Living with colorectal cancer - Meet others & come say hi

Welcome to the Colorectal Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with colorectal cancer or caring for someone with colorectal cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I'm Colleen, and I'm the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you'll to be greeted by fellow members and volunteer patient Mentors, when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
Let's chat. Why not start by introducing yourself?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Colorectal Cancer Support Group.

@memorae12

I am from Neenah, WI. I had 14 inches of colon removed 4-1-86. I am doing very well. I have colonoscopies every 5 years with no recurrence. I did not have chemo. I have had over 50 skin cancers including 2 melanomas and all of it has gone well with no chemo. Mayo Clinic keeps special records of my cancers because of my history. I hope everyone could do as well as I have done.

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@memorae12 thank you for sharing your success story. It gives hope to many of us who have gone through a similar situation.
I had a foot of my colon removed at Mayo Clinic a little over 2 yrs ago. I did not have any other treatments. Plus i am being watched for follicular lymphoma.
I think having a great team.of doctors is a big life saver. God bless

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@jinatolle

Hi everyone! I was diagnosed stage 4 in July of 2016. Since my diagnosis, I’ve been seen at MD Anderson, had an orange sized primary tumor in my colon removed and 16 lymph nodes, had a port placed, had my spleen and gall bladder removed, had a hepatic artery pump placed at UPMC in Pittsburgh (to help with a football sized tumor in my liver), I had my port removed, the hepatic pump removed and so far dominated 27 rounds of chemo (avastin, oxyoplatin, and 5FU...different combinations at different times), and currently battling two nodules in my right lung.

I am a mom to a 15 year old and a ten year old and I am married to the love of my life. I was given a terrible life expectancy at my initial oncology appointment, but I told my doctor I would be her patient a long, LONG time whether she liked it or not! Ha! I asked her at the same appointment what the difference maker would be in tackling this disease: nutrition? hydration? Exercise? Rest? Do you know what she said? ATTITUDE!

I am praying each of you are winning the fight against this monster! I have never joined a chat forum so I’m anxious to see how we can all help and encourage each other!! Here’s to kicking this in the tail!!

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My husband was diagnosed stage 4 over 6.5 years ago with cancer of colon, liver and eventually to lungs, he had piece of colon removed 3/4 of his liver removed that had grown back and then for his lungs he had cyber knife(a very pinpointed radiation ) to more than 8 tumors in the lungs. He had chemo for 6 months then another round via Xelida (pill form of chemo ) for a few months. He has a great attitude and we have traveled many places internationally during this period enjoying life. His next step is genomic testing to see if he qualifies for keytruda which is an immunotherapy that has been apprived for colon cancer. Hope this helps someone and continue with that great attitude.

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@rayleemorris

Hi. I'm Ray from Fort Worth, Tx. Diagnosed in Dec 2010 with colorectal cancer. Underwent six weeks of radiation. Doctors said they killed it off. Three month CT and all's well. Six month CT and the camcer is back. Time for surgery and a osotomy! Sep 2011, sixteen hour surgery remove rectum, six inches of colon, and prostrate. Osotomy on left side of bellybutton. Sucks. 13 lymph nodes removed. One showed signs of cancer. MRI showed cancer spread to lungs. Nov 2011 started chemo for metastized colorectal cancer in my lungs. Have been on chemo every other week ever since, less a few "chemo breaks" now and then to let my body rest. Multiple nodules in both lungs. Cancer is rare. Less than 1% get it. Aggressive, rare, and no cure. CT scans every three months. Cancer grows 2 - 3 mm each scan. Luckily it's not spreading, just continues to grow. I'm on the last chemo known to help control it. I'm running out of options... and time. Really infuriating thinking money controls cancer cures. Hopefully I'm wrong, but when your days are numbered you start blaming, even God. I'm a Christian and know it's God's plan for all of us to be going through our ordeals. God loves us and never gives us more than we can handle. WE ARE ALL STRONG WARRIORS IN OUR FIGHT AGAINST CANCER. Maybe there's a purpose we have this disease. Hopefully someday it will reveal itself. I'm just glad it happened to me and not someone I love. I can handle it, just wish doctors could find a cure, or at least a way to stop it's growth. Blessings to you all.

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Hey @rayleemorris
I know what you mean by an Earth Angel. Being a caregiver is no small task. When my Dad was in treatment our routine was, my mom takes care of my Dad and I take care of Mom, the caregiver. I'm glad to hear that neuropathy was reversed for you after stopping oxaliplatin. You wouldn't think that numbness could be so debilitating, but it is. In fact, we have a whole group dedicated to neuropathy of all causes on Connect.

Do you ever take chemo vacations, in other words, breaks from treatment?

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Hi I had stage 3 colorectal cancer in March of 2016, with 29 days of radiation and chemo. My resection of 1 foot colon removed July 2016. I had a bowel blocakage August 2016 and had emergency surgery to remove scar tissue and blockage and then a reversal of my illesostomy in September of 2016. My question is after all of this and almost two years out now I still have 1 day a week where I feel colon spasms along with clustering and after one to two days of this I am just exhausted. It resembles Krohnes disease and I wanted to know if anyone else had similar issues and what they do when issues like this happen?

