Newly diagnosed with CKD (Chronic Kidney Disease) and terrified

Posted by nightwhisper @nightwhisper, Jan 21 3:59am

Hello. I'm looking for some comfort because what I read on the internet about kidney disease is very bad. I had blood in the urine from the glomeruli of the kidneys in 2011 but we monitored it and I was doing very well things were quiet. Now suddenly it started to rise my creatinine and the percentage of my kidneys working is low as my nephrologist told me. I think I'm in stage 3 kidney disease. I'm doing tests all the time and I'm afraid that every time I go for blood tests my creatinine will be more and more up and I can't handle it all.I'm so scared it's progressing fast.I always shudder at illnesses and now something so serious is happening to me,it's a nightmare.I thought I was doing fine,I don't know what this new kidney problem is.Can can someone give me some advice to get courage for my disease? What would you say to someone who has just been diagnosed with kidney disease and is panicking? I am very sad and scared, I feel like my life is over and I am worried about my family how will I leave them .

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@help60

I'd say don't panic. You can't think when you panic. If you don't have a kidney Doctor, get one. And if you don't have a dietician that specializes in CKD, get one. Knowledge is power. There is a CKD Webinar going on this week sponsored by American Kidney Fund. Log on to their website, sign up for webinar. In the chat, you can ask questions and watch what talks that were given yesterday. Really hope this helps you out. I'm dealing with trying to stay calm as I navigate learning I'm stage 2 CKD. In process of finding Kidney Dr and dietician myself.

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@help60 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. You have wise words of advice here, and absolutely, knowledge is power! "Don't panic" is easy to say, harder to accomplish, as i bet you know first-hand, right!?

Don't let a doctor pooh-pooh your concern over kidney disease. It is better, from my experience, to learn all you can to mitigate the condition. Proper diet for you, moderate exercise, stress control, adequate rest all play a part. When you understand the underlying cause of the kidney disease, work on that. For me, my underlying cause is a very rare autoimmune condition [less than 50 people ever diagnosed with it!] that causes fibrin deposits into the filtering components of my kidneys. No treatment for that. But by following a renal diet long before the drs suggested it, I was able to preserve function for a long time.

Tell us what you are doing to track down a good nephrologist and dietician, if you would?
Ginger

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@gingerw

@help60 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. You have wise words of advice here, and absolutely, knowledge is power! "Don't panic" is easy to say, harder to accomplish, as i bet you know first-hand, right!?

Don't let a doctor pooh-pooh your concern over kidney disease. It is better, from my experience, to learn all you can to mitigate the condition. Proper diet for you, moderate exercise, stress control, adequate rest all play a part. When you understand the underlying cause of the kidney disease, work on that. For me, my underlying cause is a very rare autoimmune condition [less than 50 people ever diagnosed with it!] that causes fibrin deposits into the filtering components of my kidneys. No treatment for that. But by following a renal diet long before the drs suggested it, I was able to preserve function for a long time.

Tell us what you are doing to track down a good nephrologist and dietician, if you would?
Ginger

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Glomerulonephritis. Is this your dx? I was diagosed almost 3 years ago with this

Judy

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@jkm54

Glomerulonephritis. Is this your dx? I was diagosed almost 3 years ago with this

Judy

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@kjm54 The underlying condition for my kidney disease is called Type III Collagenofibrotic Glomerulopathy. Where glomerulonephritis causes inflammation of the filtering components, what I have actually places fibrin deposits into those same filtering components, eventually clogging them and shutting them down. There are 28 known different types of collagen in the body, each with responsibilities and activities! Who would have known!
Ginger

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@gingerw how were you diagnosed? I have a high ANA and high scleroderma antibodies but docs have not found a connection to the drop in my kidney function. It may be from low blood pressure and muscle loss which can affect the GFR.

I agree it is important to find out the cause of CKD. My dietary advice is the opposite of the usual, with the nephrologist telling me to increase salt and push protein.

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@windyshores

@gingerw how were you diagnosed? I have a high ANA and high scleroderma antibodies but docs have not found a connection to the drop in my kidney function. It may be from low blood pressure and muscle loss which can affect the GFR.

I agree it is important to find out the cause of CKD. My dietary advice is the opposite of the usual, with the nephrologist telling me to increase salt and push protein.

