Severe RLS solved for me

Posted by zombiewoof @zombiewoof, Feb 8, 2025

The following is a true story without embellishment or exaggeration.

I’ve had RLS for 35 years now. It got worse over time and is very severe now at the age 69. It is the worst RLS symptoms my sleep doctor has seen being in the top 1% of severity from here experience.

In the years preceding finding my current sleep doctor I was getting three to four hours of sleep a night. I tried every RLS medication out there (with one exception explained below). Gabapetine and Requip were zero percent effective. OTC pain meds like aspirin, acetaminophen and ibuprofen did nothing. Tylenol PM and others like this wired my eyes open. High doses of magnesium also did nothing. I was tested for low iron. This was normal but I took iron supplements just the same. I then found a doctor who prescribed Pramipexole. I started out at .375 mg and got enough relief to sleep about six hours per night for four or five nights a week. What a relief to get some restful sleep after years of struggle and misery. I shelved my plans for moving to Oregon for doctor assisted suicide. Yes, it was honestly that bad for me.

Over the next years the Pramipexole worked well but I had to gradually increase the dosage as augmentation set in Eventually I was up to 1 mg/day (taking eight .125 mg tablets) but the effectiveness had decreased significantly. Taking even higher doses was having negative side effects with no RLS reduction benefits. At this point I was back to four hours of restless sleep per night. I stated augmenting the Pramipexole with several ounces of alcohol at around midnight to 1AM just so I could pass out and get some sleep. This continued on for about another year with varying effectiveness. The trajectory for this regime was bad, obviously not a good long term solution. Completely sleep deprived, drinking on a regular basis, legs thrashing when I laid down, pacing endlessly most of the night to get relief, only to fall into a fitful sleep at two, three or four o’clock in the morning, sometimes seeing the sun rise before collapsing into exhaustion. Emotionally I was a wreck, would break out crying in despair, no sex life or relationship with my wife. I started once again planning my move to Oregon for physician assisted suicide. I could no longer live like this.

Enter the solution for me. Miraculously I found a sleep doctor/specialist who dedicates her professional life to this affliction. During my initial visit she took an hour and a half listening to my RLS journey and asking probative questions. As noted above I had tried everything and I was at the end of my rope. Doing due diligence she ordered the normal tests, a sleep study (which was an abysmal failure since I didn’t sleep) and started me on the normal medication regimen (Requip, Pramepexole, Gabapentin, magnesium etc., etc..) all to verify that nothing worked. Finally, as the medications of last resort, she prescribed Neupro 2mg/24 hour patch, 5 mg methadone and 300 mg of Gabapentin daily. The patch stays on for 24 hours and the Methadone and Gabapentin are taken after dinner. After some trial and error the dosages were increased to 3mg patch, 10mg Methadone, 600 mg Gabapentin and daily magnesium citrate. The results were nothing short of miraculous. In my 35 years of having this horrible affliction I’ve never this much relief from RLS. Things are still not perfect I can finally lead a near normal life and get a decent nights sleep most nights. Thank god I found this doctor or I would not be here today.

Important things that are now part of my regimen and contribute to the effectiveness of the drug protocol.
1. I exercise on a daily basis. I lost 10% of my body weight through diet and exercise bringing my weight down into the normal range for my height and physical build. This helped.
2. I have dinner early and do not over eat. Not having a full stomach at bedtime makes a difference.
3. I take powdered fiber with lots of water at breakfast and dinner to control the constipation from the Methadone.

I hope this post and my contribution here can help someone else to get relief from this horrible affliction.

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Sleep Health Support Group.

Have you had a 'great' and formal assessment for peripheral vascular disease? I think this must be a problem of blood supply. Something gets pinched, or closed off, maybe inflamed...not sure...but pain can come from tissue going short on blood supply. I sometimes awaken to a very sore ear on one side if I have slept on it for more than an hour or more. Very miserable for ten minutes or more, but it does go away eventually.

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Have you had a 'great' and formal assessment for peripheral vascular disease? I think this must be a problem of blood supply. Something gets pinched, or closed off, maybe inflamed...not sure...but pain can come from tissue going short on blood supply. I sometimes awaken to a very sore ear on one side if I have slept on it for more than an hour or more. Very miserable for ten minutes or more, but it does go away eventually.

