Husband had Whipple surgery and chemo: He's uncomfortable
I'm trying to be supportive, but he's to undergo chemo for 6 months, and have 5 to go. He's uncomfortable much of the time. Help!
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I’m sorry that I don’t know the answers to many of your questions. I also had an infection on my incision after leaving the hospital. They had to re-open a 2 inch section. It took five weeks to heal. We packed it with a special gauze that was treated with an iodine solution. That healed once I started eating more protein. We packed it once per day. I would reach out to your oncologist and inquire about the timeframe of chemotherapy Post Whipple. I disconnected from the pump yesterday and I feel like dirt today. I’ve never been this nauseous before in my life. I called the hospital to see if I can get some Zofran. Hopefully that will help - I don’t know. We have to be our own advocates. This is a hard road. I’m 57 and my dad went through this at 67. Unfortunately, he only lived one year after the Whipple. Even though I know, there are a lot of people that care about me and what’s going on, when we’re going through it, we are alone. No one else can feel this pain physically or mentally. We have to control what we can control. Stay strong.
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1 ReactionHi @stephenkogler is the chemo after the Whipple full strength (pre-surgery) concentrations? After Whipple I got an infection (thought to be from ERCP stent replacements) and my surgical incision has not healed yet; therefore, no post surgery chemo. Is there a window when Chemo must be administered to be effective post surgery? I have same lymph node count as positive as you; bile duct cancer and cancer on head of pancreas so I had Whipple on 3/14/23. Eight Floforinox sessions of chemotherapy before surgery too.
It was eight weeks. Week one was in the hospital. Week two was at home and I felt the hospital released me a day or two early. As you can imagine, the week at home was hard, but the next week was harder because of my withdrawal symptoms from the narcotics. My experience was that Tylenol and Advil and combination work better than OXY. It took me about two weeks before I could walk an hour a day and even now I can only do 20 minutes on some days. It’s a process. I was able to hit a few golf balls last week but was fatigued quite quickly.
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1 ReactionI too am curious as to what determines the number of rounds needed. My husband had Whipple surgery for Stage 1B with clear lymph nodes before starting Chemo. He is scheduled for 12 rounds of Folfirinox and will be having #6 next week. Each one is awful. Not sure why so many rounds are needed. My heart breaks for him at each treatment. Wishing everyone better outcomes🙏
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4 ReactionsI have also found the oncology nurses to be angels. They see us in our pain moments more, it seems, than the doctors do.
How soon were you able to begin chemo after your whipple?
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1 ReactionI feel your husband’s pain. I’ve been treated at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, Maryland. Diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in October 2022. The recommendation was for eight rounds a Folfirinox. When in fact, they did nine prior to the Whipple surgery and then they would continue the Folfirinox for four sessions. After surgery. I had the Whipple on April 24 and the cancer is stage two because 2 of the 14 lymph nodes were cancerous. I just had my 10th chemo yesterday and I’m sorry to say that it was the absolute hardest of all. The Irinotecan just about killed me. And that was even with two shots of Atropeen at the infusion center. Each of our journeys is so different. We have to be our own advocate, so even though our doctors are busy, we should be asking them for help when needed and I found it. It might take 48 hours to get an answer but most doctors I have found a JHH I’ve been quite empathetic extremely helpful. Good luck. We are all in this together, including those of you that are our wonderful caregivers at home.
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5 ReactionsThanks for the follow up. My assumption was as you suggest, the number of chemo treatments is based on results of the scans and how the chemo is affecting the size and vascular entanglement with the tumor. My CT-Angiogram of two weeks ago showed a 3.1 cm diameter mass at the head of the pancreas (adenocarcinoma) and some limited involvement with the SMV (superior mesenteric vein). My second round of chemo is next week, so I'm about 6 weeks behind you. Sounds like we are in relatively good shape compared to many who find themselves with an unanticipated pancreatic cancer curve ball late in life. Also like you, I was diagnosed and initially treated at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester. This old guy (74) returned home to Alaska last week for the chemo to follow this summer, but I'll return to Rochester for radiation therapy if needed, and the Whipple procedure as well. May you (we) fare well in the months ahead. As for the Mayo Clinic.... I've run out of superlatives to describe the quality of care, teamwork and professionalism by everyone I encountered there.
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4 ReactionsI believe the results from the CT and PET scans every 2 months dictate the therapy that is needed as well as the surgeon who will be doing the Whipple surgery.
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1 Reactionrod54 - Like you, I was recently diagnosed Stage I and just began Folfirinox chemotherapy. It's unclear to me whether I'll be getting a total of 8 rounds or 12 rounds (possible radiation therapy to follow) before the inevitable Whipple procedure. Did your oncologist tell you what determines whether you get 8 or 12 rounds?
I was diagnosed on February 21, 2023 with Pancreatic cancer at stage 1.
They weren’t sure if I would need radiotherapy and chemo before a Whipple surgery.
I just had my 6th round of chemo and as of right now I may only have 8 rounds in total.
If this is all I need I will have the surgery in August at Saint Mary’s Hospital in Rochester Minnesota. I will be having a laparoscopic procedure.
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