Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

Posted by Rosemary, Volunteer Mentor @rosemarya, Apr 12, 2020

At some point as we age, we will have to make a decision about leaving our homes and downsizing. Maybe in our own town or to another town. Maybe to smaller home, condo, apartment, or assisted living/senior community.

When the time comes to downsize, seniors can struggle with a multitude of emotional, physical, and financial challenges.

How do you make an informed decision about when to downsize?
What tips do you have to share?

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Whirlpool is the brand that gave out after 3 years. I currently have a Frigidaire which is working fine. I do not know if both brands are made in the U.S. That's a good point to check out when buying appliances.

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I had a Kenmore washer for over 30 years, I believe made by Whirlpool. It even was totally submerged in dirty water during a flood. Cleaned it up and it worked fine! After a second flood we gave up and bought a new washer.

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@contentandwell

@sueinmn Would you mind mentioning the brand? I try to buy "made in the US" but sometimes it seems impossible. I am pretty sure that the freezer we bought earlier this year was not made here. I didn't think any were now!
JK

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I chose a Whirlpool, my fourth - the first was sold with our old home in 1983, the second was put into this home in 1973 when built, replaced with another )Kenmore by Whirlpool) in 1995 - now this. Manufactured at the Amana plant in Iowa. The US made appliances are mainly made there, and are hard to get now because they have had several Covid shutdowns and apparently are having a hard time getting some parts delivered due to Covid & tariffs.

My microwave is also Whirlpool, it's predecessor lasted 22 years without a repair. Our very first was an original Litton, serial number #156 purchased in 1972, and lasted 26 years before the dial timer died!

2 years ago we had to replace both washer (1993 - 2018) and dryer (1981 - 2018) they were whirlpool too, but I wanted the old style "agitator" washer, and ended up with Speed Queen commercial models - rated for 15,000 loads - more that I hope to do in my remaining lifetime. My figuring was if they can withstand the abuse of the laundry room in our Texas home, they can handle me.

My sister and sisters-in-law have gone through multiples of every appliance in the time I have had mine, should have sent them looking for me - it's not that I'm cheap, I just hate shopping & choosing, and I hate the waste of having to discard all that raw material - even if they do break it down and recycle part of it.
Keeping my fingers crossed for all these new things in my house.
Sue

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@criss

I had a Kenmore washer for over 30 years, I believe made by Whirlpool. It even was totally submerged in dirty water during a flood. Cleaned it up and it worked fine! After a second flood we gave up and bought a new washer.

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My first Whirlpool was my Grandma's - I'm sure 30 years old. My old boss taught me how to replace the pump, told me if I could pass accounting, I could fix a washer. That's been my mantra ever since - until the tub rusted out on the last one and flooded the laundry room.
Same with the dryer - my husband kept fixing until the tub was depositing rust stains on all the clean clothes. Making sure to leave the new ones open to dry out so it doesn't happen again.

I look at all this appliance replacement as part of "aging in place" instead of down-sizing. My husband has been doing little wiring jobs to make sure everything electrical is "just right" as well. Also have gotten gutter covers that actually work, added lighting to dim areas, put safe step stools with hand holds on both floors of house (to discourage my tendency to climb on unsafe surfaces), added an upstairs vacuum to limit hauling heavy things up & down...

Sue

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@sueinmn

My first Whirlpool was my Grandma's - I'm sure 30 years old. My old boss taught me how to replace the pump, told me if I could pass accounting, I could fix a washer. That's been my mantra ever since - until the tub rusted out on the last one and flooded the laundry room.
Same with the dryer - my husband kept fixing until the tub was depositing rust stains on all the clean clothes. Making sure to leave the new ones open to dry out so it doesn't happen again.

I look at all this appliance replacement as part of "aging in place" instead of down-sizing. My husband has been doing little wiring jobs to make sure everything electrical is "just right" as well. Also have gotten gutter covers that actually work, added lighting to dim areas, put safe step stools with hand holds on both floors of house (to discourage my tendency to climb on unsafe surfaces), added an upstairs vacuum to limit hauling heavy things up & down...

Sue

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@sueinmn Hi Sue,

You have been making some remarkable adjustments to the aging process. I especially like the idea of a vacuum on both floors and the safe step stools with hand-holds. I could use those as well. Thank you for some great ideas!