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@gloaming Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. Yes, I have had a formal assessment for peripheral vascular disease--within the last year. No abnormalities found and therefore no treatment suggested. My sleep neurologist and I have also discussed the possibility of my RLS having a vascular component at length (brought up by me)--because (as you stated) it makes sense. He isn't a fan of this theory (while still acknowledging such a theory exists). The reason I was finally diagnosed with RLS is because my symptoms have been associated only with sleep, drowsiness, sleepiness etc AND never happen when I am fully awake and alert. The symptoms stop if I get up and move around. They also used to stop when I use a massager on my legs, but this is less reliable than, say, 5 years ago. If I don't use the massager, or walk, when my symptoms are extremely severe, with unrelenting pain, it can go on for hours and hours (last week after "over-exercising" one episode lasted 4 hours straight). So, not like a temporary response to a cut-off blood supply. I do appreciate your thoughts and agree that PVD has some similarities to when happens to me. My neurologist swears symptoms come from my brain. It helps me to think of it as like seizures--something over which I have little control. Only recently have I really focused on the exercise piece--doing any kind of hamstring stretch. Other than that, nothing behavioral can be tied to my RLS pain. It also helped me to learn that my RLS isn't like the "norm" but there are others like me--presenting with pain. ....Can you tell me what your RLS is like?

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@gloaming Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. Yes, I have had a formal assessment for peripheral vascular disease--within the last year. No abnormalities found and therefore no treatment suggested. My sleep neurologist and I have also discussed the possibility of my RLS having a vascular component at length (brought up by me)--because (as you stated) it makes sense. He isn't a fan of this theory (while still acknowledging such a theory exists). The reason I was finally diagnosed with RLS is because my symptoms have been associated only with sleep, drowsiness, sleepiness etc AND never happen when I am fully awake and alert. The symptoms stop if I get up and move around. They also used to stop when I use a massager on my legs, but this is less reliable than, say, 5 years ago. If I don't use the massager, or walk, when my symptoms are extremely severe, with unrelenting pain, it can go on for hours and hours (last week after "over-exercising" one episode lasted 4 hours straight). So, not like a temporary response to a cut-off blood supply. I do appreciate your thoughts and agree that PVD has some similarities to when happens to me. My neurologist swears symptoms come from my brain. It helps me to think of it as like seizures--something over which I have little control. Only recently have I really focused on the exercise piece--doing any kind of hamstring stretch. Other than that, nothing behavioral can be tied to my RLS pain. It also helped me to learn that my RLS isn't like the "norm" but there are others like me--presenting with pain. ....Can you tell me what your RLS is like?

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@missjb I don't have RLS...just obstructive sleep apnea which, discovered far too late, led to an irritable heart and ultimately atrial fibrillation (AF). It's a long story, but I am in a temporary hold now with no AF due to a procedure known as 'catheter ablation'. If it is done well (day surgery), and if the recovery goes well (about five-seven days typically until you begin to feel well and resume normal activities, but up to three months for the heart to settle down), the patient can be free of AF for many months or even years. It does tend to be progressive, though, so I'm enjoying being AF-free for the time being. I look into sleep disorders now and then because, like all the men in my family, and like so many aged people, we don't sleep worth a darn.

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Seasons Greetings to All!

I hope others on this board will be kind enough to answer some questions I have had for a while.

I would appreciate your help so I can understand my situation better.

This is a long post--mine usually are--and I thank you for reading it.

My RLS took 10 years to diagnose because it seems my symptoms are atypical. RSL creates pain for me, not twitching.

An aching pain that (most often) escalates and builds and increases within minutes of onset. For me, that is a cardinal feature--the pain continues to increase and increase in severity--unless I can get it to stop.

Would any of you describe your RLS symptoms as pain?

Even if your symptoms aren't pain, do your symptoms increase in severity during the course of a RLS episode?

Recently, I spoke with my sleep neurologist and he said there are currently RLS doctors specifically researching painful RLS (which is known to be less common--although not so much known by me--why I am asking you all questions). (Also, he said that maybe the underlying cause of painful RLS is different than the typical RLS associated with low iron in some area of the brain. This makes sense, because I never responded to the iron IV treatment.).

My RLS pain is in the back and sides of my thighs (worst on the left leg) and sometimes extends up my left buttock to my waist.

Anyone else have RLS symptoms not in their calves? My calves are very tight--like Charlie-horses--when I have RLS pain--but the pain isn't centered there--I don't consider my calves actually involved in RLS-- or only very peripherally involved.

