There's peacefulness in long views and mountain sounds: Meet @upstatephil

Mar 11 8:00am | John, Volunteer Mentor | @johnbishop | Comments (29)

Member spotlight meet upstatephil

JOHN: What brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect? 

@upstatephil: After decades of managing my back challenges via OTC (over-the-counter) pain meds, stretching, and just enduring, I reached the point where surgery was the next best option. I had heard many scary stories from back surgery patients and was highly interested in educating myself as to what to expect – especially during recovery. I have had medical connections to Mayo Clinic for well over 30 years, so my online searching naturally landed me on Mayo Clinic Connect!

JOHN: What motivates you to take part in the community?

@upstatephil: I am motivated to participate in Mayo Connect because, in many of the posts I read, I can see where sharing what I’ve learned might help someone struggling with many of the same unknowns I faced. In fact, I am actually busily documenting my learnings in a more formal way – learnings I hope to share more broadly with spinal patients.

 JOHN: What about Mayo Clinic Connect makes you feel comfortable to share and to be open with the community?

@upstatephil: Simple, I always get quick and useful responses to my queries. This makes me feel it’s a good use of my time to come to Mayo Connect with all manner of medical inquiries.

JOHN: What support groups do you participate in?

@upstatephil: Spine Health and Men’s Health support groups. No doubt my list will grow…

JOHN: Tell us about a meaningful moment on Mayo Clinic Connect.

@upstatephil: I was extremely fortunate to encounter Jennifer @jenniferhunter in Spine Health early on. I was struck by her well-reasoned answers to my questions as she combined her personal spinal surgery experience with amazing general medical knowledge. I felt I always gained a new perspective from Jennifer and, at the very least, I knew my concerns were being listened to.

JOHN: What surprised you the most about Mayo Clinic Connect?

@upstatephil: The sheer breadth of medical issues where there’s a specific blog section. So many volunteer mentors and helpful members who feel something like how I do and just want to help others navigate the complexities and unknowns associated with chronic medical challenges.

JOHN: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?

@upstatephil: No one thing…I’ve always “needed” lots of physical activity to stay in shape both physically and mentally. Also, I am especially energized when I learn new things which serves to connect me closely to Mayo Connect (pun intended). I’m long retired so the balance part is fluid and I’m fortunate to have the time to go in whatever direction I find intriguing at the time.

I stay very active with:

  1. Serve on public company board for 10+ years
  2. Serve on private company board for 19+ years
  3. Head our neighborhood Single Malt Whiskey club. We have 150+ members.
  4. Co-chair the annual employee holiday gift fund in our community
  5. Serve as auctioneer at an annual fundraiser
  6. Dote on our new granddaughter…!!!

JOHN: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity

@upstatephil: There’s no one favorite. I read voraciously and switch genres regularly between fiction and non-fiction (history and biography) plus I especially enjoy historical fiction. I love to golf, hike, and explore. Those activities have been “on hold” for the past year as I resolve my spine issues. Same with traveling. But I’m optimistic about re-engaging with my old favorite activities!

JOHN: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?

@upstatephil: “to err is human” this means to me it’s perfectly fine to make mistakes and don’t be afraid to take a risk. Sort of along the lines of: “nothing ventured, nothing gained”.

JOHN: What do you love about where you live or vacation?

@upstatephil: We live and vacation surrounded by mountain terrain in both South Carolina and North Carolina. I can spend hours just staring at the horizon enjoying the inherent peacefulness of long views and mountain sounds. This environment is the opposite of city life.

 

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@pmm

Hey Phil! @upstatephil
Glad to get to know you better. I have friends who have migrated to North Carolina and it sounds wonderful. A single malt scotch club just oozes sophistication compared to our local folks infatuation with moonshine and Cynthiana sweet wine, neither of which are palatable to me.
But hey…when in Rome.

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We have come to love the Carolina mountains. Oh, and single malt whiskey, too...

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Phil, Thank you for your kind words about me. Somehow I missed your spotlight story until now so I’m late to the party here.

I’m intrigued with your mention of a titanium spinal disc created with a 3 D printer. I didn’t know that was possible.

You are making a difference here on Connect and I’m glad you’re here! You’re bringing experience and perspective different than my own to the spine group. I’m glad to know a bit more about you and I share your love of nature and history.

Jennifer

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We have come to love the Carolina mountains. Oh, and single malt whiskey, too...

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@upstatephil
Cheers to both!

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What a Beautiful story and a gentle, kind man. Who gives back what a beautiful story about a kind man who gives back. This was so uplifting for me to read. Thank you very much. If I'm able, I want to do the same. This was so uplifting to read for me just now. Thank you so very much. If I make it, I want to do this.

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It's great to get to know you, @upstatephil. It sounds like you are enjoying the ideal life, with books, mountains and a lovely new granddaughter. It doesn't get much better than that! All of your activities undoubtedly keep you energized and motivated. The positive results of your spine surgery, along with those of @jenniferhunter, will be encouraging to others who need this type of treatment.

I'm so glad that you are part of the Mayo Connect family!

And thanks to you, @johnbishop, for facilitating this great interview!

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It is great to learn more about you @upstatephil. You certainly have the perfect attitude to excel as a mentor. Where in Ohio did you grow up? I''m from Toledo area and my husband is from the Marietta area....Ohio's Appalachia. Congratulations on that new granddaughter! Grandkids are great fun. It sounds like you are ready and able to get back to nature. We can't survive happily without it.

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@sepdvm. Thanks for the nice welcome! I grew up in Dayton, went to Miami U in Oxford and OSU grad school in Columbus. Along the way I lived also in Cincinnati and Cleveland...

I'm an Ohioan by birth but I'm happily ensconced in the Southern Smokies...

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@upstatephil Thanks for the great intro into what makes you tick. I'm so glad you have solved your back issues so you can continue to enjoy retirement.
Sue

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Such a lovely note to read first thing in the morning! Thanks for that and have a great Sunday.

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