Long Covid has ruined my life and marriage

Posted by kiddo14 @kiddo14, Nov 16 5:21pm

I have been battling the horrible effects from The Covid vaccine for three years now. It has totally ruined my life and my marriage. Being told that you are a mental case and are unable to do anything correct is some of the worst things people can say to you. The one person whom you thought was suppose to be there for you really has deserted you. The best thing to do is leave a toxic and mentally abusive relationship so you can start to try to heal. Is anyone else going thru this or am I the only one?

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celia16 | @celia16 | Nov 17 2:32am

Is your damage from Long Covid or a vaccine?

bridgeback2 | @bridgeback2 | Nov 17 4:45am

What effects do you experience? Can you talk a little more about how it ruined your marriage?

kiddo14 | @kiddo14 | Nov 17 7:55am

It’s all about the illness. Always about how I can’t work, I can’t remember things, how he gave up everything for me. There is no communication and when there is it’s violent and very hurtful. How can one heal when the mental and emotional abuse is still there? It actually put the last nail in the coffin.

kiddo14 | @kiddo14 | Nov 17 7:57am

In reply to @celia16 "Is your damage from Long Covid or a vaccine?" + (show)

@celia16 I believe it’s from the vaccine. After the booster I started having all the issues. It’s vaccine injury

@Kelly62 | @kelly62 | Nov 18 8:03am

It's tough to heal when the band-aid keeps getting ripped off. You said that the best thing to do is leave your toxic and abusive relationship. If you feel unsafe it is a viable option and advise you to do so. Many things can strain a marriage, it's how we behave that matters. You can only control your behavior. What is it that you feel you need to do to heal?

kiddo14 | @kiddo14 | Nov 19 2:29pm

I need to get into a different headspace. Everything is just so messed up. Dealing with drs, insurance is the worst. I do a lot of research and sometimes I think I shouldn’t. I even tried moving thinking it would help. Well, it made things worse. I moved back to NY a month ago. Any suggestions?

@Kelly62 | @kelly62 | Nov 19 6:26pm

In reply to @kiddo14 "I need to get into a different headspace. Everything is just so messed up. Dealing with..." + (show)

@kiddo14 "Wherever you go, there you are." I read that somewhere. I hope that you are now located in an area where you have support. Familiarity helps. Even if it's the checkout clerks at the grocery store! Everyone needs to feel like they belong.
As far as research...you are not alone. I have enough self-help books to start my own bookstore. I found that I can read all I want and have a wealth of knowledge, but I had to move my feet to get anywhere. What is it that you are hoping for regarding everything that seems messed up? What's one thing, even if it's small, that you can do to tidy up? Perhaps this will generate some movement, so you don't feel so stuck in the muck.

craiglisto | @craiglisto | Nov 20 7:55am

In reply to @kiddo14 "@celia16 I believe it’s from the vaccine. After the booster I started having all the issues...." + (show)

@kiddo14 I also believe my ex started this after the vaccination we've been divorced and she's not been the same since that day.

craiglisto | @craiglisto | Nov 20 8:00am

I believe my life and marriage have also and disarray because of the vaccine. My ex has not been the same in my life insane. I have children that are suffering from it and financially it's ruining me and I'm about to lose everything that I own I put everything that I had and everything I earned into this love and it's over. Financially I don't think I'm ever going to recover on my end of homeless out of this. I'm 50 years old and I'm able to work now due to a disability. My son keeps asking her to get some help or talk to somebody and she refuses to do it. I am at a loss. At this point we've been divorced several years but still live together because financially I can't afford to go anywhere any other can my son he's only 17. I wish there was some help for her but she refuses to get any help or talk to anybody so I can't continue to let my son suffer. I wish that there was some way I can get her help whether she agreed or not.

kiddo14 | @kiddo14 | Nov 21 1:45pm

In reply to @kelly62 "@kiddo14 "Wherever you go, there you are." I read that somewhere. I hope that you are..." + (show)

@kelly62
I am glad I’m back in NY. Small country town and fresh cool crisp air. The greatest issue is the fatigue. Today I can’t pull myself out of the bed. This is horrible.
I wish they knew what can help with the fatigue and pain. Any ideas?