Anyone decide not to do reconstruction after getting the expander in?

Posted by colson21 @colson21, Jun 29, 2022

Has anyone decided to not go through with reconstruction after having the expander in and getting 4 injections. I also had 2 surgeries that they did not get it all. DCIS and then 3 one got a Mastectomy and was told she would have not gotten it all if I didn't do Mastectomy

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I have HER2 breast cancer and I had a double mastectomy at Mayo, they got everything and I and have expanders. I completed 5 weeks of radiation and I am recovering.
The skin does change and processes of skin flap or implants are discussed.
I will have implants and first surgery on reconstruction will be in August and completion in December.
I trust my plastic doctor - and understand what limits I have for size after radiation.
I am in remission and have a bit to go with my treatment plan and chemo.
Excited for my future!!

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@boathouse

I have HER2 breast cancer and I had a double mastectomy at Mayo, they got everything and I and have expanders. I completed 5 weeks of radiation and I am recovering.
The skin does change and processes of skin flap or implants are discussed.
I will have implants and first surgery on reconstruction will be in August and completion in December.
I trust my plastic doctor - and understand what limits I have for size after radiation.
I am in remission and have a bit to go with my treatment plan and chemo.
Excited for my future!!

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I also have HER2 breast cancer. I have had only one breast taken, done radiation, and will have the other taken some time toward the end of year beginning of next. What limits for size are there after radiation? I have not heard this yet. I also have HER2 breast cancer. I have had only one breast taken, done radiation, and will have the other taken some time toward the end of year beginning of next. What limits for size are there after radiation? I have not heard this yet.

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@colson21 and @pumpkinbutt, I thought you might appreciate these related discussions:
- Chose not to get breast reconstruction https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/chose-not-to-get-breast-reproduction/
Mastectomy and breast reconstruction pros and cons? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/mastectomy-1/

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At age 45, I had a lumpectomy, chemo (2000) and 6.5 weeks of radiation on left breast for hormone-positive breast cancer (2001). In late 2014, in the same breast, mammogram found another mass in that breast and biopsy confirmed cancer. Had a double mastectomy—pathology on lump showed triple-negative cancer in left breast and DCIS was found in tissue of removed right breast as well. Had tissue expanders placed at time of double mastectomy. Had 5.5 months Adriamycin (four sessions) and Taxol (12 sessions) chemo in 2015.

I opted for breast implants instead of any type of flap, or tummy tissue surgery; I did NOT want large implants (are about a C cup; am a plus-size woman). I was prepared for the rebuilt breasts to not look "real" as my nipples could not be spared and implants would be used. Although it had been 14 years since the left side was irradiated, I've had a lot of problems with the rebuilt breast on that side—it's fallen to the left, it had a bleed behind it that caused it to develop capsular contracture necessitating replacement and currently, it sits much lower than the right.

When I HAD to have the left one removed November 2020 because of the capsular contracture (the implant became very hard and moved waaay up on my chest), my surgeon had to remove a LOT of tissue, scar tissue and skin—which meant using a tissue expander again to create room to put the implant in and growing more skin to cover it—which meant I had to have yet another surgery to place the new implant in April 2021. At the time of the capsular contracture, I considered not putting implants back in; my plastic surgeon said I would feel "maimed" if I opted to "go flat." Honestly, unclothed my "breasts" look awful, so not sure surgeon should be throwing the word “maimed” around; my oncologist (who has practiced 30 years and seen a lot of breast cancer patients) said mine looked pretty much like others he's seen (made me feel better about mine, but sad for all of us who reconstructed).

When I decided on the double mastectomy, I wanted reconstruction so that I’d look “normal” and opted for implants because I did NOT want a lot of surgeries, additional scars and the long recovery time associated with transplanting my own tissue from other areas of my body. So far, I have had 7–8 surgeries to fix various issues and the fake boobs (foobs) if unclothed would fool no one and do not "match" in shape, nor sit at the same level. Every subsequent surgery has cost me thousands of dollars (even with health insurance), taken weeks to heal and caused more scarring and a significant loss of tissue in my left armpit (I am lucky that I don't have lymphedema and that I have full range of motion in both arms). I don't know if going the "own tissue" route would have ultimately been less trouble and given me a better result, or not. I don’t know if the left breast having been irradiated meant no matter what surgery I chose would have led to less-than-desirable outcomes. If I had known then, what I know now and if I have to have more surgery, I will take the implants OUT and “go flat.”

