Post Mastectomy Must Haves?

Posted by dianetich @dianetich, Jul 31, 2025

I am having a double mastectomy on August 25th. Trying to figure out what I should buy for post surgery recovery. (clothes, pillows, creams etc) What are/were your post-mastectomy "must haves" that you found helpful? Thank you!

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@rhb28
I just want to wish you good luck tomorrow. I hope you will wake up from surgery with the feeling of relief. You will be ok. Big hugs.

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Thank you! I am feeling good and am ready. And ready to begin the healing process tomorrow afternoon.

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Thank you! I am feeling good and am ready. And ready to begin the healing process tomorrow afternoon.

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Just want to keep in touch to see how you’re doing. I hope the pain is gone and you are well on your way to recovery. Hugs.

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Just want to keep in touch to see how you’re doing. I hope the pain is gone and you are well on your way to recovery. Hugs.

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Healing and recovery are going well. Will be glad to have the drains removed early next week. So grateful all went well and I have no regrets! Thanks for checking in!

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Great advice from everyone! Here is my story:
Bilateral mastectomy, no reconstruction. In the OR a compression band bra is placed on you with hooks for the 2 drains. Overnight stay in hospital. PT came & showed me about 5 exercises to do x3/day. I did them x1/day. No shower until 48 hours. Protect the drains. Get a lanyard to wear in the shower so the drains aren't hanging, must place them in the 2 pouches. I didn't face the shower head directly to protect my chest. I drained my drains AM & PM. Must log the amount (they give you the form) & bring to your all initial visits. Was told 2 wks. for drains - 1 removed, 2nd drain was 3 weeks, removal depends on fluid amt. drained. Will need mastectomy tops (Amazon) with drain holders for day & night. While the drains are in, you must sleep on your back only. Bought a wedge from Amazon for this (I am a side sleeper only, so a little annoying but certainly doable). Also, bought a mastectomy "pillow" (Amazon) to help me not to turn while sleeping with drains. Still use it for comfort 3 months later. A couple of compression bras with drain pouches (Amazon) and Medicare allows 1 for free (go to certified mastectomy fitter). Coming home from hospital: Mastectomy pillow under your seatbelt. Vomit bags just in case (Amazon). I was fine. And wear your mastectomy shirt for the drains to the hospital so you have when leaving. Don't forget your exercises, I did mine faithfully. Must avoid frozen shoulder.
First week discomfort but not terribly! Pain medication x1 wk. then Tylenol. Most uncomfortable was my armpits b/c of lymph node removal (12) but still not terrible. I also had (& RNs will give you) some large gauze pads to place over your incision(s) under your mastectomy bra for comfort. I had post op swelling so my surgeon gave me a compression band to wrap tightly around my chest. This actually felt good and helped, wore it for several weeks. You will keep more post op instructions (hand-outs) re: when to massage your incision(s) for healing and swelling reduction. I do this with Vitamin E oil. It really is not a lot of "stuff" to buy...but these are the basics.
You will get through it all! All of the oncology team were simply great. You will be treated with TLC.
The very very best wishes for you...be positive, you are getting rid of the poison in your body!
Hugs!

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@briarrose Hi, I just read your comment and it has been very helpful. I’m due to have a bilateral flat mastectomy on 12 May and want to find out as much as I can. They want to send me home the same day. I have asked twice if I could please stay just one night, but they don’t think this is necessary. Everyone I tell is very surprised that I’m leaving the same day.
I’d like to order some things from Amazon to have ready. I’m currently in an assisted living facility, but I do not have nursing assistance.
Would it be possible to message you in some way?

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@briarrose Hi, I just read your comment and it has been very helpful. I’m due to have a bilateral flat mastectomy on 12 May and want to find out as much as I can. They want to send me home the same day. I have asked twice if I could please stay just one night, but they don’t think this is necessary. Everyone I tell is very surprised that I’m leaving the same day.
I’d like to order some things from Amazon to have ready. I’m currently in an assisted living facility, but I do not have nursing assistance.
Would it be possible to message you in some way?

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@okisharon I had a lumpectomy but the mastectomy pillow on Amazon was very helpful. Used it in the car on the way home for support. It has cold packs you can slip in pockets. I even slept with it on one side resting my arm on the pillow. Big help.
https://a.co/d/0ewhSbMw
Stay strong! Be patient. You will get through this!

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The pillow was helpful. The cushion for the car seat belt is even more necessary. The shirts with inside pockets are nice for when you go out, you can put the pumps in the pockets and people don't see them and it takes the weight off them when they fill up. Nonsugar crackers were essential, too, for me as my belly kept getting upset. Good luck. I am still struggling after 7 weeks with the mastectomies....right is okay but left had an infection and hurts a lot. Keep smiling......

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Yes please any tips most gratefully received
My bilateral on may 6th
What are your must haves and dos and don't. How do you handle your woman hood without breasts. Is it necessary to have hormone treatment after. Im 72!

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The pillow was helpful. The cushion for the car seat belt is even more necessary. The shirts with inside pockets are nice for when you go out, you can put the pumps in the pockets and people don't see them and it takes the weight off them when they fill up. Nonsugar crackers were essential, too, for me as my belly kept getting upset. Good luck. I am still struggling after 7 weeks with the mastectomies....right is okay but left had an infection and hurts a lot. Keep smiling......

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@gailmarienewton thank you

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I had a single masectomy and went home the same day.
Having button or zippered shirts are very helpful.
Have most used kitchen items at lower level so you don't have to reach up.
Make some meals ahead of time and freeze some.
Paper plates.
Wet wipes are nice till allowed to shower.
Night gowns that zip up.
I bought hoodies from Amazon that had inside pockets for drains.
Some people make a sash belt that they can hang drains from.
I propped up pillows in bed to sleep.
Thinking of you and wishing a good recovery.
Sending hugs.

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@briarrose Hi, I just read your comment and it has been very helpful. I’m due to have a bilateral flat mastectomy on 12 May and want to find out as much as I can. They want to send me home the same day. I have asked twice if I could please stay just one night, but they don’t think this is necessary. Everyone I tell is very surprised that I’m leaving the same day.
I’d like to order some things from Amazon to have ready. I’m currently in an assisted living facility, but I do not have nursing assistance.
Would it be possible to message you in some way?

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@okisharon yes, you can private message me.

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