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@jrsmarkey

Hi I had stage 3 colorectal cancer in March of 2016, with 29 days of radiation and chemo. My resection of 1 foot colon removed July 2016. I had a bowel blocakage August 2016 and had emergency surgery to remove scar tissue and blockage and then a reversal of my illesostomy in September of 2016. My question is after all of this and almost two years out now I still have 1 day a week where I feel colon spasms along with clustering and after one to two days of this I am just exhausted. It resembles Krohnes disease and I wanted to know if anyone else had similar issues and what they do when issues like this happen?

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Hi @jrsmarkey and welcome to Connect. I'm tagging a few other members - @brenz @mikendale @jinatolle @memorae12 - of the Colorectal cancer group to see if they have experienced colon spasms and clustering.

While we wait for others to respond, jrsmarkey, can you tell me a bit more about the spasms? You mention that they happen about once a week. Have you been able to determine what triggers them or if there's a pattern associated with them? Have you doctors suggested what might be the cause?

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@jrsmarkey

Hi I had stage 3 colorectal cancer in March of 2016, with 29 days of radiation and chemo. My resection of 1 foot colon removed July 2016. I had a bowel blocakage August 2016 and had emergency surgery to remove scar tissue and blockage and then a reversal of my illesostomy in September of 2016. My question is after all of this and almost two years out now I still have 1 day a week where I feel colon spasms along with clustering and after one to two days of this I am just exhausted. It resembles Krohnes disease and I wanted to know if anyone else had similar issues and what they do when issues like this happen?

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Most of the time it’s due to eating something that is overly spicy. My Doctors just say go back to the Bratty diet until you get some relief. Really tired of eating the blandest things on earth. Why even bother eating if you have to eat that way! I have tried taking CBD oil and that seems to help with a lot of my symptoms. I feel inflammation is to blame for most of my issues.

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Many of you sharing about your experiences with cancer in the Colorectal Cancer group have already met @travelgirl. She is featured on this week's member spotlight. Click the link and get to know a little more about Jackie @travelgirl

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Hi my mother had stage 3 colorectal cancer doctors operated her immediately because her stomach was bloating due to blockage of rectosigmoid junction .
They did colonoscopy and after surgery we got the biopsy report in which it was clearly mentioned that it was a stage 3 colorectal cancer.

Best oncologist of my city said not to worry she gave 8 chemos and after that said treatment is over but a stroma operation was left
Before the operation we did serum report it came 4.23 it was high
Doctor said to get another report after 20 days the CEA level reduced it came 4.13 but still high
We did a CT scan it concluded everything normal but few non necrotic mesenteric lymph nodes were found with one lymph node of larger size in the right lumbar region
Now doctor saying wait for 3 months
After 3 months bring the new CEA report
Then we will decide what to do

Now I want help what to do
I want to cure this
I want best doctor and best consultation
Plz help me on this matter
Thankyou

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My dad was diagnosed with Stage III colorectal cancer last December. On top of this, he also has Non-Specific Interstial Pneumonia (lung disease). He went thru about half of the recommended chemo as the side effects were awful. He is going in for a PET scan on the 27th of December as his CEA levels were about 150. He is on supplemental oxygen and feels tethered to his machine. I was able to get a machine delivered to my house over Thanksgiving and he was able to come out for a night. Hoping he feels well enough to come out at Christmas. I feel so lost. I live an hour away and try to help him as best I can and keep it together. He knows its terminal and we don't talk much about it. I just kind of follow his lead. I've been trying to encourage him to get his groceries delivered (He fell trying to carry everything in to the house from the car). He's very stubborn. It's the little things we take for granted. I guess I am just trying to keep from falling apart. My brother helps when he can but has 7 kids. Ok, I'm done. Just needed a place to unload.

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@lkissinger

My dad was diagnosed with Stage III colorectal cancer last December. On top of this, he also has Non-Specific Interstial Pneumonia (lung disease). He went thru about half of the recommended chemo as the side effects were awful. He is going in for a PET scan on the 27th of December as his CEA levels were about 150. He is on supplemental oxygen and feels tethered to his machine. I was able to get a machine delivered to my house over Thanksgiving and he was able to come out for a night. Hoping he feels well enough to come out at Christmas. I feel so lost. I live an hour away and try to help him as best I can and keep it together. He knows its terminal and we don't talk much about it. I just kind of follow his lead. I've been trying to encourage him to get his groceries delivered (He fell trying to carry everything in to the house from the car). He's very stubborn. It's the little things we take for granted. I guess I am just trying to keep from falling apart. My brother helps when he can but has 7 kids. Ok, I'm done. Just needed a place to unload.

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Hi @lkissinger,

I’m truly sorry to hear about your father; managing a chronic condition is a tough journey, especially for loved ones, but you don’t have to do it alone. I’m so glad that you’ve joined the Connect community – you’ve come to the right place to unload, to talk with people who have or had similar experiences, and to get support from members who understand what you are going through.

I’m tagging fellow members @sandrabee @soul @ilene1 @sallyg @azcyclist2018 @travelgirl @starrlight @nannytart @minabird @brenz @sportsmom9433 @martid @sue_in_delaware @nananet @bbams @bush to bring them into this conversation so that they may share their insights with you.

Although it’s not you who has cancer, watching a beloved one, your dad, go through it must be very, very hard. The emotions you are experiencing may be different, but those emotions are very valid and need to be talked about. Here, you will find stories of hope – there is always hope, and a diagnosis doesn’t have to be the end; let the Connect community be your sounding board.
@lkissinger, do you feel that you and your dad might be able to talk frankly about the “tough stuff” at some point?

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