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Thanks for chiming in, I have a girlfriend who just had hers removed after having them for a dozen years she calls grueling because she has had much the same experience. We are exactly the same age and because she was young and hubby got a vote, I understand why she got them, but there has been a constant hassle and she said they look horrible so her and hubby agreed they could go. She told me today that she wishes she had done this sooner. I begged to have a mastectomy but my doctor said no at the time. I never did plan to have reconstruction.

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@texasduchess

At age 45, I had a lumpectomy, chemo (2000) and 6.5 weeks of radiation on left breast for hormone-positive breast cancer (2001). In late 2014, in the same breast, mammogram found another mass in that breast and biopsy confirmed cancer. Had a double mastectomy—pathology on lump showed triple-negative cancer in left breast and DCIS was found in tissue of removed right breast as well. Had tissue expanders placed at time of double mastectomy. Had 5.5 months Adriamycin (four sessions) and Taxol (12 sessions) chemo in 2015.

I opted for breast implants instead of any type of flap, or tummy tissue surgery; I did NOT want large implants (are about a C cup; am a plus-size woman). I was prepared for the rebuilt breasts to not look "real" as my nipples could not be spared and implants would be used. Although it had been 14 years since the left side was irradiated, I've had a lot of problems with the rebuilt breast on that side—it's fallen to the left, it had a bleed behind it that caused it to develop capsular contracture necessitating replacement and currently, it sits much lower than the right.

When I HAD to have the left one removed November 2020 because of the capsular contracture (the implant became very hard and moved waaay up on my chest), my surgeon had to remove a LOT of tissue, scar tissue and skin—which meant using a tissue expander again to create room to put the implant in and growing more skin to cover it—which meant I had to have yet another surgery to place the new implant in April 2021. At the time of the capsular contracture, I considered not putting implants back in; my plastic surgeon said I would feel "maimed" if I opted to "go flat." Honestly, unclothed my "breasts" look awful, so not sure surgeon should be throwing the word “maimed” around; my oncologist (who has practiced 30 years and seen a lot of breast cancer patients) said mine looked pretty much like others he's seen (made me feel better about mine, but sad for all of us who reconstructed).

When I decided on the double mastectomy, I wanted reconstruction so that I’d look “normal” and opted for implants because I did NOT want a lot of surgeries, additional scars and the long recovery time associated with transplanting my own tissue from other areas of my body. So far, I have had 7–8 surgeries to fix various issues and the fake boobs (foobs) if unclothed would fool no one and do not "match" in shape, nor sit at the same level. Every subsequent surgery has cost me thousands of dollars (even with health insurance), taken weeks to heal and caused more scarring and a significant loss of tissue in my left armpit (I am lucky that I don't have lymphedema and that I have full range of motion in both arms). I don't know if going the "own tissue" route would have ultimately been less trouble and given me a better result, or not. I don’t know if the left breast having been irradiated meant no matter what surgery I chose would have led to less-than-desirable outcomes. If I had known then, what I know now and if I have to have more surgery, I will take the implants OUT and “go flat.”

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Thank you for sharing. I’m 68 and having a double mastectomy in 10 days. I elected not to go with reconstruction and hoping I made the right decision. I just didn’t want to have more surgery…

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@orchardgirl54

Thank you for sharing. I’m 68 and having a double mastectomy in 10 days. I elected not to go with reconstruction and hoping I made the right decision. I just didn’t want to have more surgery…

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Orchard girl: I had a mastectomy in 2019. Glad I did with no expanders. I'm happy being flat; no tight bras, no pinching, it's fine to be flat if this is what you want. Prayers for you. bemar23

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@texasduchess

At age 45, I had a lumpectomy, chemo (2000) and 6.5 weeks of radiation on left breast for hormone-positive breast cancer (2001). In late 2014, in the same breast, mammogram found another mass in that breast and biopsy confirmed cancer. Had a double mastectomy—pathology on lump showed triple-negative cancer in left breast and DCIS was found in tissue of removed right breast as well. Had tissue expanders placed at time of double mastectomy. Had 5.5 months Adriamycin (four sessions) and Taxol (12 sessions) chemo in 2015.

