My Husband's journey with Glioblastoma

Posted by otis123 @otis123, Sep 25, 2020

I have been following discussions in this Brain Tumor group for several months and decided it was time to share my husband, Steve's, journey with a GBM diagnosis. On 10/25/2019, after one short week of headaches and some confusion....thinking Tuesday was Friday, starting to take the wrong exit off the highway....I asked him to see a doctor. On Friday, 10/25, he went to the ER where they did a cat scan and found a mass in his brain. An MRI confirmed a right frontal lobe mass. Surgery was performed on 10/28/2019 after which we learned he had Glioblastoma (WHO Grade IV), IDH1-Wildtype with MGMT promoter methylation absent. The surgeon said he had removed the entire tumor, which luckily did not affect any functional areas of the brain. He underwent six weeks of radiation M-F, along with daily Temozolomide chemo pills. He had no adverse reactions to either. Unfortunately, an MRI on 01/24/2020 showed a recurrence. We were told that because his tumor was not methylated, the temozolomide often does not have success. So Steve underwent another surgery on 2/13/2020, where once again the entire tumor was removed. The plan was to start maintenance chemo pills...but still temozolomide. However, swelling in the brain took Steve back to the ER where it was determined he was taken off steroids too quickly. To our shock, an MRI taken on 03/08/2020 showed the tumor had returned yet again!!! We said "no more surgery" as it obviously keeps coming back. It was decided to try the Optune Cap through Novocure and receive every other week treatments of Avastin, a chemo drip. I also heard about a book called "Radical Remission"...How to Beat Cancer Against All Odds, written by Kelly Turner. The best chapter in the book is the one on diet. I learned that "sugar feeds cancer". My shopping now has me reading labels. The book says to avoid anything with added sugars. Don't eat fast food, or processed meats. I buy everything I can find with low sodium or no salt added. We eat lots of fruits and vegetables and only sprouted grain bread. The book also recommended drinking Essiac Tea, which is made of eight organic herbs that are pesticide and chemical free. Check the website http://www.discount-essiac-tea.com to read the multiple testimonials from individuals with cancer. Steve has had MRI's on 06/01/2020 and 09/18/2020 each showing a continual decrease in the tumor size. On 03/08/2020 it measured 5.8 cm x 4.7 cm. On 09/18/2020 it measured 2.3 cm x 1.6 cm. He continues to wear the Optune Cap more than 85% of the time, plus the Avastin, the Essiac Tea, and the diet and lots of prayers from family and friends. We aren't sure exactly what is working so aren't willing to stop anything. We remain cautiously optimistic.

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@djw

Vickie,
Thank you for your comments and inquiry. My wife Anne is having two good weeks as this is her last week prior to the next chemo cycle on Dec 24. She hasn't had any bizarre behavior, or bladder issues since the ones after Thanksgiving. Her mind is slower to process information and retain it, she has to search for words, but she can carry on a conversation. She still has decent mobility and we can go on errands together, even went to dinner with friends this week so several things are positive now. I am still trying to figure out what caused the episode three weeks ago. The docs blame it on the brain bleed from the falls, but I am not convinced the chemo didn't contribute to it. We are going back and forth with the oncologist on her dose for the coming cycle. He wanted to increase it or keep it at 200 mg temodar. After our video call today he agreed to cut it back to 150 mg. At this point it is a balancing act between how much good the chemo does and how much bad it does. Anne's next MRI is Dec 26 so we are anxious for that result. How are you doing? I hope you have family or friends to spend the holidays with.
Prayers for you and yours,
Dan

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GREAT news to hear that your wife is doing better these last couple of weeks!! And kudos to you for being such a great advocate for Anne! Big victories indeed.
As far as I'm doing...I'm hanging on, doing the best I can while heartbroken and devastated. I keep my chin up, though, knowing Rick is no longer suffering and that he's in good hands where he is. I got to witness a beautiful transition his last couple of weeks, transitioning between realms, ours and the spirit world. Yes, thank goodness, I'm spending the holidays with two of my sisters and their families. Thank you for asking!
Continued prayers and good wishes for you and yours! I think we are all anxiously awaiting Anne's 12/26 MRI results now; please keep us posted! Thank you for sharing your journey.

