What were your early symptoms before diagnosed with a Parotid Tumor?

Posted by jules26 @jules26, Dec 27, 2025

Hello, I'm currently experiencing some symptoms and have fallen down the medical rabbit hole. All research and information and AI points toward a Parotid Glad Tumor. I have cut out the middle man and have made an appt. with an ENT/Otolaryngologist at the Mayo Clinic in Phoenix/Scottsdale. My symptoms started about 10 years ago but were quite minor. I found a small pea size lump beneath and slightly behind the corner/angle of my jaw on my left side. It was not visible but I could feel it if I really felt for it. I didn't think much of it at the time. Over the years I could feel it getting slightly larger but I'm not one to run to the doctor every time I see or feel something or get sick. About 5 years ago the lump became visible if I turned my head up and to the right and if I stretched my neck/jaw. It was still fairly small. About 2 years ago, I turned my neck a certain way and felt a sharp pain in the same area, like I pinched something. I started monitoring the lump. It has gotten quite a bit larger now, maybe quarter size from the outside view. It is quite painful if pressed on. It does not seem to move much at all. I will admit, finances have had some part in the decision to not go to a doctor sooner along with not wanting to hear bad news. However, I am now feeling a sense of fullness in the area between my ear and corner of my jaw and I now have tinnitus in my left ear. I also feel like something is in my throat or just doesn't feel right in my throat (pressure) on the same left side. It's not painful and does not affect my swallowing. My appointment is on Jan. 6th. Preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. Has anyone else had these same symptoms or can anyone share their experience and symptoms pre-diagnosis. Thank you in advance for any insight.

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Keep us posted, please! I got a tooth pulled, which resulted in my lip drooping. THEN I knew something was wrong. At first, I had a pea-sized lump just behind my ear. It did not hurt.

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Update, I have been rescheduled to February 5th so my imaging and biopsy can be done the same day as the consultation. I'm monitoring it closely and the Dr said to reach out if I see any significant changes in the meantime. A little stressed but hanging in there. Happy New Year y'all!

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Sounds much like my experience! Brought small lump behind right ear to my primary care physicians attention 3 years in a row. She always dismissed it as inflammation until the last visit I told her I had another lump starting behind the left ear and the right ear lump seemed larger.
CT scan ordered (with contrast) and results were bilateral parotid tumors.
Unfortunately, in researching treatment for such tumors, much depends on the type of tumor. From the scan Dr thinks mine are Warthin tumors which are usually benign. While major surgery for all parotid tumors is recommended, there is also evidence that radio frequency ablation can shrink tumors. This in my opinion is much less invasive.

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@katsviolin
I had the exact same experience with a parotid gland tumor in 1993. Because I had Sjogrens Syndrome and other autoimmune illness, my PCP told me it was a swollen lymph node. It turns out I had a swollen lymph node IN my parotid gland because it was cancer! I don't know when you went through this, but let's say nothing much has changed in 30 years? You write "she always dismissed it" and that's key.

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Sounds much like my experience! Brought small lump behind right ear to my primary care physicians attention 3 years in a row. She always dismissed it as inflammation until the last visit I told her I had another lump starting behind the left ear and the right ear lump seemed larger.
CT scan ordered (with contrast) and results were bilateral parotid tumors.
Unfortunately, in researching treatment for such tumors, much depends on the type of tumor. From the scan Dr thinks mine are Warthin tumors which are usually benign. While major surgery for all parotid tumors is recommended, there is also evidence that radio frequency ablation can shrink tumors. This in my opinion is much less invasive.

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@katsviolin Thank you for the information. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I will look into the alternate treatment.

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Sounds much like my experience! Brought small lump behind right ear to my primary care physicians attention 3 years in a row. She always dismissed it as inflammation until the last visit I told her I had another lump starting behind the left ear and the right ear lump seemed larger.
CT scan ordered (with contrast) and results were bilateral parotid tumors.
Unfortunately, in researching treatment for such tumors, much depends on the type of tumor. From the scan Dr thinks mine are Warthin tumors which are usually benign. While major surgery for all parotid tumors is recommended, there is also evidence that radio frequency ablation can shrink tumors. This in my opinion is much less invasive.

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@jules26
Your post is fascinating to me because you just described what I went through with a parotid gland tumor. Yes to starting at pea size, yes to getting harder over the years. But I waited 5 years not 10. I also had to wait until I had medical insurance. I had a gut feeling about "the lump" as I called it, when it hardened. I knew it was cancer.

I want to tell you that I had a slow growing cancer, cell type was acinic cell carcinoma. I had a parotidectomy and then they found it had spread onto the side of my face so it was just in time. But because that is Stage II, I went through radiation treatments. This was 30 years ago. The cancer has been in remission.

I worked as an RN in oncology when I got sick. I need to tell you to "research" the 10 Warning Signs of Cancer.
You cannot "ask AI" while you have been living with a lump (a warning sign of cancer) for 10 years. It might help you make priorities around your health if I could tell you that it was much more stressful going through those parotid gland tumor symptoms, than it was to actually go to an ENT surgeon. He touched the gland and told me, I believe you have a tumor. Surgery was scheduled.

I went to Stanford Medical Center with a good doctor who I trusted. Before I saw him another doctor sent me for a biopsy. What I learned at Stanford is the parotid gland is a complex gland and cannot be biopsied! accurately. If a doctor tells you that you need surgery, at this point I really encourage you to listen.

I hope you check back here after January 6th! You can pm me here is you want to.

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@jw9 Thank you for sharing! Yes, I started with the AI rabbit hole and have done a lot of cancer research since. I will most definitely have the surgery whether benign or not. I have cancer history in my family on both sides but no parotid gland cancer. I am confident Mayo and Dr Hayden will be thorough and swift if need be. I have recently gotten a small bump (pimple like) but it does not come to the surface and it's on the same side as the lump on my cheek as well. It does not go away so that will be addressed also. I am a bit anxious for my appointment but ready. I will definitely follow up here with the results, proposed treatment and schedule.

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@jules26
Your post is fascinating to me because you just described what I went through with a parotid gland tumor. Yes to starting at pea size, yes to getting harder over the years. But I waited 5 years not 10. I also had to wait until I had medical insurance. I had a gut feeling about "the lump" as I called it, when it hardened. I knew it was cancer.

I want to tell you that I had a slow growing cancer, cell type was acinic cell carcinoma. I had a parotidectomy and then they found it had spread onto the side of my face so it was just in time. But because that is Stage II, I went through radiation treatments. This was 30 years ago. The cancer has been in remission.

I worked as an RN in oncology when I got sick. I need to tell you to "research" the 10 Warning Signs of Cancer.
You cannot "ask AI" while you have been living with a lump (a warning sign of cancer) for 10 years. It might help you make priorities around your health if I could tell you that it was much more stressful going through those parotid gland tumor symptoms, than it was to actually go to an ENT surgeon. He touched the gland and told me, I believe you have a tumor. Surgery was scheduled.

I went to Stanford Medical Center with a good doctor who I trusted. Before I saw him another doctor sent me for a biopsy. What I learned at Stanford is the parotid gland is a complex gland and cannot be biopsied! accurately. If a doctor tells you that you need surgery, at this point I really encourage you to listen.

I hope you check back here after January 6th! You can pm me here is you want to.

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I am sure it is the same dept at Mayo. Fiona was pleased w her outcome. Wishibg the same for you, my friend. 🙂

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@gangcarotid1 Thank you very much!

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I am sure it is the same dept at Mayo. Fiona was pleased w her outcome. Wishibg the same for you, my friend. 🙂

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