And, I very, very rarely have any actual twitching. Do your legs twitch? A lot? Your calves? Or your whole leg? Both legs at once? One more than the other? Move involuntarily? Descriptions I've read on the internet aren't specific enough for me to understand what it is really like for most people. Please tell me.

I also wonder if any of you have looked into getting a Nidra device (now available in almost all states)? I've had mine since April and it works so well EXCEPT when the pain is very extreme. I'm curious if it works better for folks with twitchy RSL (instead of the painful variety). (I'm not knocking these bands--I now have frequent nights with no symptoms--and I credit the Nidra bands--using them over time--these nights with no symptoms rarely happened until I started using them).

My final questions are about how sensitive to over-exercising or over-stretching any of you are. This is my downfall. And, it takes very little "over" for me to create a bad symptom night. What I call a "bad night" is when I can't get the pain to stop for hours--it can go continuously for hours and hours with only short periods of sleep in between RLS episodes and I basically end up with very, very little sleep.

I'm recognizing my "bad" nights now are directly caused by over-stretching/over-exercising. And after one day of "over-something" I can have 5 bad nights in a row.

The medication and Nidra work perfectly, unless I have over-done some physical activity.

I wonder if this is something all people with RLS struggle with or if those of us with painful RLS are more prone to have---or those of us who have gotten out-of-shape (because sleepless nights have made us too tired to be physically active). ???

I'm struggling now because my RLS is mostly well-controlled, so I'm trying very gently to increase physical activity, stretching and some exercise (mild exercise) but this activity has led to severe symptoms recently--which then caused me to be inactive until the symptoms improved but when I tried to exercise, again, I aggravated my RLS once more with some kind of "over" (doing too much).

Do any of you have this same kind cycle? Any luck breaking it?

I don't have any day-time muscle soreness. But, boy does it affect my RLS at night.

(I'm working with a physical therapist and, really, I'm not doing anything that would appear to be "too much"---but darn it--it is!)

Again, I would very much appreciate hearing from as many of you as have time and energy to respond. If my RLS is "different" it would be helpful for me to understand how it is different.

I want to fight this every way I can. I have already lost too many years to sleep deprivation. The quality of life (and longevity) I strive for includes having more physical strength and fitness.

Please, I would appreciate knowing if anyone else has had this struggle. Months ago, I was much more "fit" (for an old person). Now, trying to increase fitness creates this cycle of more RLS struggles and then less fitness. Do any of you identify with this description? Is there a good way any of you have dealt with it?

I look forward to your replies. And, thank you for reading my long post.

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I have had RLS for MANY years. The only thing that has ever eased
the misery is pramipexole dihydrochloride tablets 0.5 mg (prescription).
It's no cure, but it does let me get some sleep.

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@missjb I don't have RLS...just obstructive sleep apnea which, discovered far too late, led to an irritable heart and ultimately atrial fibrillation (AF). It's a long story, but I am in a temporary hold now with no AF due to a procedure known as 'catheter ablation'. If it is done well (day surgery), and if the recovery goes well (about five-seven days typically until you begin to feel well and resume normal activities, but up to three months for the heart to settle down), the patient can be free of AF for many months or even years. It does tend to be progressive, though, so I'm enjoying being AF-free for the time being. I look into sleep disorders now and then because, like all the men in my family, and like so many aged people, we don't sleep worth a darn.

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@gloaming I understand, gloaming. I appreciate your reply and the PVD was a very valid thought. My husband had (has occasionally now) AF after many years of endurance running. Surprisingly, endurance exercise causes AF, too. He was ablated at Cleveland Clinic several years ago and (because he hadn't been treated in a timely manner had a "mess" of bad spots in his heart--lots of ablated area). It probably took 18 months after the ablation for his heart to settle down. I'm telling you this because ALL the results may not be as immediate as 3 months. I think he had one episode of AF in 2025 (lasting less than a day). Because of his athlete's heart, his heart rate while sleeping can run in the 30s. Our daughter had PAT (very fast rhythm coming on suddenly) as a child and was ablated in Milwaukee in 1999 as a 15 year old. Never had arrhythmia again--ever --She ran Boston (the year of the bombing). So, I do know what you are talking about and ablation is one of those miracles of modern medicine. Not everyone realizes this. So, happy you did! (One trigger for my husband's AF is not drinking enough water. Frequency of episodes declined when he started paying attention to how much water he drank). Best of luck to you!