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I am late in posting a summary of recent events, but in this case it is good news. The results of the MRI that my wife Anne had on Dec 26- "do not show any evidence of tumor growth" We were very happy with that result. With the approval of Anne's oncologist we headed south to Arizona where we hope to stay until late February. Anne has to be back in Kansas City for the next MRI on Feb 27. She will continue with her Jan and Feb chemo cycle here in AZ. are cycles 4 and 5. Physically she is doing ok with the exception of the chemo week and half of the following week when she begins to recover. There has been much confusion and back and forth with medical personnel regarding her chemo dose. It was finally agreed to be 180 mg per day during the 5 day cycle. Anything more that that and the side affects of weight loss, memory impairment and balance are too severe.
I must say that anyone going thru severe health issues of any kind must have a representative present to assist them during the process. It is necessary in order to convey to medical personnel a proper summary of results. It is also necessary to avoid errors and a sense of balance in dealing with medical personnel. I don't know if those personnel are over worked or what, but we had several incidents that would have led to problems had I not challenged what was being said. I don't see how any patient in these situations can adequately represent themself, especially when they have some impairments to begin with. Sorry for the side rant.
Anne and I actually took a walk yesterday of almost a mile. Today we went to the library and she got some books for reading. We are both extremely grateful for this additional time God has given us. We are thankful for the assistance of family and friends. We are thankful for the prayers. Our prayers go out to all others in similar situations.
Dan

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@djw

I am late in posting a summary of recent events, but in this case it is good news. The results of the MRI that my wife Anne had on Dec 26- "do not show any evidence of tumor growth" We were very happy with that result. With the approval of Anne's oncologist we headed south to Arizona where we hope to stay until late February. Anne has to be back in Kansas City for the next MRI on Feb 27. She will continue with her Jan and Feb chemo cycle here in AZ. are cycles 4 and 5. Physically she is doing ok with the exception of the chemo week and half of the following week when she begins to recover. There has been much confusion and back and forth with medical personnel regarding her chemo dose. It was finally agreed to be 180 mg per day during the 5 day cycle. Anything more that that and the side affects of weight loss, memory impairment and balance are too severe.
I must say that anyone going thru severe health issues of any kind must have a representative present to assist them during the process. It is necessary in order to convey to medical personnel a proper summary of results. It is also necessary to avoid errors and a sense of balance in dealing with medical personnel. I don't know if those personnel are over worked or what, but we had several incidents that would have led to problems had I not challenged what was being said. I don't see how any patient in these situations can adequately represent themself, especially when they have some impairments to begin with. Sorry for the side rant.
Anne and I actually took a walk yesterday of almost a mile. Today we went to the library and she got some books for reading. We are both extremely grateful for this additional time God has given us. We are thankful for the assistance of family and friends. We are thankful for the prayers. Our prayers go out to all others in similar situations.
Dan

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I’m so happy for you and your wife. It’s great news that the MRI didn’t show any tumor growth and you can spend sometimes in Arizona. I hope she continues to improve and get better. As for my husband we are still waiting for insurance authorization for radiation which sucks. His condition is deteriorating. He is becoming very imbalanced and starting to have hiccups these are all the signs that he had before surgery that got him to ER. I’m so nervous thinking that maybe the tumor has come back and we are going to go through chemo and radiation for no reason just for more torture 🙁
He had his surgery on December 2nd and is going to start chem/rad on January 18th. Is this too
Late. They keep telling me that it is not but I’m thinking it is. The radiation doctor did a CT with contrast to do the planing and when we asked him if there is any changes he said nothing significant. So why is he getting worse? God, how can I wait another 9 days for the start of the treatment? Waiting impatiently! Hope everyone else is in better situation. We are praying for everyone. Nobody should go through this.

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@manty54

I’m so happy for you and your wife. It’s great news that the MRI didn’t show any tumor growth and you can spend sometimes in Arizona. I hope she continues to improve and get better. As for my husband we are still waiting for insurance authorization for radiation which sucks. His condition is deteriorating. He is becoming very imbalanced and starting to have hiccups these are all the signs that he had before surgery that got him to ER. I’m so nervous thinking that maybe the tumor has come back and we are going to go through chemo and radiation for no reason just for more torture 🙁
He had his surgery on December 2nd and is going to start chem/rad on January 18th. Is this too
Late. They keep telling me that it is not but I’m thinking it is. The radiation doctor did a CT with contrast to do the planing and when we asked him if there is any changes he said nothing significant. So why is he getting worse? God, how can I wait another 9 days for the start of the treatment? Waiting impatiently! Hope everyone else is in better situation. We are praying for everyone. Nobody should go through this.

