Panic Attack? How to manage?

Posted by sultanvr @sultanvr, Apr 9, 2025

Hello,
I recently, last handful of months have not felt well on and off. Adrenaline burst, blood pressure sometimes going up, heart beating fast, feeling light headed.

Went to doctor. She checked my heart rate, blood pressure, listened to things, said they were all normal, then asked about stress.

I shared that I had some heavy stresses. She immediately wrote off my complaints telling me to make sure I am eating correctly, work on controlling your stress, no need to rerun tests.

I left feeling doubtful and still worried. I called back and asked if we could rerun tests from January for my peace of mind. The answer was no, see someone for your stress and maybe you aren't getting enough sleep, how about a referral to a sleep study?

Long story to ask my questions...does panic attacks just start out of the blue?

Is there recommendations from anyone on how to stop it immediately?

It hits and then it escalates as I start to worry am I having a medical emergency.

I have been trying to breathe deeply and focus on something else, but it isn't being very effective.

Suggestions would be welcomed.

I needed to sign out of work today because of it.

Thank you.

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Profile picture for ymca49 @ymca49

I started having panic attacks in 2014 when I was caring for my brother and my father …both dying. I understand so well the horrible physical feelings….you would chew off your own arm if it would make it stop. My doc gave me clonazepam “ just in case I couldn’t handle it and to help keep me out of ER……..I scoured the internet for help and found the D.A.R.E program by Barry Mcdonagh
You can get his book on Amazon and download the app for free. I swear it is the only thing that helped me! I have given his book to several friends . His belief…the more you run from your anxiety the worse it will be and he is so right! The free app has daily recordings . I hope you will check this out and I hope it helps you ! Sending a hug your way

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@ ymca49
Wanted to add. I very seldom have to take the clonazepam…my doc said as long as you know you have it as a last resort…you won’t need it and she was so right! It’s just my security blanket but I can handle it on my own now thanks to D.A.R.E

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@ ymca49
Wanted to add. I very seldom have to take the clonazepam…my doc said as long as you know you have it as a last resort…you won’t need it and she was so right! It’s just my security blanket but I can handle it on my own now thanks to D.A.R.E

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@ymca49
What is D.A.R.E.? I 'm having break through symptoms (very unpleasant) and want t to get of .5 mg of clon after being on them for four months. I can't find any to give me a taper schedule that seems safe. I am 81. How did you do it?

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Profile picture for lma84 @lma84

I suffer from anxiety, and I had a panic attack on Wed night (so 2 nights ago), out of the blue! Sweating, nauseous, light-headed, doom & gloom, dreading usual every day things, spaced out... as it all goes with these things. I haven't had one like it for years, and wondering if anyone could tell me how long the affects last? I feel a lot better, just not quite myself yet... still a bit out of it and have the waves of doom come over me every now & again.

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First of all the clonazepam was given to me for emergency’s only so I didn’t have to taper off….knowing I had them made me work through it myself. So I would sometimes take 1/2 pill. But nothing on a daily basis at all. Google D.A.R.E with Barry Mcdonagh…….Barry suffered from anxiety for years…tried everything and finally came up with this program himself. I ordered lots of books off Amazon looking for help but nothing made a Difference until I found this one. There is a paperback inexpensive on amazon ….there is a free app that has lots of info and stories and affirmations…..I listen to it every night as I fall asleep…..I hope you will check it out and I hope you can find some peace……I will add the one line I read in the book that helped me the most was “the thought of a tiger…is NOT a tiger”. It’s just thoughts…nervous energy……..you are safe.

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@ymca49
What is D.A.R.E.? I 'm having break through symptoms (very unpleasant) and want t to get of .5 mg of clon after being on them for four months. I can't find any to give me a taper schedule that seems safe. I am 81. How did you do it?

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Hi @gunshy - very unpleasant breakthrough symptoms do not sound fun at all, nor does not feeling as though you have a safe taper schedule.

I've personally found the pharmacist who dispensed my antianxiety medication very helpful in not only knowing what to expect ramping up onto the medication (e.g., how long till it works, what side effects and for how long I might expect them to last) and for tapering off and what to expect. I'd suggest trying them.

Have you by chance asked the pharmacist? If so, what did they suggest?

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Profile picture for lma84 @lma84

I suffer from anxiety, and I had a panic attack on Wed night (so 2 nights ago), out of the blue! Sweating, nauseous, light-headed, doom & gloom, dreading usual every day things, spaced out... as it all goes with these things. I haven't had one like it for years, and wondering if anyone could tell me how long the affects last? I feel a lot better, just not quite myself yet... still a bit out of it and have the waves of doom come over me every now & again.

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Not yet, but I will do so.

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Profile picture for ymca49 @ymca49

I started having panic attacks in 2014 when I was caring for my brother and my father …both dying. I understand so well the horrible physical feelings….you would chew off your own arm if it would make it stop. My doc gave me clonazepam “ just in case I couldn’t handle it and to help keep me out of ER……..I scoured the internet for help and found the D.A.R.E program by Barry Mcdonagh
You can get his book on Amazon and download the app for free. I swear it is the only thing that helped me! I have given his book to several friends . His belief…the more you run from your anxiety the worse it will be and he is so right! The free app has daily recordings . I hope you will check this out and I hope it helps you ! Sending a hug your way

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@ymca49 Thank you so much for this recommendation, I have downloaded it and started listening. I get so consumed by my anxiety and stuck in my own head & thoughts, I find it hard to even focus on every day things! Yet it all sits there waiting to be done! I am hoping this DARE approach will help.... thank you again

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Profile picture for lma84 @lma84

I suffer from anxiety, and I had a panic attack on Wed night (so 2 nights ago), out of the blue! Sweating, nauseous, light-headed, doom & gloom, dreading usual every day things, spaced out... as it all goes with these things. I haven't had one like it for years, and wondering if anyone could tell me how long the affects last? I feel a lot better, just not quite myself yet... still a bit out of it and have the waves of doom come over me every now & again.

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Stick with it. I read the book several times and highlighted things that were important to me and I listened to things on the app daily and it started to sink in and give me some relief … I hope it does for you as well. Keep me posted and if I can help I will.

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Profile picture for lma84 @lma84

I suffer from anxiety, and I had a panic attack on Wed night (so 2 nights ago), out of the blue! Sweating, nauseous, light-headed, doom & gloom, dreading usual every day things, spaced out... as it all goes with these things. I haven't had one like it for years, and wondering if anyone could tell me how long the affects last? I feel a lot better, just not quite myself yet... still a bit out of it and have the waves of doom come over me every now & again.

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To me, that also sounds like a shame spiral. Do you have a therapist or go to any groups? CoDA online is very helpful.

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Profile picture for lma84 @lma84

I suffer from anxiety, and I had a panic attack on Wed night (so 2 nights ago), out of the blue! Sweating, nauseous, light-headed, doom & gloom, dreading usual every day things, spaced out... as it all goes with these things. I haven't had one like it for years, and wondering if anyone could tell me how long the affects last? I feel a lot better, just not quite myself yet... still a bit out of it and have the waves of doom come over me every now & again.

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Thank you so much. Did you feel like you were saying 'so what I accept this feeling' all day at first??

I had been doing really well, and then the panic attack last week has set me off on a spiral of thoughts and symptoms 🙃😐 all I can think about is my anxiety!

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Profile picture for ymca49 @ymca49

Stick with it. I read the book several times and highlighted things that were important to me and I listened to things on the app daily and it started to sink in and give me some relief … I hope it does for you as well. Keep me posted and if I can help I will.

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@ymca49 Thank you. Sorry I did add another comment/question, but it didn't save under here.

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