TERESA: What brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect?
@nohrt4me: I was diagnosed in 2014, at age 60 with essential thrombocythemia with CALR mutation (ET-CALR) a myeloproliferative neoplasm. Mayo Clinic has some of the best myeloproliferative neoplasm (MPN) experts in the field. They not only study MPNs, but look at patient quality of life.
While searching for information about ET-CALR, I discovered Mayo Clinic Connect. I like that the conversations here have moderators, which keeps the misinformation to a minimum.
TERESA: What motivates you to take part in Mayo Clinic Connect?
@nohrt4me: Being a retired senior citizen with a chronic disease can sometimes make you feel useless. If I can respond to someone else’s questions or boost their confidence, that's a good day. Other Connect-ors' experiences give me confidence that my oncologist is providing good care. Feeling like you are in good hands is a special concern for those of us with rare, chronic diseases that we will need to manage our entire lives.
TERESA: What about Mayo Clinic Connect makes you feel comfortable to share and to be open with the community?
@nohrt4me: I joined Mayo Clinic Connect in 2022. I had participated in online support groups before, but they often attracted people trying to sell alternative treatments. Mayo Clinic Connect is mostly free of the hucksters.
TERESA: What support groups do you participate in?
@nohrt4me: I primarily take part in the discussions in the Blood Cancers & Disorders support group. I also participate in discussions where I can add value in the Cancer: Managing Symptoms support group.
TERESA: Tell us about a meaningful moment on Mayo Clinic Connect.
@nohrt4me: Friends and family are great, but they really don’t understand chronic cancer. My sister-in-law asked me a few years ago why I was still taking oral chemotherapy since I wasn’t getting better. People on Mayo Clinic Connect understand why questions like those drive us nuts. I usually look at the daily digest first thing every morning with my coffee to remind myself that there are others who “get it.”
TERESA: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?
@nohrt4me: Finding energy is the daily challenge of everybody with blood cancer. I have severe scoliosis, so I started with deep breathing, then chair yoga, and I now do gentle floor mat yoga. It helps with energy levels, sciatica, and “the blues.” I also keep my circulation going with an exercise “bike to nowhere.” And sitting outdoors in the fresh air is also a tonic. Having that routine helps me keep it together.
TERESA: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity.
@nohrt4me: I am a retired college English teacher, so I read, read, read! Literacy and freedom to read issues are really important to me. I also do a lot of knitting for charity, mostly baby blankets. I also love old movies. Joan Crawford in “Sudden Fear,” Bette Davis in “Three on a Match,” Edward G. Robinson in “Brother Orchid.”
TERESA: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?
@nohrt4me: St. Catherine of Siena said, “We are in God and god is in us, as the fish is in the sea, and the sea is in the fish.” I really like that idea that God is in all creation, we are part of it, and that we are all interwoven with the divine, sick or well.
TERESA: What food can you simply not resist?
@nohrt4me: Cheesecake. Mmmmm!
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I appreciate the opportunity to interview you, @nohrt4me, and to introduce you to the Mayo Connect community! You have encouraged many in the Blood Cancers & Disorders support group and I'm happy that the rest of the Mayo Connect community can now meet you as well.
I agree with you that on Connect, there are others who “get it.” Thanks for all of your contributions!
Thank you for letting us get to know more about you, @nohrt4me! As a mentor for Blood Cancer & Conditions, I often follow your replies in that group and have a great appreciation and respect for your input for other members. You’re always so supportive and encouraging. Your thoughtful, knowledgeable answers are a life line to so many others.
Love your choice of old movies…and cheese cake? Yes please!
Great to meet you! Are you reading anything good at the moment? I usually have a few books stacked up at a time--always looking for more.
Thanks for asking! One of the best books I read this year was Lulu Miller's wonderful biography/memoir/natural science/social history/murder mystery, Why Fish Don't Exist. Also two novels by Waubgeshig Rice, about a Native community in Ontario navigating a post-apocalyptic landscape. I was familiar with a lot of these places from when I lived in northern Michigan on the Canadian border. I am also listening to an audio version of Ray Bradbury's The Martian Chronicles. A favorite for many many decades!
Speaking of cheesecake and other pies reminds me that I have not seen Joan Crawford's Mildred Pierce for several years. There was quite a good remake of the story made as a limited series with Kate Winslett a few years back. It was very good, but nothing beats Crawford swanning around the police station in a fur coat ready to take the rap for her bratty daughter.
I hadn’t thought of Mildred Pierce (with Joan Crawford) in years! Just found it on Prime. I sense a movie night! Alas, I don’t have any cheesecake. Thanks for the nudge!
Great to know--thanks! I love Ray Bradbury. My extended family likes audio but it makes me sleepy--I need the page.
@nohrt4me I so enjoyed reading about you! But your choice of movies and books are SO not me! I just finished a book about Tony Fauci and another about the brain since my AD disease landed in my brain. Understood about 1/4 of the book but, at least, I tried! You might like the walking support group. I think it’s in the Just Want to Talk group. I’ll look for you.