@loribmt yes the tailbone nerves are so sensitive if I rub my tailbone the pain goes right to the testicles but without getting me out of the wheelchair the surgeon told me I don’t have that. My first night with the stimulator I was sleeping in the recliner and my left foot with an electric blanket on was ice cold luckily it warmed up and didn’t do that again. I sleep with a donut cushion to set on and a pregnancy pillow (u shaped ) behind my head and under my arms . For the first time in about 8 months I got to sleep in bed last night without my feet going numb so hopefully after the incisions heal I’ll get to have somewhat a normal nights sleep. When all this happened my urologist suggested pelvic therapy I’m so glad I done it with the tailbone getting out of alignment and the pain all around the anus pelvic therapy taught me why my bowels wouldn’t move until I was realigned. She also made up a condom ice pack to set on that worked wonders (double a condom with 1/4 alcohol to 3/4 water ) it stays squishy . Hopefully somebody tries it and gets some relief as well