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@windyshores For years the high protein levels in my urine were thought to be caused by systemic lupus, which I was diagnosed with in 1988. No one questioned it, no one investigated further, until 2012 when I saw a new nephrologist who was more up-to-date with different conditions, and had an interest in my case. He recognized there were other values that seemed to contradict the theory of SLE as a culprit, and suggested a kidney biopsy. That was done, and the pathology was sent to Keck USC in Los Angeles, with a confirming pathology done by Cedars Sinai in Los Angeles. This condition was first recognized officially in 1996, and their departments had read case studies, but had never seen an actual case! They were very excited, to say the least. This diagnosis was reconfirmed in 2019 with another kidney biopsy.

I have been followed closely since then, and went on dialysis as of Sept 2022. I followed a good renal diet long before the drs suggested it, starting back in 2005 or so. In my case, I believe it helped hold off the inevitable decline in function. For me, there is the need to push protein also, as dialysis depletes that [especially peritoneal].
Ginger

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When I was diagnosed I was panicking also. I started reading and looking for answers. I have uncontrollable high blood pressure that I am dealing with. My cardiologist and nephrologist work together to try and make it go down. I have controlled type 2 diabetes, celiac disease that make me eat gluten free. I have to Lear to make a proper diet for all the conditions. I finally found a renal dietitian who is helping me with diet and is covered by Medicare. So ask your nephrologist about a dietitian to work with you and your panick can improve and acceptance become a reality.

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Our Dr invited us to Circle of Care and the dietician is working with my husband, who is nearly stage 4. So far, we know that many online lists of Potassium are out of date; but the foods we are learning to avoid are potatoes tomatoes and beans. Protein limited to size of your hand. There are others, but not on our list, so far. My issue is with a lower GFR since I fail to keep hydrated.

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@lemi1952

When I was diagnosed I was panicking also. I started reading and looking for answers. I have uncontrollable high blood pressure that I am dealing with. My cardiologist and nephrologist work together to try and make it go down. I have controlled type 2 diabetes, celiac disease that make me eat gluten free. I have to Lear to make a proper diet for all the conditions. I finally found a renal dietitian who is helping me with diet and is covered by Medicare. So ask your nephrologist about a dietitian to work with you and your panick can improve and acceptance become a reality.

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Lisinopril is what my husband has for BP, but it bothers his kidneys. It is a back and forth discussion but since he is at 5mg, hanging in there with that. With diabetes, there are conflicts all over the place. Take care.

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@rosemarya

@lbrockme - I also take water everywhere with me. It helps to stay hydrated, and an additional advantage is that I don't stop somewhere for a soda!
Since I've been retired and spend more time at home, I keep a pitcher of water on my kitchen counter where I can see it. It is my reminder to take a drink. My goal is to have the pitcher empty by end of day. This has worked well for me for the past 15 years with my transplant.

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Fifteen year habit of taking water. That is inspirational. I just had kidney removed January 12, I also have stage 3 chronic kidney disease with current GFR Of 38. I just learned a new term or strategy that has helped me with drinking water. It is simply called “structured water” which is planning or scheduling water. I set my alarm on my phone and it goes off every hour. Drives you nuts at first, but now I can turn my alarm off before it even goes on. Changing our patterns can be very daunting. Whether it is diet, exercise, drinking water or even our present state of being as we live with our various diagnoses, we must change our patterns. Blessings.

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@dougr19

Fifteen year habit of taking water. That is inspirational. I just had kidney removed January 12, I also have stage 3 chronic kidney disease with current GFR Of 38. I just learned a new term or strategy that has helped me with drinking water. It is simply called “structured water” which is planning or scheduling water. I set my alarm on my phone and it goes off every hour. Drives you nuts at first, but now I can turn my alarm off before it even goes on. Changing our patterns can be very daunting. Whether it is diet, exercise, drinking water or even our present state of being as we live with our various diagnoses, we must change our patterns. Blessings.

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@dougr19, It is good to meet you. I commend you for creating your own strategy for managing your water intake! I sometimes wonder what we would do without our phone alarms! Mine is set for my immunosuppressant meds that must be taken at 12 hr intervals due to my transplant. I have, overtime (and laziness) gotten away from adding ice or even a lemon slice, and drink the plain 'boring' water. I'll do anything to keep my transplanted liver and kidney happy! Now my husband is even drinking more water! It has become a family 'thing'.

Doug, I also live with one working kidney, the transplanted one. With all the positive things that you are doing, have your doctors given any indication of what to expect of your remaining kidney?

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