Tips on minimizing withdrawal symptoms from Effexor (aka Venlafaxine)

Posted by richyrich @richyrich, Nov 2, 2016

I have been taking Effexor/Venlafaxine for years and tried to get off it a few times but each time I try to give up the chemical withdrawal symptoms are a horror story and I give up giving up. Anyone got any tips or tried and tested strategies? Thank you

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@brightwings

@sandij
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Sandi, go read your personal messages...

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@texasduchess

@secretwhitepop
Hey, this blog isn't about not taking medication you need--it's just about minimizing withdrawal symptoms when quitting Effexor. Stress while reducing Effexor, or withdrawn from Effexor can definitely worsen your withdrawal symptoms (and these can last a looonnng time--I'm a year+ off Effexor and when my supplements aren't enough, I take my prescribed Valium). Only you know how you feel. There's no point in being miserable.

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Many thanks! Yes. My doctor put a prescription in already. And my husband is relieved. And I am relieved. Just knowing the Rx is waiting for me. And my daughter is amazing. I told her I worried about her and she says she is perfectly fine but doesn’t like it when I cry. Breaks my heart.

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@bubbles
Good for you for trusting your gut And Taking An Action.
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How many times have you heard me say that. You are the only one who knows you and your needs.
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I applaud you.
Bright Wings
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You gave a valiant try. This is not a failure but a decision. Stand tall, my friend. You did good.....

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@kbmayo

Just my opinion, but I suggest you try Lexapro. I take generic Celexa, which is very similar -- my doc explained the difference between them -- and it has definitely helped a lot.

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As long as it’s not Effexor, I’ll give it a shot. Still mourning my dad, still moving, still trying to secure employment, and mom still has dementia. Right now I’m deciding to go easy on myself and family and try Lexipro. A pediatric dose has had a wonderful effect on me in the past. So at least that is comforting. But so does acupuncture. Which I will go back to. I just need to find one in my new area.

All of the changes I’ve made in my life are from the weening and I’m terrified to realize that I’m a bit bipolar. And the mania leads me to buy things and move and switch jobs and do all sorts of things that later stress me out. The Zoloft then Effexor helped me to plant roots, for which I am grateful. For my sake and for the sake of my family, I think roots should be planted again. If I was young and single, eh, I’d keep on keeping on.

I’ve had a couple suicides in my family (folks I never met) and anxiety and depression on both sides. So I come by this honestly.

I am so grateful for this site!

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@lisa0878

I am doing pretty good. I've been off effexor since may 16 and ues It was horrible but I'm doing fine now. I weened down to 37.5mg and I took that for a month then just stopped!!! I'm not at all saying it was easy it was like I said horrible but I got threw it. Why would you recommend lexapro or paxil or whatever antidepressant when your trying to come off them. It's just a vicious cycle.
All I take now is a klonopin for my anxiety and that helped me with my complications from comming off of effexor as well and like on day 4 and 5 when I thought I couldn't come off it cause I felt so bad I went and got an IV and they gave me a steroid and benadryl and something else for my headache. After the ER getting me straightened out I felt better. I mean i still take motrin for this headache that won't go away but I feel that if you wanna get off You can do it!!! Just get it over with and do it. Its gonna be uncomfortable for awhile but I def wouldn't be trying to take more depression meds to just have to end up having to come off those eventually.. I dont know this is just how I feel. IT is possible to come off effexor I did it and I feel alot better. I still take my klonopin and motrin but I've been on anxiety meds for over 10years and will probably never come off those. I dont want too either because I do need them. I have bad panic attacks and anxiety. Effexor should be banned it should be a scheduled drug like pain pills and heroin. I can't believe we all had to go threw this to come off. Its crazy but it can be done and if you are ready just Do it!!!! If I can do it anyone can.

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I understand your perspective and appreciate it. I have been completely Effexor and all medication free since February 1. And while I’ve had good and bad days, things just seem to be experienced through a filter. I’m sick of not enjoying my life - which ain’t half bad but that’s the half I always see. And the bad half is really stressful.

