Having problems post Bladder Prolapse Surgery: What helps?

I had a Bladder Prolapse surgery with a sacrocolplexy and later an Altis Sling placed under the urethra. Both have given disastrous results-incontinence, pain, total right side pain, abdominal pain, leg pain. Has anyone had these kinds of problems? Were you able to diagnose possible nerve damage? How did you get help?