Sex post cystectomy
My husband’s bladder cancer has progressed to muscle and now he needs a cystectomy.
We feel young and really enjoy intimacy. I’m so stressed knowing that it may be a thing of the past. I can’t imagine our life without it. Please don’t say I’m lucky he’s here . I know that, but this is a huge change, and I’m really sad. It’s also something that seems to get ignored by doctors.
Any advice ? I’m feeling very lonely as I don’t want to cause my husband any more stress by bringing this up.