Safety First!
My husband died two months ago and after 30 years with a wonderful man that I love very much I find myself living totally alone! I began thinking, "What if something should happen?" So I started taking precautions to prevent things from happening:
-I put the phone in the bathroom nearby when I take a shower in case I fell and had to call 911. I also leave the back door unlocked when I shower. If the police have to come and can't get in, they will knock the door down! The rest of the day and night, all doors and windows are locked!
-I have a car alarm to guard against theft.
-I go shopping very early in the morning. I live 15 miles north of Seattle and all their drug using population who are now drifting up into our area. But early in the morning, they are all passed out and it's safe to shop.
-I don't have garage sales. I don't want strangers to know where I live!
-I have no decorative shades on ceiling lights so it's easier and safer to change a light bulb. (I get dizzy if I look up too long.)
That's about as far as I've gotten regarding my safety. Does anyone have any other suggestions that I could consider? I'd really appreciate it!
PML
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I visited friends who installed a grab bar that affixed easily to the wall with strong suction cups.
They bought it on Amazon.
What a thoughtful act for a visitor and no damage to the shower wall.
Grab bars in the shower are so wonderful; especially when you get older! We have two in our shower and they help a lot! That was so nice of your visitor to do that!
PML
That is terrible about that poor person who lay naked three days on the floor! That is why you need a phone close. You never know what can happen! Good suggestion! What do you mean by water proof alert equipment?
Thanks!
PML
Good idea! I hadn't even thought of that! Thank you!
PML
Yes, I have suggestions.
Never leave a door unlocked at any time. Paramedics and police can go thru a window, some have Skelton keys, those are keys that will open anything.
Get a shower chair, and put grab bars in shower.
Pick up loose rugs, you don’t need them, you can trip and fall.
Let the phone ring, you can always call a person back, and what makes you think if you need the police you will be able to call them. If you are able get a care companion or house help at your home when you shower, but NEVER LEAVE DOORS UNLOCKED.
anyone out there with other ideas?
A cover for the phone or life alert device.
I read in another post on this topic that an Apple Watch is less expensive than a life alert device.
Maybe that watch is waterproof.
You can get a cellular Apple Watch. The volume isn't as loud as a "real" cell phone and, of course, the screen is smaller so it's harder to see things like text messages but it does have decent accessibility features meaning it will read your texts to you and you can respond by voice instead of having to type on a VERY tiny keyboard. It also costs $10-$15 a month for cell service. If you already have an iPhone the watch can connect to that from pretty far away (basically, for me, anywhere in my house) and you don't need to pay the extra $$.
The watch is waterproof for swimming and showering but you do have to recharge it once a day for about an hour. I do this while I'm reading or sometimes overnight while sleeping. Also, if you leave it on in the shower, you should periodically take it off and wipe down the band because it can cause some skin irritation if water gets trapped behind the band and against your skin.