Just knowing the Rx is waiting for me helps. Kind of like having Xanax in the cabinet. It works, but I’d prefer something a bit less addictive!

Perhaps at a later time I’ll try again 🙂 but I plan on picking up my Lexipro this afternoon. And once it starts working, I’ll probably wonder why I was ever stressed about going back on an SSRI!

Ha!

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@lisa0878

I am doing pretty good. I've been off effexor since may 16 and ues It was horrible but I'm doing fine now. I weened down to 37.5mg and I took that for a month then just stopped!!! I'm not at all saying it was easy it was like I said horrible but I got threw it. Why would you recommend lexapro or paxil or whatever antidepressant when your trying to come off them. It's just a vicious cycle.
All I take now is a klonopin for my anxiety and that helped me with my complications from comming off of effexor as well and like on day 4 and 5 when I thought I couldn't come off it cause I felt so bad I went and got an IV and they gave me a steroid and benadryl and something else for my headache. After the ER getting me straightened out I felt better. I mean i still take motrin for this headache that won't go away but I feel that if you wanna get off You can do it!!! Just get it over with and do it. Its gonna be uncomfortable for awhile but I def wouldn't be trying to take more depression meds to just have to end up having to come off those eventually.. I dont know this is just how I feel. IT is possible to come off effexor I did it and I feel alot better. I still take my klonopin and motrin but I've been on anxiety meds for over 10years and will probably never come off those. I dont want too either because I do need them. I have bad panic attacks and anxiety. Effexor should be banned it should be a scheduled drug like pain pills and heroin. I can't believe we all had to go threw this to come off. Its crazy but it can be done and if you are ready just Do it!!!! If I can do it anyone can.

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I'm glad it worked well for you, but for each of us the experience was different. For me, anxiety and panic were making me housebound and robbing me of quality of life. I've been able to go anywhere and do anything for years, and I wasn't about to accept having to spend the rest of my life with such limitations. I tried all kinds of things, which I've detailed on here before, and was not getting any relief, so my decision was to go on a different antidepressant to see if it would help, which it did. Again, for each of us it's different; we each have our own path.

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@secretwhitepop

As long as it’s not Effexor, I’ll give it a shot. Still mourning my dad, still moving, still trying to secure employment, and mom still has dementia. Right now I’m deciding to go easy on myself and family and try Lexipro. A pediatric dose has had a wonderful effect on me in the past. So at least that is comforting. But so does acupuncture. Which I will go back to. I just need to find one in my new area.

All of the changes I’ve made in my life are from the weening and I’m terrified to realize that I’m a bit bipolar. And the mania leads me to buy things and move and switch jobs and do all sorts of things that later stress me out. The Zoloft then Effexor helped me to plant roots, for which I am grateful. For my sake and for the sake of my family, I think roots should be planted again. If I was young and single, eh, I’d keep on keeping on.

I’ve had a couple suicides in my family (folks I never met) and anxiety and depression on both sides. So I come by this honestly.

I am so grateful for this site!

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@bubbles,
Awe, I totally understand. My mom and daughter share being bipolar.
My mom demonstrated this by not being able to control herself when angry. Which was often.
My daughter does best when she lives her life with my only grandson without any family being involved in her life.
This is something I cannot control, not being in contact with them. It hurts too. I know things are best for her when she keeps her world small. Very small. Its her choice.
The thing I do best is to share love and healing with the people I meet. It is their choice to take advantage of it or not.
My daughter doesn't want it.
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I am interested to read your list of hyper symptoms you posted. And glad you made the connection between your actions and bipolar. Just in acknowledging this you take control of your life....there are other things to follow up with but first recognizing the most important thing...recognizing AND admitting!!!!
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Suicide is in my family too. My brother...and friends. I myself have felt suicidal 1000's of times...no lie...And I never followed thru cuz it almost destroyed the family. I couldn't do that to them again.
Bright Wings, I am going to go be sad for a while.
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@brightwings

