How long have you lived with COPD?

Posted by puddy68 @puddy68, Sep 30, 2024

Hi there - I'm so sorry, this is my second post in 2 days. I think I mentioned in my previous post that I was FEV1 50%. I think I also mentioned [and if I didn't, it would be pretty obvious] that I suffer from severe anxiety and depression. Have managed to push a psych appointment to tomorrow - this COPD has really thrown me. I'm absolutely convinced I only have a few years left to live, no matter what I read [and I'm now staying away from google]. I realised I needed help when I wasn't believing what I'm reading, and I'm driving my family crazy. I have just one question - would people be willing to share with me how long they have had COPD for? I'm sorry for repeating myself........I'm just reaching out for as much help as I can. God Bless.

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these were great stories.

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@rdrover

Hello, My name is Rebecca and I am 52 years old. I have been dealing with COPD for the last 12 years. Between my COPD and my discs in my back deteriorating from degenerate deteriorating disc disease, I can only walk a very short distance and can't stand for very long, hence the reason I am in a electric wheelchair. August 28th 2021, My COPD flared up and my oxygen dropped, by the time my neighbor came over and found me struggling to breath, she called 911. By the time the ambulance got to me and checked my vitals my oxygen was down to 15% I remember them putting me in the ambulance and I remember them pulling away from in front of my apartment but I don't remember hitting the back going around the complex to leave I don't remember the trip to the hospital I don't remember being taken into the hospital I don't remember anything until I was laying on the bed I opened my eyes and I was staring at the light above the bed and I heard my neighbor's voice say I've contacted your mom your son and your daughter and your mom is on her way. That was the last thing I remember next thing I remember was waking up staring at a light above me and hearing my mom's voice say oh my God you're awake and I don't remember anything after that, then again I open my eyes and was looking at a light turned my head and seen both of my sons standing there. Now I'm really confused, I had to ask myself, am I alive or am I dead.... because my oldest son passed away in 2018 from cystic fibrosis. Everything around me sounded like I was in a tunnel and I remember Garrett coming to my bedside holding my hand and tell me how much he loved me how much she was worried and then he was going down to be with the kids so that my daughter-in-law could come up and see me but she said I opened my eyes when she came in and I looked at her and then closed my eyes I don't remember anything next time I opened my eyes to the light in the ceiling turn my head and my mom said oh my God your awake are you going to stay awake this time. I shook my head yes and she asked me do you know what's going on I shook my head no I was having a hard time talking. Mom told me that I had been on life support for 2 and 1/2 Weeks, and if I didn't come too within the next two days they were putting a trach in so thank the Lord I came too before they put a trach in. She also informed me that while I was on life support I had dialysis because my kidneys failed completely. And after fully waking them taking the life support off and starting recovery I could not talk no louder than a very soft whisper but felt like I was yelling. It was like I lost all control of my body from my neck down I couldn't lift my hands my arms I couldn't lift my legs and every day I had to work with physical therapy to get all the strength back in my legs my arms I had to work on feeding myself again getting up to even stand alone walk. The doctors there really thought that I wasn't going to make it and I did so bless the Lord for that one, I wear oxygen at night to bed. Like I said I am in a wheelchair. Honestly I quit smoking cigarettes/nicotine vapes on August 28th that was the last cigarette that morning because that afternoon is when she called 911 and I almost died. I started eating edibles but it just wasn't the same I used THC for pain management in my back because I refuse to take narcotics. But the edibles had to come to a stop because with edibles you eat too much and you're way too high and you're superified and I didn't like that so I started buying the THC pen and I smoke them then I started smoking real weed once in a while because the pens are nothing like real marijuana. I will not go back to smoking nicotine. I suffer with other health issues not just the COPD and the degenerate deteriorating disc disease I also suffer with type 2 diabetes, an umbilical hernia, lymphedema and cellulitis in my legs, Roscea, and I go to a foot doctor because my nails grow into my skin. I have many mental health issues too. to name a few, I have bipolar 2 with suicidal tendencies, bipolar-depression, anxiety, paranoia borderline personality disorder, etc, etc.

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Your story is heartbreaking. Why do we humans have to suffer so much? I realize that we all make choices that affect our future health but many people do everything right and they have horrible medical problems, too. I just don't understand it. I do not do everything right so I expect some worse problems for my health down the road. I am not saying you made wrong choices. I will certainly pray for you and hopefully God will give you the comfort and love you so desparately need right now. Stay strong, my friend.

