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At 82 years of age must I assume that my sex life has expired?

Posted by glenner075 @glenner075, Jun 14 7:43pm

I have not experienced an orgasm and five years! Perhaps it is A result of my 82 years of age. Though my wife still is irritated at my Response to other woman. Are there some things that we can do that approximates sexual activity? She is a beautiful wife, but very limited in her attitude about touching, feeling and love making. I need recommendations as to how I can get past this part of my life? I admit, however, that I cannot fulfill her because of my ED is there a difference between libido and orgasm? If at 82 it is likely that I have surpassed the good years of my sex life……. then I interest need to be told. Thanks.

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jimgaudette | @jimgaudette | Jun 28 4:07pm
In reply to @glenner075 "Jim, thank you so profoundly for your experience. I fear leaving Cymbalta would have consequences for..." + (show)
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Jim, thank you so profoundly for your experience. I fear leaving Cymbalta
would have consequences for me. However, based on your experience, I at
least, ought to talk with my psychiatrist. I would love to have an increase
in my libido and feel the beauty of orgasms again.. Thanks, Glenn.

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Probably the best remedy for anxiety and depression is exercise.

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jimgaudette | @jimgaudette | Jun 28 4:20pm
In reply to @glenner075 "Jim, Sensitivity is key alright. Was your Surgeon a Urologist?" + (show)
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Jim, Sensitivity is key alright. Was your Surgeon a Urologist?

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Yes

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jimgaudette | @jimgaudette | Jun 28 4:24pm

The most important part of intimacy is mutuality. Work together with your wife to find out what works for both of you. My wife and I had what we called “lesbian sex” for three years before I had my penile implant. Where there is a will, there is a way. Work on this as a team. You and your wife will discover new and pleasurable things. Be patient and be loving 🥰

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jimgaudette | @jimgaudette | Jun 28 4:27pm

Neither an erection nor ejaculation are necessary to have an orgasm.

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ljkljk | @ljkljk | 4 days ago
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I am 78 and while I have ED due to radiation for prostate cancer, I still have desire for orgasm and quality sexual intercourse. I enjoy an orgasm in any way it occurs. I have started using a Vacuum Erection Device (pump) to increase my erections to 100% hardness. It does work. I use viagra in advance to assure blood flow to the penis and after an hour I apply the VED to obtain a quality erection which is more than adequate for great sex. I have also started to use TRI-MIX injections and an alternative to the VED. It produces a very high quality erection even without stimulation. It does require a little more calibration of dosage, which your urologist and specify. These erections last at least an hour if desired. I suggest you ask your Dr. to help you out.

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@cageykg My husband also had radiation and hormones and treatment for prostate cancer when he was 65. Then he didn't have sex with me for 13 years but I think he was having sex somewhere. We sort of reconnected later but he could never get hard enough to penetrate even with Viagra, etc. That was disappointing but he can orgasm with a very soft penis and he seems to enjoy it. He doesn't mind giving me oral although it has always been very difficult for me to orgasm with a man. I usually have multiple (3-8) through masturbation that are extremely intense. I am 78 now. Congratulations on finding a solution to your erections. Guess we didn't do enough investigating.

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jamessaxo | @jamessaxo | 3 days ago

I am 83.get a good boner during night often. My wife is not responsive, and unattractive. I have visited a sex worker every month for 10 yrs. Run and walk every other day . I take daily vit D supplement. Look up low vit D . Good luck
Thomas

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stew80 | @stew80 | 3 days ago
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I am 83.get a good boner during night often. My wife is not responsive, and unattractive. I have visited a sex worker every month for 10 yrs. Run and walk every other day . I take daily vit D supplement. Look up low vit D . Good luck
Thomas

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@jamessaxo Not responsive and unattractive? Hmm - I wonder what she would say about you.

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