroke. I want a story.

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@drsharon - thank you so much for your willingness to share your story. I think that needing to leave a profession one loved due to health reasons may be a common thread among many members on Mayo Clinic Connect and one others can relate to. You have made this transition, though painful, I'm sure, with grace, and seem to be making the absolute best of it. Your art is a testament to that.

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Thanks Lisa, Finding this site has been. gift for me. Many of us have been overwhelmed and confused by our symptoms and there is comfort in sharing. It took me way too long to realize all my symptoms were coming from scents and chemical exposures and learning there were a lot of people with the same issues. Figuring out how to cope with our limitations is a challenge but we all do the best we can. I spent some time this morning making homemade creams as I react badly to those same chemicals on my skin. Surprisingly easy and very satisfying! Have a wonderful day!

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I have a friend who has taken up painting. He had a learning curve with what he was painting and has gotten much better. I love his work when the painting tells a story. Sometimes he tells a well known story and sometimes he "had a dream". For instance he did a painting around 2002-4 of a forest and a river. Two groups of men were in the picture. One on horseback and the other in canoes on the river. On the far side of the river is an Indian (Native American) village. I looked at the painting and immediately said, "Lewis and Clark expedition on the Yellowstone River." He replied, "How did you know that?" I said, "the expedition was two hundred years ago and the government is trying to make a big thing of it.

To me, Still Life is just that, while your painting may be a study of color and brush stroke. I want a story.

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@rollingf Thanks for your insights! As an artist I paint what speaks to me and while all my subjects are completely different, from portraits to still life to cafe scenes, they are all about kindness and love. The flower was part of a Mother's Day gift from my daughter and means a great deal to me. The fact that it is alone is undoubtedly significant. Every artist is saying something. What people see in the art may be very different. I'm glad your friend is exploring painting.

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Hello @drsharon,

I am so glad that you agreed to be interviewed for a Connect Spotlight. It was a pleasure working with you! Your retirement has allowed you to make a difference in the lives of many people who walk the halls of the Asthma/Allergy support group. Thanks for your desire to share your experiences and to encourage others. I have certainly benefited from your knowledgeable and helpful posts!

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@hopeful33250 Hi Teresa, You've been terrific and so helpful! Thanks for all you do!

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Profile picture for SusanEllen66 Susan McMichael @SusanEllen66

@drsharon thank you for sharing your experiences.
I have cough variant asthma. I’m not sure how it is affecting my breathing, but I know it is. All my scans are very good.
I started painting in 2020 when I was 70. I love abstract paintings. For me, I swipe paint on a canvas, board, or paper. then stare at it until I see an idea. It’s like looking at the sky and seeing the cloud elephant.
My favorite medium is watercolor followed by acrylic and alcohol ink.
Painting when you have tremors can be frustrating. I have a neurological disorder. It is frustrating.

Again, thanks for sharing your story with us.

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@SusanEllen66 I hope I'm sending this to the correct party, if not, the content can be properly routed to the right person (thank you Mayo Moniitors) Just in case.

Re the artist: Way to be you.!! Luv that you have such a strong motivation. Since you luv abstract then mentioned tremors it made me think hmm, Let your tremors help you make some of the art. Beautiful colors, motion, unexpected 'holy cows'. Now I wanna see a sample. Omg, keep arting lovely lady.

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@drsharon Thanks for sharing your story. Scents assault us in every day life in so many situations it must be challenging for people such as yourself to try to avoid many such experiences and educate others. Glad you've found an outlet in art - perhaps you can share some of your creative endeavors here with us!

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@SusanEllen66 I hope I'm sending this to the correct party, if not, the content can be properly routed to the right person (thank you Mayo Moniitors) Just in case.

Re the artist: Way to be you.!! Luv that you have such a strong motivation. Since you luv abstract then mentioned tremors it made me think hmm, Let your tremors help you make some of the art. Beautiful colors, motion, unexpected 'holy cows'. Now I wanna see a sample. Omg, keep arting lovely lady.

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@ellesea01 thank you, yes you have the correct person.

Tremors are affecting me in many places. Typing is especially difficult.
I am attaching a sample of my “art”

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Profile picture for SusanEllen66 Susan McMichael @SusanEllen66

@ellesea01 thank you, yes you have the correct person.

Tremors are affecting me in many places. Typing is especially difficult.
I am attaching a sample of my “art”

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@SusanEllen66. Wow, thank you for sending these pics. The Color schemes in both are beautiful. Impressive too.

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Profile picture for SusanEllen66 Susan McMichael @SusanEllen66

@ellesea01 thank you, yes you have the correct person.

Tremors are affecting me in many places. Typing is especially difficult.
I am attaching a sample of my “art”

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@SusanEllen66 Gorgeous colors! People who use bright colors in artwork, the clothes they choose to wear and how they decorate their living spaces - in my opinion - are more optimistic, trying to emphasize the positive.

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