I opted for breast implants instead of any type of flap, or tummy tissue surgery; I did NOT want large implants (are about a C cup; am a plus-size woman). I was prepared for the rebuilt breasts to not look "real" as my nipples could not be spared and implants would be used. Although it had been 14 years since the left side was irradiated, I've had a lot of problems with the rebuilt breast on that side—it's fallen to the left, it had a bleed behind it that caused it to develop capsular contracture necessitating replacement and currently, it sits much lower than the right.

When I HAD to have the left one removed November 2020 because of the capsular contracture (the implant became very hard and moved waaay up on my chest), my surgeon had to remove a LOT of tissue, scar tissue and skin—which meant using a tissue expander again to create room to put the implant in and growing more skin to cover it—which meant I had to have yet another surgery to place the new implant in April 2021. At the time of the capsular contracture, I considered not putting implants back in; my plastic surgeon said I would feel "maimed" if I opted to "go flat." Honestly, unclothed my "breasts" look awful, so not sure surgeon should be throwing the word “maimed” around; my oncologist (who has practiced 30 years and seen a lot of breast cancer patients) said mine looked pretty much like others he's seen (made me feel better about mine, but sad for all of us who reconstructed).

When I decided on the double mastectomy, I wanted reconstruction so that I’d look “normal” and opted for implants because I did NOT want a lot of surgeries, additional scars and the long recovery time associated with transplanting my own tissue from other areas of my body. So far, I have had 7–8 surgeries to fix various issues and the fake boobs (foobs) if unclothed would fool no one and do not "match" in shape, nor sit at the same level. Every subsequent surgery has cost me thousands of dollars (even with health insurance), taken weeks to heal and caused more scarring and a significant loss of tissue in my left armpit (I am lucky that I don't have lymphedema and that I have full range of motion in both arms). I don't know if going the "own tissue" route would have ultimately been less trouble and given me a better result, or not. I don’t know if the left breast having been irradiated meant no matter what surgery I chose would have led to less-than-desirable outcomes. If I had known then, what I know now and if I have to have more surgery, I will take the implants OUT and “go flat.”

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You’ve been through a lot….I hope things get better for you real soon.
FYI. Wanted to get a double mastectomy 20 years ago and I was told I wasn’t a candidate at the time.
I’m sure Ill get through this ….you ladies are a real help ❤️

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@orchardgirl54

Thank you for sharing. I’m 68 and having a double mastectomy in 10 days. I elected not to go with reconstruction and hoping I made the right decision. I just didn’t want to have more surgery…

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I am 73 and had a double mastectomy a year ago without reconstruction. Like you, I wanted to heal and get on with my life. My gut feeling was that if I could look like myself with prosthesis, I could be fine with that decision and I am. I still had mild lymphedema and a persistent seroma to deal with, but no regrets. My oncologist told me that she had many patients who regretted having reconstruction, but no regrets among those who went flat. A very personal decision, good luck.

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@boathouse

I have HER2 breast cancer and I had a double mastectomy at Mayo, they got everything and I and have expanders. I completed 5 weeks of radiation and I am recovering.
The skin does change and processes of skin flap or implants are discussed.
I will have implants and first surgery on reconstruction will be in August and completion in December.
I trust my plastic doctor - and understand what limits I have for size after radiation.
I am in remission and have a bit to go with my treatment plan and chemo.
Excited for my future!!

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Hi, I too have HER2 stage 2 and had double mastectomy at Mayo with expanders and will finish radiation this week. I will wait until July/august for reconstruction so the skin heals. I’m currently on Kadcyla. I was curious why you’re reconstruction will not be done in one step?

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