Low Risk IDC w/ Baseline Multiple Painful Conditions

I'm wondering what others might do in my situation and would appreciate your thoughts. I'm 65 and have Gr 1, St 1c IDC, 2 tumors: one 10 mm and the other 15, hence the St 1c, brca-, high percentage E+, P+, HER -, had lumpectomy of right breast 4 weeks ago w/ 7 nodes, all negative. Was told by my surgeon that I would probably be offered whole breast rad tx as well as estrogen suppressing meds. I went cold turkey stopping my bio-identical est, prog, test creams (big mistake, what was I thinking??), now I'm slowly weaning them. I'm awaiting Oncotype results and visits with the oncologist and rad onc to hear about recommendations. I have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (a collagen defect that causes skin to be fragile among many other problems) and chronic inflammation of my spinal meninges (adhesive arachnoiditis). I cannot sit, stand or walk without moderate- severe pain. That leaves the recliner at just the right angle to take all pressure off of the affected areas of the spine, but I refuse to stay there all the time. Some activities are worth the pain. I am currently taking on line classes from the recliner with adaptive equipment for medical coding to supplement my disability. I do not have pain meds because of the opioid crisis. I do have suboxone, which is all that the doctor would prescribe for the pain, and it does help a little bit. I have osteoporosis and diabetes from chronic steroid therapy. My other diagnoses aren't pertinent to the discussion. My quality of life is not very good due to the pain and limited mobility (I use a cane and a walker and can't walk very far due to leg weakness and pain). I have 2 grown sons and older grandchildren and wonderful, caring friends that I do have a lot of joy with. I am not seeking sympathy..I just want to share all this as it will certainly impact my decisions.
When I stopped my hormones, I was unable to get out of bed and walk without intolerable pain. I could not think straight, nausea, etc, etc. I am down to one dose of hormones every 3 days but increased pain won't let me get beyond that. I'm trying but unless this gets better, I can't live in a bedbound state. Then the meds? I don't see how at this point. I do not make collagen appropriately. Estrogen helps collagen production. Logic tells me that my pain and quality will worsen. I could take tamoxifen due to its ability to help osteoporosis; however, things would deteriorate on the med. Logic also tells me that radiation could put me at risk for serious skin complications, (as well as the diabetes) due to the Ehlers-Danlos. This seems like an impossible situation to me. I need to research what the chances are of recurrance that doing nothing would bring. I don't think I would tolerate chemo for obvious reasons. Each therapy could cause long term problems, compounding my poor baseline. What a train wreck, right? I feel blessed to have the low risk cancer that I do have and respect all of the experts abilities to help us. I'm just not sure what true "help" would look like for me. This was probably premature without Oncotype and recommendations. I will report back. Thank you for reading all of this. I feel somewhat relieved in just getting it all out there. Wishing all of you the very best on your personal journeys.