Pancreatic Cancer Group: Introduce yourself and connect with others

Welcome to the Pancreatic Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with pancreatic cancer or caring for someone with pancreatic cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I’m Colleen, and I’m the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you’ll to be greeted by fellow members and volunteer patient Mentors, when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Volunteer Mentors on Connect.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.

Pull up a chair. Let's start with introductions.

When were you diagnosed with pancreatic cancer? What treatments have you had? How are you doing?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Pancreatic Cancer Support Group.

@bpope

My doctor suggested a Whipple. What is the recovery like?

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Bpope, you may wish to browse through all the discussions in the Pancreatic Cancer group (https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/pancreatic-cancer/). There are several discussing Whipple surgery that I think are very helpful. Here's one to get you started:
- Whipple procedure: What is the recovery like? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/pancreatic-cancer-whipple-procedure/

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@chiwivalencia

He is on medicaid/care and Mayo only accepted him due to an emergency visit. One week of tests, diagnosis and release. In my opinion its his insurance HMO low income causing delay.

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@chiwivalencia, you can get specfic answers to your questions about insurance and possible solutions by calling Mayo Clinic directly here:
- Mayo Clinic Insurance https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/billing-insurance/insurance

I hope you get answers and care for your husband. I agree with @beachdog that getting care at NCI cancer center is best.

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@chiwivalencia

He is on medicaid/care and Mayo only accepted him due to an emergency visit. One week of tests, diagnosis and release. In my opinion its his insurance HMO low income causing delay.

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@chiwivalencia FYI, he should qualify for disability from social security and they expedite requests from pancan patients. Perhaps addl funds will help with co-pays, etc.

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@beachdog

@chiwivalencia
You need to get him into a National Cancer Institute hospital with pancreatic specialty. You didn't say what aspect of his insurance wouldn't cover Mayo treatments. You said he wasn't on chemo yet so what was Mayo doing for him? My wife started chemo the day after installing the port so that shouldn't have delayed chemo.

Good luck.

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He is on medicaid/care and Mayo only accepted him due to an emergency visit. One week of tests, diagnosis and release. In my opinion its his insurance HMO low income causing delay.

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@chiwivalencia

Hi Colleen. I just found this group and I'm hoping the members can give me and my husband some insight on PC Stage 4. Its for my father in law who we moved into our home to SoCal from the mayo clinic in Scottsdale. his insurance didn't cover him for further treatment there (unfortunately) . He is 62 and diagnosed July 18th. Port put in for chemo Aug 18th and still no chemo. He has NO appetite and getting him to drink water or anything is Next to impossible. pain is horrible and watching him suffer is just heartbreaking. Any ideas on how to get him to eat something, or pain tolerance? Our next step is the ER & hope he gets admitted to at least get an IV into him with fluids......

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@chiwivalencia
You need to get him into a National Cancer Institute hospital with pancreatic specialty. You didn't say what aspect of his insurance wouldn't cover Mayo treatments. You said he wasn't on chemo yet so what was Mayo doing for him? My wife started chemo the day after installing the port so that shouldn't have delayed chemo.

Good luck.

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Hi Colleen. I just found this group and I'm hoping the members can give me and my husband some insight on PC Stage 4. Its for my father in law who we moved into our home to SoCal from the mayo clinic in Scottsdale. his insurance didn't cover him for further treatment there (unfortunately) . He is 62 and diagnosed July 18th. Port put in for chemo Aug 18th and still no chemo. He has NO appetite and getting him to drink water or anything is Next to impossible. pain is horrible and watching him suffer is just heartbreaking. Any ideas on how to get him to eat something, or pain tolerance? Our next step is the ER & hope he gets admitted to at least get an IV into him with fluids......

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@srhyne

Last week I had a biopsy of pancreas and endoscopy; Dr. explained I had pancreatic cancer and a plugged bile duct. This week I am having another CT scan and meeting with oncologist. Next week Dr. Ramage will use endoscopy to place a stent in bile duct. This week has been difficult with my emotions taking over so much, and I don't want to put my family through this. I am very grateful for the Mayo support group since we don't live near a Mayo Clinic. I am retired educator--teacher, local education supervisor, and program director for NC state education dept. So I prefer to have all info I can learn about what to expect and how to be most productive for as long as possible. I am married to a wonderful and unusual man who retired to care for his first wife who was on oxygen and an invalid for their last 3 years. My husband had fibrosis in lungs and lived for 12 months after the diagnosis. I was a widow for 10 years before my second marriage--both to really great men. Right now I need help with handling my emotions and learning all I can about living as well as possible. Thank you for being there!

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@srhyne I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer earlier this year - in NC and currently being treated at Duke. I decided to record my experiences and thoughts that I hoped would be of some use to the newly diagnosed patient and their families. My notes are now available in e-book and paperback format and you can read a sample at the following link to help determine if it might be right for you - https://www.amazon.com/One-Path-Among-Many-experiences-ebook/dp/B0BBD5ZVTG Best,

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My doctor suggested a Whipple. What is the recovery like?

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@srhyne

Last week I had a biopsy of pancreas and endoscopy; Dr. explained I had pancreatic cancer and a plugged bile duct. This week I am having another CT scan and meeting with oncologist. Next week Dr. Ramage will use endoscopy to place a stent in bile duct. This week has been difficult with my emotions taking over so much, and I don't want to put my family through this. I am very grateful for the Mayo support group since we don't live near a Mayo Clinic. I am retired educator--teacher, local education supervisor, and program director for NC state education dept. So I prefer to have all info I can learn about what to expect and how to be most productive for as long as possible. I am married to a wonderful and unusual man who retired to care for his first wife who was on oxygen and an invalid for their last 3 years. My husband had fibrosis in lungs and lived for 12 months after the diagnosis. I was a widow for 10 years before my second marriage--both to really great men. Right now I need help with handling my emotions and learning all I can about living as well as possible. Thank you for being there!

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Hi @srhyne! I’m new to the group although I was diagnosed in October 2021. I had treatment locally but am now at Mayo heading for a complete pancreatectomy— a word I don’t know until about 6 months ago. If there is one thing that has stood me in good stead as a mantra of sorts, it’s this: You are not a statistic. Statistics say you should be terrified of pancreas cancer. But statistics don’t acknowledge all the many exceptions—and there’s no reason you can’t be one of the better outcomes! So focus on learning from those stories
That said, there’s a lot to learn. Take control of the things you can, like diet, exercise and sleep. The common“mindset“ advice is a two-edged sword. It can turn into blaming the victim if things seem not to go right (“You weren’t thinking positively enough!” That’s nonsense, IMO)
One more thought: Don’t give up if at some point down the road your local team says they can’t help. I was being treated at one of the best cancer centers in the country in Boston, which thinks of itself as a medical Mecca. After 12 rounds of chemo my local surgeon said he thought surgery was too risky, end of story, basically. I had my scans sent to Mayo and they told me, to the contrary, I’m an ideal candidate for a very complicated surgery that they do more of than anyone else. So here I am, doing “prehab” to get prepared.
Keep plugging and putting one foot in front of the other, but let people help you.
Good luck!

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I am the spouse of a pancreatic cancer victim. We found out he has it on Dec. 15, 2022. He has had four Florfirinox chemo treatments and 7 rounds of Abraxane and Gemcitabine chemo treatments (sp??). He is stage 4 with metastasis to the liver. We are at the Mayo clinic. he also has Peripheral Artery Disease, but has never smoked or had a weight problem.

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