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I have had RLS for MANY years. The only thing that has ever eased
the misery is pramipexole dihydrochloride tablets 0.5 mg (prescription).
It's no cure, but it does let me get some sleep.

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@rjjb Hi rjjb, I understand that pramipexole dihydrochloride works very well, but also cares the risk of augmentation. When my primary doctor wanted to prescribe a dopamine agonist, I refused to take it. The risk of augmentation isn't something I could deal with. Ultimately, I found a RLS specialist (neurologist) and he won't prescribe it. He thinks that in time anyone taking a dopamine agonist drug for RLS will develop this problem. It sounds like right now pramipexole dihydrochloride is a positive thing for you, but if this changes, know that it's not you--it's the drug. I fully understand that we RLS sufferers need to do what helps us sleep. Can you tell me what your RLS symptoms are like? How often do you have symptoms now? I'm trying to learn what RLS is like for other people. Thank you so much for answering my posting.

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Without pramipexole, I would probably be dead from
lack of sleep (no exaggeration).
I have an achy feeling in my legs and the legs often feel heavy.
At times I feel unsteady and have to be careful that I don't fall.
Thanks a lot for your letter and concern.

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Without pramipexole, I would probably be dead from
lack of sleep (no exaggeration).
I have an achy feeling in my legs and the legs often feel heavy.
At times I feel unsteady and have to be careful that I don't fall.
Thanks a lot for your letter and concern.

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@rjjb I understand. I've been there, too. Severe lack of sleep can be lethal. There is also a medical study someone did showing that the suicide rate is higher for people with RLS. Not a surprise to those of us who suffer from it. And, pramipexole works--using it needs no justification. Just FYI, if it stops working there are other medications. Don't ever lose hope and stop reaching out for the care you need. That is another side effect of RLS for me. After 5 bad nights in a row I worry I will never sleep again. The more I understand the more I am able to deal with any up's and down's--the discouragements. Thank you for telling me what your symptoms are like. For both of us--all of us--I wish there was a cure. Without one, we just do the best we can. It sounds like your symptoms are not unlike mine. I'm achy to the point of painfulness. Your heaviness is similar to my feeling of extremely tight leg muscles. Again, thank you for corresponding with me. I appreciate!

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Since posting my original entry some things have changed. I was forced to take a “holiday” from my Methadone. What I found when I stopped Methadone was:
1. Gabapentine does nothing to relieve my RLS. I’m going to discontinue taking it.
2. The Neupro (Rotigitine) did not completely quell my RLS. I increased the dosage to 4 mg/24 hr patch but still had significant symptoms.
3. I had significant body pain from my lower back down into my legs amplifying my RLS. I am sure this is why the Neupro did not stop the RLS on its own.

I was off the methadone for four nights. On night three and four I got three hours then 35 minutes of sleep respectively. I was dead tired and in agony on night five so I relented and took 10 mg of Methadone. Within a half of an hour my RLS stopped, I was free of pain, and I fell asleep.

Methadone has undesirable side effects for me. Lesson learned I will now take it on an “as needed” basis only since it acts so quickly once ingested.

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@zombiewoof
Hello,Would you be willing to name the doctor you saw that was very helpful to you with what meds to take. I need to stop Requip but I need a sleep specialist. Thank you very much.

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@rjjb I understand. I've been there, too. Severe lack of sleep can be lethal. There is also a medical study someone did showing that the suicide rate is higher for people with RLS. Not a surprise to those of us who suffer from it. And, pramipexole works--using it needs no justification. Just FYI, if it stops working there are other medications. Don't ever lose hope and stop reaching out for the care you need. That is another side effect of RLS for me. After 5 bad nights in a row I worry I will never sleep again. The more I understand the more I am able to deal with any up's and down's--the discouragements. Thank you for telling me what your symptoms are like. For both of us--all of us--I wish there was a cure. Without one, we just do the best we can. It sounds like your symptoms are not unlike mine. I'm achy to the point of painfulness. Your heaviness is similar to my feeling of extremely tight leg muscles. Again, thank you for corresponding with me. I appreciate!

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@missjb Just don’t ever take a benzodiazepine. They aren’t meant to be taken more than 2-4 weeks, and anything over 4 weeks will likely cause dependence. Long term dependence can cause all sorts of physical symptoms with no solution. Withdrawal after 2 weeks of use should only be done with a slow taper to prevent protracted symptoms. Benzos are a horrible solution for RLS.

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