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should I break up with my boyfriend? I did it.

Posted by help541 @help541, Apr 30, 2025

Hi,
My boyfriend pressures me to do things I don't want to do... like s3x and stuff. He can also get super mad and angry to the point that he slams things. He's a gentleman and treats me well, other than the pressuring part. I've been starting to lose feeling for him. He's a senior in high school, and I'm a junior. He's graduating in a week and a half. Next year he will be at college, and I want to focus on my senior year and not on a boyfriend. We've been dating for 6 months, and I don't want to break his heart, but I also don't want to lead him on.

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fala | @fala | May 16, 2025
In reply to @help541 "Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I broke up last week. I broke up with him because..." + (show)
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Hi everyone,
My boyfriend and I broke up last week. I broke up with him because I didn't have the same feelings, and he also pushed me to do things that I didn't want to do. We dated for 6 months, so going through the breakup was hard. I had thoughts of Is this the right move? Today, not even a week later, I see him wrapped around another girl, that other girl being my close friend.. I probably shouldn't care, but I think to myself, if he can "move on" this fast and date my friend, does that mean he could have had feelings for her while we dated? Should I confront my friend.. or my now ex? or leave it alone

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Geez, and your friend did not mention to you that she is now dating the same guy?
Ok, I would say a couple of things to your friend about this guy who seems to jump so easily. Ask the unexpected, because I think it would be impossible NOT to mention it.
You could say, "Just curious. What quality in both of us do you think that has attracted "Joe" to both of us?" Then change the subject. I will give you more satisfaction that "confronting her!

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blt50 | @blt50 | May 19, 2025

Sometimes we just need to let go, it’s hard I know, and be humble about it. Revenge is never the answer, love is.

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kensiejames | @kensiejames | May 21, 2025

Wow! My humble opinion, that guy has no respect for you . Use this opportunity to get rid of him .
All the best !

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