Preparing for consultation & BMT transplant
My husband is preparing for BMT transplant. All the side effects scare me, as caregiver. He has had radiation & shots & pills (targeted treatment) with very little side effects but the strong chemo is new to us. Dale had plasma cytoma that returned & is now MM. Consult, 3days of testing is coming in the next few weeks. Three weeks after that BMT transplant. My typing ability is poor so my posts are short. Any suggestions, support would be appreciated. I am terrified!
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You will have lots of posts by tomorrow. I had MDS and a BMT in April of last year. We do not all get all the side effects and just know that the transplant medical team is all over any side effect we might get. The chemo i got was not fun. I lost all my hair in a few days, but my nausea was treated in so many ways. They take your vitals every 4 hours while in the hospital. I was in the hospital for Day 5 before transplant to Day 26 after transplant. I was blessed going home to have little wrong. I had been in a research study to prevent GVHD and up until today, day 307 past transplant I have had few real problems. I will say i follow all directions as best as i am able. Medications, eating, walking, sleep. Be good to yourself.
Where is your husband being treated?
My husband is being treated at Mayo in Rochester, MN. Should we be proactive and shave his head instead of waiting for hair to fall out? GVHD I dont know what that stands for? My husband, Dale, is 68. Oh by the way my name is Bev!
Hi Bev, I want to welcome you along with @katgob to Mayo Connect. Mayo Rochester is my home away from home, having had my BMT there coming up on 6 years in June. I was 65 at the time. Your husband (and you) will be in the best of hands.
I know you’ll have a ton of questions and I promise you’ll get answers here in the forum direct from members who have gone through the process of transplantation. It helps to speak with people who have walked the walk.
I do have a question for you first. You mentioned your husband now has MM. Will he be having an autologous transplant using his own cells or with cells from a donor?
Bev,
GVHD is Graft vs Host Disease. It would beside effects coming from our body's connect with our new cells in the case of donor cells. I do not have experience in getting my own cells, so keep reading in Mayo Clinicas this Hospital is one of the very best for Bone Marrow Transplants. Lori will walk you two through all of it.
His own cells
Hi Bev, Dale is using his own cells, which means he’s having an autologous stem cell transplant. Generally, recovery time for that transplant goes a little faster and without the danger of gvhd because the cells are not foreign to his body.
As you mentioned, the preconditioning chemo will be new to him. It is a bit more aggressive than what he’s had previously. I don’t know how many days he’ll have chemo but I do remember a woman who had MM with an auto transplant the same time I was in. She had one day of chemo and that was all. I had 5 days. So it all depends on the doctor’s orders.
The strong chemo is necessary to completely clear the cancer cells from his bone marrow in order to make a squeaky clean environment for the infusion of his prepped cells. There can be some side effects associated with this preconditioning such as nausea, mouth sores, fatigue and hair loss.
You’d asked about hair loss. From experience, it does start its exodus about 10 days after the chemo. So he may want to go ahead and get a buzz cut before that happens. The chemo will lower his blood numbers as the cells die off, which will make him more prone to infections. So his team will likely discourage a buzz cut after that to avoid any nicks or cuts.
There are many members in the forum who have had auto transplants and have shared their stories here. I’ll give you a couple links which will take you to their replies that I think are helpful accounting the process for an auto transplant.
This from @countrygirlusa
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/716285/
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Another from @capthondo https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/747475/
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I also have a Caregiver’s Guide from Mayo. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/caregivers-for-bmt-car-t-and-hematology/tab/transplant-journey/#ch-tab-navigation
The BMT teams at Mayo are extremely attentive and will do everything they can to assure Dale is safe and comfortable. Don’t hesitate to ask questions or express concern. They will take care of both of you!
You’ll both learn a great deal with Dale’s upcoming appointments. Besides the routine pre transplant testing, there are educational classes which are filled with useful details.
Do you have any specific questions for me?
Hi Bev. My husband David got his “buzz” haircut from one of the very kind nursing assistants right on Station 94 (in the Methodist hospital Eisenberg building where much transplant work happens). We knew this would happen and had packed a stylish hat that everyone admired.
Best of luck to you both.
Dale will have one dose of chemo! I am not the calmest person in a crisis & am worried I will make things worse!
Thank you! The caregiver portion was very helpful
Transplant classes? Videos or with real people? Says in caregiver guide I have to be with him 24/7? Can I not go for a walk or go to exercise room?