My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Posted by Lori, Volunteer Mentor @loribmt, Feb 14, 2021

The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori

What diagnosis brought you to a BMT?

How has it impacted your life and that of your caregiver?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) & CAR-T Cell Therapy Support Group.

katgob | @katgob | 4 days ago

dwolden,
For me, the 1 year will show in my BMB results if i am 100% his or my cells have snuck back in. Those tough German genes. One never knows.
Unless blood donations change, my new O blood will never be able to donate. A blood donor forty-three years ago to start, then a flip to platelets for 25. Then a recipient 6 total times for a mix of blood and/or platelets. I had tears in my eyes for every one of these donations and my donor cells. What an honor to get what i had freely given. I LOVE blood donors.

Lori, Volunteer Mentor | @loribmt | 4 days ago

In reply to @dwolden "You mean 💯 donor isn’t forever?? 😞" + (show)

Dorothy, while rare, it can happen! However, your husband is getting a ‘boost’ of cells with the DLI, which should help give the a nudge to start ramping up the cell production! Don’t go looking for trouble…his team is on it! ☺️

Lori, Volunteer Mentor | @loribmt | 4 days ago

In reply to @katgob "Slow posting. I need to check in and say on Monday i found my CMV levels..." + (show)

@katgob

Slow posting. I need to check in and say on Monday i found my CMV levels went back down. A sign my new immune system said to get out. I think so. My transplant was April 9th, 2024. My next BMB is in 2 months. I am hoping my feeling good will mean the results of the BMB are promising.
I thought about something on my walk today. In July of last year, I had finished my year of Lynparza and was excited for my follow-up visit with my oncologist's office. At the time, the fact my Medical Oncologist had moved to another hospital was only a could months past. and i was considered done with my BC treatments. My Nurse Practioner was my only holdover from my breast cancer journey. My breast surgeon first went to Cedars before my MO joined her in their new state of the art department at that hospital.
Well, my NP had told me in May she was pregnant and would be out for the allowed time. I was excited to see her at my appointment and hear about her baby's arrival and all. I had gotten a call from COH to change the appointment but i thought little about it. At the appointment I was now in a different wing in the women's center than i had been for 2 years. When the NP came in, she was not my regular or anyone i knew. As she talked with me. She told me my NP had decided to stay home with her baby. I felt sad right away. I left that appointment knowing the blood numbers in my blood test were worrisome to me. But, because neither the MO and NP knew my case or walked through any part with me, concern was not there. I was let down as i drove home and thought of my loss of my relationship with my NP. She was my champion that helped me through the 2 years. The MO led the way but worked with her NP. Alexandria would have looked at my blood numbers and recommended seeing a hematologist. I had pancytopenia in my BC treatment. I was a platelet donor for 25 years. I knew my blood numbers.
Today i thought what might have happened if i had not advocated for myself and got a referral to the hematology department. My blood readings slowly went down. My next appointment would have been 6 months in January for the new MO/NP. At what point would they have noted any blood number troubles and referred me?
I was reminded that if you have a spouse or are the caregiver for an MDS or other blood cancer patient, you are the support and love a patient will need through this journey. I had a group of friends who listened and encouraged me to keep speaking up. Let the medical team know what was going on. Having no real illnesses most of my life, I was uncomfortable being uncomfortable.
Today I am checking how i feel as i start my day as i have done nearly every day since my transplant. I hope all of you do too.

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Kat, I’ve had to limit my time on Connect this week. I meant to reply the other day so I’m sorry for the delay!
That’s fantastic news about the CMV! A testimony to the strength of your new immune system. Yay Team Kat!!
Reading through your story of losing your beloved NP…our medical teams when we go through something like your breast cancer or the bmt, they become our family members because we see them so often. A true connection with some of them for sure.
I’m so proud of you for following through with the drop in your numbers because it allowed you to get on top of things. We do have to be advocates for our own health!
Having the preemptive BMT was the best thing you could do for your long term health. I’m so happy you’re doing really well. Your posts are always such a positive validation for the decisions you made! As always, thank you for sharing. You make my day! 😍

millicentw | @millicentw | 1 day ago

In reply to @colleenyoung "I'd like to invite @leukskywalker @jessica0 and @taybro4 into this discussion too. @lisal64 @loribmt @edb1123, what..." + (show)

Colleen, I would like to be part of this group discussion. I had my BMT in 2018. In remission since. Thanks

Lori, Volunteer Mentor | @loribmt | 20 hours ago

In reply to @millicentw "Colleen, I would like to be part of this group discussion. I had my BMT in..." + (show)

Hi @millicentw! You are now part of this group so welcome to Connect and to the BMT club…such as it is. We have a growing number of members who have had a bone marrow/stem cell transplant for a variety of reasons. It’s a safe haven to discuss our transplant journeys, ask questions and offer support. We can be particularly helpful to newbies who are about to undergo the process.

Congratulations on your successful transplant. You’re one year ahead of me. I had mine in June 2019 and happy to say all is well! I’d love to have you share your story with us right here in this discussion where you’ve already posted!

There’s also another discussion that’s kind of fun. I started it a few years ago with a photo that wouldn’t be possible if not for having the transplant. Pop a pic in that discussion if you’re so inclined! ☺️

Snapshots of Hope: Life on the other side of transplant:
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/snapshots-of-hope-life-on-the-other-side-of-transplant/
What illness brought you to needing a BMT?

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