@bubbles,
Awe, I totally understand. My mom and daughter share being bipolar.
My mom demonstrated this by not being able to control herself when angry. Which was often.
My daughter does best when she lives her life with my only grandson without any family being involved in her life.
This is something I cannot control, not being in contact with them. It hurts too. I know things are best for her when she keeps her world small. Very small. Its her choice.
The thing I do best is to share love and healing with the people I meet. It is their choice to take advantage of it or not.
My daughter doesn't want it.
.
I am interested to read your list of hyper symptoms you posted. And glad you made the connection between your actions and bipolar. Just in acknowledging this you take control of your life....there are other things to follow up with but first recognizing the most important thing...recognizing AND admitting!!!!
.
Suicide is in my family too. My brother...and friends. I myself have felt suicidal 1000's of times...no lie...And I never followed thru cuz it almost destroyed the family. I couldn't do that to them again.
Bright Wings, I am going to go be sad for a while.
.

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I had a psychiatrist for several years. She was great and very conservative when it came to prescribing medicine. It took several years before she administered Zoloft and then, when I complained of the side effects, she warily prescribed Effexor. Which worked. But one thing she told me but did not put in writing was that, if she were pushed, she would diagnose me with bipolar disorder. But since I was so high functioning, she did not want to put it in writing. Didn’t want to commit to it.

My anger can get out of control, however. People say I’m scary. But the histrionics were sort of normal in my family. It wasn’t until I got into the real world and away from my family that I realized it was a little over the top.

My husband is a loud yeller, too. But I understand him. And maybe that’s why we get along! He doesn’t mean anything by it, we’re just both kind of loud 🙂

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@lisa0878

I am doing pretty good. I've been off effexor since may 16 and ues It was horrible but I'm doing fine now. I weened down to 37.5mg and I took that for a month then just stopped!!! I'm not at all saying it was easy it was like I said horrible but I got threw it. Why would you recommend lexapro or paxil or whatever antidepressant when your trying to come off them. It's just a vicious cycle.
All I take now is a klonopin for my anxiety and that helped me with my complications from comming off of effexor as well and like on day 4 and 5 when I thought I couldn't come off it cause I felt so bad I went and got an IV and they gave me a steroid and benadryl and something else for my headache. After the ER getting me straightened out I felt better. I mean i still take motrin for this headache that won't go away but I feel that if you wanna get off You can do it!!! Just get it over with and do it. Its gonna be uncomfortable for awhile but I def wouldn't be trying to take more depression meds to just have to end up having to come off those eventually.. I dont know this is just how I feel. IT is possible to come off effexor I did it and I feel alot better. I still take my klonopin and motrin but I've been on anxiety meds for over 10years and will probably never come off those. I dont want too either because I do need them. I have bad panic attacks and anxiety. Effexor should be banned it should be a scheduled drug like pain pills and heroin. I can't believe we all had to go threw this to come off. Its crazy but it can be done and if you are ready just Do it!!!! If I can do it anyone can.

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@lisa0878
Hi Lisa,
You mentioned “Effexor should be banned it should be a scheduled drug like pain pills and heroin. I can't believe we all had to go threw this to come off.“
First, I disagree that Effexor should be banned. It has been a beneficial medication for many. However doctors need to be more responsible when prescribing it and be more upfront with information on Effexor.
Patients also have a responsibility to know what they are being prescribed and why. According to studies 20-30% of prescriptions are never filled and 50% of patients don’t take medication as prescribed.
The withdrawals you suffered are most likely due stopping to quickly or taking to large of cuts etc.
If you ever decide to discontinue Klonopin it may be just as hard to stop as Effexor. Small titration schedules and patience are essential if you want a withdrawal free or virtually withdrawal free experience.
Jake

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@brightwings

Lost another long post...darn it...BW

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@brightwings
Hey kiddo,
I usually write my posts in notes then copy them in connect. I’ve had the same problem.
Jake

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