I just have to tell you this separately

H and I are pretty much by ourselves going through old age. As I have said, his adult daughter lives 5 miles away and never shows - once this year when she wanted H to give her son our zero turn lawnmower because he just bought a house and needed one. Her conclusion was that since H has a difficult time, she should give it FREE to her adult son and, ready?, we should HIRE someone to come and cut the lawn once or twice a week!

But I digress. The reason for this post is to say that there are good people out there. We have a really good neighbor across the street. This evening he watched for my H to hobble out to take the garbage can to the street (we have a good distance driveway) and came out to do it for him!
When H came in and told me that I started to cry. His daughter won't do a darn thing for him because she is too busy, etc., but the guy across the street does something like this.

The neighbor's dad is about H's age and has walking problems too. In fact he fractured his hip and broke his arm this week in a fall. They spent the week up in Indianapolis where he is being treated until they get him into a nursing home.
By contrast his daughter, when he was in the hospital 16 months ago for a heart issue, only came by to try to get him to sign a new will leaving everything to her. Sorry, the difference is so great I just had to tell someone.

This neighbor has done things for us in the past, like shovel the snow off the driveway, and sometimes he beats H out in cutting the grass. This is a religious man who lives his religion and the world needs more like him.

I can tell you that this neighbor will bring the trash can back before we even get up in the morning. He has done that for us before. He asks for nothing and will take nothing.

As I said, quite a contrast between him and H's daughter who is either too busy or wants something for free.