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I am going through the same thing. Air hunger, coughing and shortness of breath are definitely no fun to experience. The course of the disease is individual..... dependent on so many things. But there are several options for palliative care that will make you feel better.......have you explored these with your physician. I can understand your depression and anxiety as I too have the same......but refuse to let it get the best of me. Perhaps a mild uplift with an anti depressive/anxiolytic medication would allow you to be able to seek other treatment options. I would recommend the bigger teaching facilities ie Duke, John Hopkins, Mayo, Cleveland clinic for the most experienced and well-trained physicians. I understand fully what you are going through as I ask my Husband nightly to come get me........he passes away 4 years ago.

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I was diagnosed with moderate to severe emphysena in 2000 at age 42. I continue to live a pretty good life now, 25 years later. My husband and I fly about 3-4 trips/year and enjoy life. I have had to change my treatment multiple times over they years and the last treatments seem to be working pretty well for me

I use supplemental O2 for sleep and exertion. I am very glad to have great insurance and doctors. I don’t have other significant health problems other than allergies and chronic asthma and gastric reflux.

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@parpro2

I was diagnosed with Copd about 25 years ago. It never presented any big problems other than I couldnt go hiking or biking for long periods-but i was never very athletic so i was fine with that. However it has really progressed only the last 2 years or so. Im now 83 1/2. That may seem old but i was always pretty active- traveling a lot, running a small business, participating in many activities & organizations. I sometimes (often) feel sorry for myself & can relate to the ‘pity party’ syndrome. I am now on oxygen. Started first only at night, now more often. I think that’s what gets to me. Being tethered to a machine a lot of the time. Definitely limits my social life. I live alone so my social life was always pretty important to me. I use a portable sometimes but it’s cumbersome and ugly. And i feel very conspicuous with it.
And when i am rational i know im blessed that its not worse. I really have no pain. Just shortness of breath.
In answer to puddy—yes you can live AT LEAST another 20 years. And live well- traveling , enjoying your family,
In all truthfulness i have had a very full & enjoyable life despite the copd. With exercise & meds & love of family & friends, you will enjoy a good quality of life for many years. And with all the medical advances, who knows- maybe theyll find a way to slow the progression or alleviate some symptoms. Probably not in my lifetime but definitely in yours!!

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Your story is amazing. I’m wondering though , do you have emphysema ?

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@maggie40

Your story is amazing. I’m wondering though , do you have emphysema ?

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Yes it’s emphysema. Also a bit of bronchiestasis.
Lately I’ve been gasping for air whenever I’m up & about. Now on prednisone- again- but not working too well. Not sure if this is natural progression of the disease. Or hopefully an exacerbation. Call is in to my doctor.

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I I am 71 years old and only in the last five years as my COPD been worse and worsening. So it took about 10 years before it really started getting bad.I was diagnosed I thinking about 2011 with cancer in my left lung and I had a partial lobectomy which ended up being more longer removed than less.
I have had thyroid cancer but in remission of lung & thyroid cancer. I still follow up with a pulmonologist and endocrinologist.
Stay strong, talk with your family, talk with your counselor and drink lots of fluids and get plenty of rest And if you have breathing treatments do them religiously. I do mine three times a day and it definitely helps. I know because when I've missed the treatment I can feel the discomfort in my breathing. Good luck and stay in touch with how you're doing. Sincerely Kay L

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I was diagnosed with moderate to severe emphysema from no known cause in 2000 at age 42. Was told I may not have long to live. Have had 2 excellent lung docs retire on me and am still living a pretty busy and happy life, including flying about 30,000 miles most years.

I now need supplemental O 2 for sleep and any exertion but am still able to do most things. I have a rowing machine and try to row every day for a few minutes, as it exercises about 85% of your muscles.

I’m getting ready to go to DC to lobby with my national nonprofit as well as visit my relatives in NYC and SF.

The more we do, the more we can do. I do my best to stay healthy, including wearing a good quality well-fitted mask when indoors with others to minimize illnesses.

Good mental health is very important. Please ask your doctors to help you with this and help you with relaxation and breathing techniques to help calm you.

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@hicopd

I was diagnosed with moderate to severe emphysena in 2000 at age 42. I continue to live a pretty good life now, 25 years later. My husband and I fly about 3-4 trips/year and enjoy life. I have had to change my treatment multiple times over they years and the last treatments seem to be working pretty well for me

I use supplemental O2 for sleep and exertion. I am very glad to have great insurance and doctors. I don’t have other significant health problems other than allergies and chronic asthma and gastric reflux.

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I have read your comment on COPD, very interesting it sounded identical to my symptoms only difference I have been diagnosed with Emphasema just 6 months ago. I have Asthma, Bronchitis, and COPD for the last two years (that were know about). I need sleeping tabs or I just don’t sleep! What is O2, I’ve never heard of it but you have peaked my interest. Not sure where you live but I’m in Australia.

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