New to the prostate cancer club

Posted by Lanksta25 @lanksta25, Dec 2 1:45am

New to the club: I figured that I would get started with my reading and research to help guide my Journey here.

Bio:
Age 50, Weight 185, Height 6’0”, Exercise Daily, Never Tobacco, Alcohol 1-2 per month, No previous disease, previously very healthy.

Sept 13, 2025 - Recent PSA @ 13.4
Nov 7, 2025 - MRI Aggressive PI-RADS = 5
Nov 19, 2025 - Biopsy Gleason 10 in 4/6 cores
Nov 25, 2025 - PSMA PET = not local
Dec 4, 2025 - waiting on next steps.

So much to read, study, @ prepare for. 😳

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Hey buddy, You’ve been given the very best advice from some very knowledgeable people on the forum; and some good homework for you to do regarding your results.
I will just add that #1: This is serious and you need the very, very BEST team of doctors for treatment. This is your life and this is no time to f*** around. Travel if you must.
#2: Don’t assume ANY one doctor has all the answers; you need to get different points of view in order to make the best decision for treatment. And for
#3: Hope for the best but plan ahead for the worst; not all treatments are successful (no matter what a doc says) and you ALWAYS need a plan B. Always ask your specialist ,”And what if this doesn’t work?” You need to know this!
With your young age and high Gleason score you are likely to have a more aggressive cancer which may need to be treated in stages, so don’t despair if that is the case.
Please let us know of your progress - we are all here to help!!
Best,
Phil

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I found out four years ago not only that I had prostate cancer, but that it had already moved to my spine. My life is different — side-effects from meds, radiation, and spinal compression have seen to that — but it's still wonderful.

Give yourself time to adjust, but also remember that there's light ahead with all the new treatments available these days.

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@lanksta25

My Gleason was 10.2 and my Prostate Cancer was confined to the Prostate. I was treated in 2023 with five doses of radiation with the Mridian machine which is a radiation machine that has a built-in MRI versus fused image radiation machines. There are two built-in Mri machines out in the marketplace. One is the Mridian and the other is the elekta unity? To quote two Radiation oncologists, “what they can see they can treat” and if it is in real time, that is important.
My brother had a Gleason score of 6.5 and his cancer spread ferociously, unlike mine. You might want to take the decipher test, which doctors use for treatment to decide how aggressive the cancer is. The test uses material from your biopsy.

You might also want to get at least one second opinion from a radiation oncologist, which you can do as a telehealth as many of the centers of excellence will be able to access your images or if not, you will be able to email them to them.

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As you probably know your Gleason 10 makes your cancer, extremely aggressive. The results of the PSMA Pet scan will let you know whether or not surgery is even an option. If it has spread outside the prostate, then they usually don’t want to do surgery, they want to do radiation because it can treat both the metastasis spread and the prostate.

Very frequently it has not spread outside the prostate, which gives multiple options.

Were any of these things found in the biopsy intraductal, cribriform, Seminal vesicle invasion, EPE or ECE. (Extraprostatic extensions extra capsular extensions). They can make the cancer much more aggressive, even with a Gleason 10.

Hopefully, you are working with a center of excellence, Because of the Gleason 10, the probability of a reoccurrence is very high. You want to work with the best doctors you can find. You need to speak to both a urologist that does surgery and a Radiation oncologist. With a Gleason 10 It would also make sense to find a Genito Urinary Oncologist to help direct your treatment. That type of oncologist specializes in prostate cancer, unlike medical oncologist, who work with all different types of cancer and aren’t able to concentrate just on prostate cancer.

Because you got prostate cancer so young you should get genetic testing to find out if it could be a factor. Does anybody else in your family have cancer? You can get it here for free, takes 2 to 3 weeks to get the results and a genetic counselor will call you. They will send you a kit that you return in the mail. You have to live in the USA to get this test for free.

Prostatecancerpromise.org

I got prostate cancer at 62, 16 years ago. I have the genetic problem of BRCA2, That causes cancer to keep coming back. I’ve had four reoccurrences. I’ve had surgery and radiation and multiple different types of drugs over the years. I also attend nine prostate cancer online meetings every month and many online webinars about prostate cancer. The more you know the better.

Since you have a Gleeson 10, you should consider coming to an ancan.org Advanced prostate cancer meeting. They are held weekly. The next one is next Tuesday at 3 PM Pacific time. If you have your PSMA Pet scan results it would be best. If you get there about 10 minutes early, you’ll be the first person they talk to and they can Give you some great advice on treatment. They’ve been helping people for 15 years. There are three doctors at every meetings, and frequently more than three.

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@jeffmarc I agree 100% with Jeff's assessment and advice....particularly the importance of working with a Center of Excellence with a multidisciplinary approach to PC treatment

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As others have said - welcome! But sorry you had to join our club.

You probably should get a genetic test of the biopsy cored tumor cells. That's routine at Mayo Clinic where I go. I have Gleason 9, but my genetic test (DECIPHER) showed low risk of metastasis - which was good to know.

These tests look at various markers in the tumor cells to determine their likelihood to spread. DECIPHER is the only one I am familiar with, but have hard others mentioned on this forum.

My biopsy was 11 months ago. Options were surgery or radiation, but the surgeon was not encouraging - probably because of my age (77) and comorbidities. So I chose proton beam radiation because it has a bit lower side effects than X-ray. There was quite a process getting ready for treatment, but then I had 28 treatments - every weekday for 28 days, and that part was easy and painless.

After that typical comes ADT - testosterone suppression - for some period of time. This is to help suppress any stray cancer cells that are planning a sneak attack of metastasis. For most people, ADT is not pleasant, but that varies a lot by individual.

Best wishes!

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My husband had a somewhat similar diagnosis. It is really upsetting at first but things settle down (at least it did for us) after you have more information. And there is ALOT of information! Read my bio if you are interested in his journey. You have come to the right place for support.

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@mjp0512
I have my first treatment counseling appointment this week. I only have a Urologist at this point. I have not met with an Oncologist yet. Thanks for the links.

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@lanksta25, how did your appointment consult go? Did you decide on a treatment plan with your doctor? How are you doing?

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@lanksta25, how did your appointment consult go? Did you decide on a treatment plan with your doctor? How are you doing?

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@colleenyoung

Thanks for asking. I’m working through the process. PET scan came back with some metastasized areas in lymph nodes. Met with Oncology. Waiting on genetic testing to come back to determine next steps.

Likely course of treatment
ADT now.
Chemo asap.
Check and then consider radiation.
Surgery is not an option at this point.

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