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My husband has Glioblastoma. Diagnosed after a biopsy on Oct. 16. Inoperable other than the needle biopsy. Radiation and chemo started simultaneously on Nov. 20, which felt like forever to wait. But we were told he had to sufficiently heal from the surgery in order to tolerate the radiation. The tumor had grown noticeably between Oct 16 and Nov 20, which was a concern.
His MRI on Jan 5 showed considerable reduction in tumor size from Nov 20. The doctors are very pleased with this result given their hope was to stabilize the tumor size now. Second round of chemotherapy started yesterday. First round dose was 270, now at 375. He is 86, so this is hard for him. But he’s doing rather well other than diarrhea. And he no longer reads much, a huge change.
I cannot imagine someone going through this process without a family member or friend acting as a patient advocate and intermediary.
Good luck to all on this journey.

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@manty54

I’m so happy for you and your wife. It’s great news that the MRI didn’t show any tumor growth and you can spend sometimes in Arizona. I hope she continues to improve and get better. As for my husband we are still waiting for insurance authorization for radiation which sucks. His condition is deteriorating. He is becoming very imbalanced and starting to have hiccups these are all the signs that he had before surgery that got him to ER. I’m so nervous thinking that maybe the tumor has come back and we are going to go through chemo and radiation for no reason just for more torture 🙁
He had his surgery on December 2nd and is going to start chem/rad on January 18th. Is this too
Late. They keep telling me that it is not but I’m thinking it is. The radiation doctor did a CT with contrast to do the planing and when we asked him if there is any changes he said nothing significant. So why is he getting worse? God, how can I wait another 9 days for the start of the treatment? Waiting impatiently! Hope everyone else is in better situation. We are praying for everyone. Nobody should go through this.

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We had a delay between the surgery and beginning of chemo and radiation also. It is to allow the brain to heal sufficiently from the surgery. In my wife's case she needed that time to heal, and it turned out well in her case. It will probably be a difficult time adjusting to the chemo and radiation as there is some experimentation adjusting to the side affects of those procedures.
Prayers to you and your family.

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@ruthannray

My husband has Glioblastoma. Diagnosed after a biopsy on Oct. 16. Inoperable other than the needle biopsy. Radiation and chemo started simultaneously on Nov. 20, which felt like forever to wait. But we were told he had to sufficiently heal from the surgery in order to tolerate the radiation. The tumor had grown noticeably between Oct 16 and Nov 20, which was a concern.
His MRI on Jan 5 showed considerable reduction in tumor size from Nov 20. The doctors are very pleased with this result given their hope was to stabilize the tumor size now. Second round of chemotherapy started yesterday. First round dose was 270, now at 375. He is 86, so this is hard for him. But he’s doing rather well other than diarrhea. And he no longer reads much, a huge change.
I cannot imagine someone going through this process without a family member or friend acting as a patient advocate and intermediary.
Good luck to all on this journey.

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It is good to hear that your husband is making some progress. It seems like a very aggressive dose of chemo, but guessing that is due to the tumor being inoperable. You and your husband are in our prayers.
Dan

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@manty54

I’m so happy for you and your wife. It’s great news that the MRI didn’t show any tumor growth and you can spend sometimes in Arizona. I hope she continues to improve and get better. As for my husband we are still waiting for insurance authorization for radiation which sucks. His condition is deteriorating. He is becoming very imbalanced and starting to have hiccups these are all the signs that he had before surgery that got him to ER. I’m so nervous thinking that maybe the tumor has come back and we are going to go through chemo and radiation for no reason just for more torture 🙁
He had his surgery on December 2nd and is going to start chem/rad on January 18th. Is this too
Late. They keep telling me that it is not but I’m thinking it is. The radiation doctor did a CT with contrast to do the planing and when we asked him if there is any changes he said nothing significant. So why is he getting worse? God, how can I wait another 9 days for the start of the treatment? Waiting impatiently! Hope everyone else is in better situation. We are praying for everyone. Nobody should go through this.

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@manty54, thinking of you as you and your prepare to start chemo and radiation. How are you doing?

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@colleenyoung

@manty54, thinking of you as you and your prepare to start chemo and radiation. How are you doing?

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Thank you Colleen, my husband is going to start his chemo/radiation tomorrow finally after delaying it so much due to insurance authorization. We are hopeful and praying for good outcome.
We had mover had to deal with insurance before thank God, but honestly I don’t think they really care about human life. When they have to get our money for monthly premiums and copays they don’t delay but now that they have to pay for the service that we need they keep delaying the process. It’s really frustrating. We not only have to deal with the dresses but also all the other stuff and they make it harder on you. I’m so mad

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