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@sueinmn

I was fortunate to find exactly the refrigerator I was seeking - it's predeccessor has lasted 25 years with a small repair, I realize I won't see that again, but this one still has an excellent reputation. In addition it is US made and parts are readily available - the dealer is 1 mile from me and his own technicians do the repairs if it is something my handy husband or son-in-law don't want to tackle. For now, we are turning the old one on and off at 2 hour intervals so it doesn't freeze everything solid!
Sue

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Hi @sueinmn.......just untying the string around my finger to remind me to mention the warranty. Take a look at the motherboard and electronic/computer gear that is in the back. Just like vehicles, that stuff is the first to need repair. The mechanical parts seem to last forever. From one who learned the hard way.
Chris

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@joybringer1

When we had to move my mother-in-law out of the house she and her husband purchased to be near us, we were almost overwhelmed. OK, we were. After my father-in-law died, we thought my mother-in-law was grieving because of her actions. She had dementia. Anyway, the first step for her was independent living which did not last long and then it was assisted living so fewer pieces of furniture and art work went with her. We could hardly make ourselves go into the house and work every day. Finally, we had friends come help us and choose anything they wanted after we selected a few items. It was great to see them go home with things they could use. Then we rented a storage unit for almost everything else, but only after we had a local thrift shop come and get loads of stuff. They are a wonderful shop and use the money to help people get back on their feet by giving them a place to stay and also teaching budgeting skills. We brought too much home with us. We are still working on that, but made room for more stuff by giving away things from Nana. We had a set of dishes from Nana with a 12-piece place setting with every bowl and serving piece imaginable. We decided to give all of that to a couple who loved old-fashioned dishes with pink roses rimmed in gold. That eliminated lots of boxes. Then we decided to give Nana's silver ware to the same couple. We had not used any of it and were so happy this couple wanted everything. The final step in the in-laws' house was a call to 1.800.gotjunk. Two nice young men showed up with a truck and cleaned out the basement and the garage. They told my husband they try to recycle everything. There were lots of good tools and so much more. Since we still had art work on the walls, my husband asked the young men if they would like to select a piece. They did and we removed the rest. A friend helped us clean and the house sold within a week. What a relief! Now it is time for the two of us to get serious about all the stuff we no longer need. We have no children so nobody wants anything. We might check with our friends again, but most of them are full up, also. What a long post. We are struggling! @joybringer1

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@joybringer, Sounds like quite an endeavor but one you managed successfully! A friend told me about 1.800.gotjunk a few years ago and I never got around to calling to see if they pick up in my area. Thank you for this reminder. It would be a great relief and assist for those items not given to charities or family/friends.

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@sueinmn

My first Whirlpool was my Grandma's - I'm sure 30 years old. My old boss taught me how to replace the pump, told me if I could pass accounting, I could fix a washer. That's been my mantra ever since - until the tub rusted out on the last one and flooded the laundry room.
Same with the dryer - my husband kept fixing until the tub was depositing rust stains on all the clean clothes. Making sure to leave the new ones open to dry out so it doesn't happen again.

I look at all this appliance replacement as part of "aging in place" instead of down-sizing. My husband has been doing little wiring jobs to make sure everything electrical is "just right" as well. Also have gotten gutter covers that actually work, added lighting to dim areas, put safe step stools with hand holds on both floors of house (to discourage my tendency to climb on unsafe surfaces), added an upstairs vacuum to limit hauling heavy things up & down...

Sue

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@sueinmn When we bought this house last year, a previous owner used a wheelchair. There is a permanent concrete ramp from driveway to front door. the back door has three steps down to back porch. The floors are all laminate wood, except for kitchen and bathrooms, which are tile. The original bathroom had a heavy duty grab bar for accessing the original tub and another grab bar in the toilet alcove. For me, it's perfect. This is our retirement home.
Ginger

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@fiesty76

@joybringer, Sounds like quite an endeavor but one you managed successfully! A friend told me about 1.800.gotjunk a few years ago and I never got around to calling to see if they pick up in my area. Thank you for this reminder. It would be a great relief and assist for those items not given to charities or family/friends.

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I’ve used 1 800 got junk many times in the past, but noticed earlier in the year their prices have really gone thru the roof. There are many junk collecting companies in my area, as I would imagine in other areas of the country. There is a company called junk king,and will try,them if I ever need that service again.

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@funcountess

I’ve used 1 800 got junk many times in the past, but noticed earlier in the year their prices have really gone thru the roof. There are many junk collecting companies in my area, as I would imagine in other areas of the country. There is a company called junk king,and will try,them if I ever need that service again.

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I have not used their services but, I can imagine with everybody working from home and alot of us not working it gave us a chance to start cleaning things out. Therefore with an abundance of work they can raise their prices because there are others out there that will pay what their charging. Goodwill didnt have very long lines before pandemic now there are days people wait for an hour to donate their goods. Good luck and keep up the good work. Have a blessed day dave

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