JOHN: What brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect?
@upstatephil: After decades of managing my back challenges via OTC (over-the-counter) pain meds, stretching, and just enduring, I reached the point where surgery was the next best option. I had heard many scary stories from back surgery patients and was highly interested in educating myself as to what to expect – especially during recovery. I have had medical connections to Mayo Clinic for well over 30 years, so my online searching naturally landed me on Mayo Clinic Connect!
JOHN: What motivates you to take part in the community?
@upstatephil: I am motivated to participate in Mayo Connect because, in many of the posts I read, I can see where sharing what I’ve learned might help someone struggling with many of the same unknowns I faced. In fact, I am actually busily documenting my learnings in a more formal way – learnings I hope to share more broadly with spinal patients.
JOHN: What about Mayo Clinic Connect makes you feel comfortable to share and to be open with the community?
@upstatephil: Simple, I always get quick and useful responses to my queries. This makes me feel it’s a good use of my time to come to Mayo Connect with all manner of medical inquiries.
JOHN: What support groups do you participate in?
@upstatephil: Spine Health and Men’s Health support groups. No doubt my list will grow…
JOHN: Tell us about a meaningful moment on Mayo Clinic Connect.
@upstatephil: I was extremely fortunate to encounter Jennifer @jenniferhunter in Spine Health early on. I was struck by her well-reasoned answers to my questions as she combined her personal spinal surgery experience with amazing general medical knowledge. I felt I always gained a new perspective from Jennifer and, at the very least, I knew my concerns were being listened to.
JOHN: What surprised you the most about Mayo Clinic Connect?
@upstatephil: The sheer breadth of medical issues where there’s a specific blog section. So many volunteer mentors and helpful members who feel something like how I do and just want to help others navigate the complexities and unknowns associated with chronic medical challenges.
JOHN: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?
@upstatephil: No one thing…I’ve always “needed” lots of physical activity to stay in shape both physically and mentally. Also, I am especially energized when I learn new things which serves to connect me closely to Mayo Connect (pun intended). I’m long retired so the balance part is fluid and I’m fortunate to have the time to go in whatever direction I find intriguing at the time.
I stay very active with:
- Serve on public company board for 10+ years
- Serve on private company board for 19+ years
- Head our neighborhood Single Malt Whiskey club. We have 150+ members.
- Co-chair the annual employee holiday gift fund in our community
- Serve as auctioneer at an annual fundraiser
- Dote on our new granddaughter…!!!
JOHN: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity
@upstatephil: There’s no one favorite. I read voraciously and switch genres regularly between fiction and non-fiction (history and biography) plus I especially enjoy historical fiction. I love to golf, hike, and explore. Those activities have been “on hold” for the past year as I resolve my spine issues. Same with traveling. But I’m optimistic about re-engaging with my old favorite activities!
JOHN: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?
@upstatephil: “to err is human” this means to me it’s perfectly fine to make mistakes and don’t be afraid to take a risk. Sort of along the lines of: “nothing ventured, nothing gained”.
JOHN: What do you love about where you live or vacation?
@upstatephil: We live and vacation surrounded by mountain terrain in both South Carolina and North Carolina. I can spend hours just staring at the horizon enjoying the inherent peacefulness of long views and mountain sounds. This environment is the opposite of city life.
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Hi Phil @upstatephil, Thank you for letting us get to know you a little better. I can relate to your favorite quote "to err is human". Have made many mistakes in my life during the past 80 years but I am extremely happy to say that finding Connect was not one of them. Meeting members like yourself, learning and sharing experiences and helping others is food for the soul.
Now I have to get back to my morning duties 🙃
@upstatephil I enjoyed reading what brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect and the activities you enjoy. Your interview shows what a full life you have and how you find solace where you currently live. I'm looking forward to getting to know you better on Connect.
@upstatephil Kudos on your interview, Phil , and congratulations on your new granddaughter! How exciting! Is she your first?
Mountain life sounds very peaceful. I'd imagine it serves you well, in addition to your optimistic attitude, and you will be back to re-engaging in old activities before you know it. Best of luck!
Hi @upstatephil Great interview! Lovely to get to know you better.
Cheers to you!
Great interview! Nice work to both you and @johnbishop. Your scenery looks beautiful, no wonder you love being outdoors. Nature is healing for the mind, the body and the soul.
Single-malt Whiskey Club? Did you settle the debate if it's Whisky, no "e" or Whiskey with an "e"? I see it both ways...but never touch the stuff!
Thanks, Scott. Were you on the call Friday? I recall someone from NW Indiana.
I grew up and spent many years in Ohio.
Thanks, Rachel. Yes, Lilly is our first and we were beginning to wonder if that would ever happen! She is a dear, darling and lives only a few hours away. Just turned five months old...
I'm feeling great these days. The docs suggested it might take 9-12 months for the spinal bones to complete their healing - and I've reached 10 months (almost) and I can feel myself returning more to normal. I'm ready to play golf again and to go back hiking into the woods.
Thanks for the warm welcome!
Hi Helen. I've received so many warm and welcoming comments! I think I need a new button at the bottom: Love!!!
Thanks!
Haha. Your kitty seems to like that duty! What is his/her name?
Thinking of my corporate life - I used to coach the new executives who were often afraid to make mistakes and thus, shied away from even making decisions - which would never do! So I told them that if 100% of their decisions were well reasoned and supported - as long as 51% worked out right...that spelled success to me!
Hi Phil, We inherited Fluffy the cat shortly after she had her first litter from our neighbor after they found out their 5 year old son was allergic to cats and we were feeding her a lot anyway. I also helped the neighbor capture the kittens since she would bring them to our house to eat.