Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself

Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?

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I was diagnosed in 2005 and treatment has changed a lot since then. I had a score of 6 also. I had radioactive seed implants at Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC since I was living in that area at the time with 25 doses of radiation afterwards. Biopsies showed cancer in pretty much the whole prostate but that it hadn't spread. Hurrah for early detection. I have been cancer free since then with psa below .1. That is the good news. The bad news is that the radiation had impacted the tissues around the bowel and bladder and over the past 11 years I have had infections since parts of the bladder and bowel are now connected with a fistula or canal between them. Still dealing with that. Each person is different so lots more options now for treatment. Dad was diagnosed in his 60's and lived until age 89 with it not being an issue. A friend was diagnosed in 1999, had it removed but it had spread and died in 2013. Yes, this is a good site and have doctored at Mayo in Rochester and very good doctors there. Univ Wisconsin Madison is also good place from friends who have gone there as is Sloan Kettering in NYC. keep looking and investigating since new treatments, hormone therapy to name one seems to be used a lot.

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@greff

Hi everybody, I just found this website two days ago. It's wonderful to connect with other people who are willing to share their hardships and hopes to others who are struggling with medical conditions. I have recently been diagnosed with prostate cancer. We are in the watchful waiting game for now as my cancer is not aggressive (although they sent the biopsy off to see if they could determine the progression of the mutation. In adsition to the cancer, I also have prostatitis with all sorts of fun symptoms to encounter. I must say that with the leaking (incontinence), groin, pelvic, bladder, scrotum, and testicle pain involved, I might elect to just get rid of my prostate and call it good. The Doctor says there is a risk of sporting a catheter the rest of my life but I already feel like I'm a step short of either having one or wearing a diaper. (I used to joke about that in my younger years-be careful what a guy jokes about). I'm looking for some input on what your advice might be concerning getting the prostate removed. Thanks.

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I should add that my Gleasen score was a 6. My psa went from 2.8 to 7.31 in a year.

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Hi everybody, I just found this website two days ago. It's wonderful to connect with other people who are willing to share their hardships and hopes to others who are struggling with medical conditions. I have recently been diagnosed with prostate cancer. We are in the watchful waiting game for now as my cancer is not aggressive (although they sent the biopsy off to see if they could determine the progression of the mutation. In adsition to the cancer, I also have prostatitis with all sorts of fun symptoms to encounter. I must say that with the leaking (incontinence), groin, pelvic, bladder, scrotum, and testicle pain involved, I might elect to just get rid of my prostate and call it good. The Doctor says there is a risk of sporting a catheter the rest of my life but I already feel like I'm a step short of either having one or wearing a diaper. (I used to joke about that in my younger years-be careful what a guy jokes about). I'm looking for some input on what your advice might be concerning getting the prostate removed. Thanks.

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@ken82

I was under the impression that Lupron was to shrink the size of the prostate.. that is why they waited 2 months after the shot to start the Radiation..

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Yes, it does. Mayo's description of the treatment says it will also kill or slow the growth of the cancer cells. It's especially important to be used with patients who have advanced cancer, Gleason score of 8+. I also waited 2 months to start treatment and was told that it would shrink the Prostrate and slow down the movement of the cells, making it easier to radiate the cancer. My second and third shots were to reduce the risk of recurrent cancer. I was told that the lupron treatments, in addition to the radiation, improved my chance of survival by 20%. It brought my survival rate to 80%. If you have Gleason score of 6, you might not need the lupron.

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@waynen

The Mayo staff said that the urination issue is common since they can't protect the uretha from the radiation. It's not a problem, if I take the flomax. The first time I stopped taking it to see what would happen. After a couple days, the pain came back. That was about 4 months after stopping the treatment. The second time we were on a trip and I forgot the flomax. That was about 8 months after the end of my treatment.

In regards to lupron, I had 3 shots 6 months apart. My Gleason score was 8. It became clear to me that not everyone has the same treatment. I had 20 radiations and some had as many as 44. Also, some didn't have any lupron treatments. I asked my doctor why the difference and he said it depends on the severity of the problem. I don't know if you've had a bone scan and MRI of your organs. Mine were clean, which is why I got only 20 treatments. One guy had his cancer spread outside the prostate and he got 44. Your radiation oncologist will consult with a team of doctors to see what treatment you should receive. I also met one guy who had it spread to his lungs and received chemo and radiation. They treat each case separately and try to make sure the cancer doesn't come back. That's the job of lupron. Even if you have surgery, you should take steps to prevent any recurrence. There's some good research that supports the use of lupron to prevent any recurrence.

Best of luck to you on your journey. Take it all in.

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I was under the impression that Lupron was to shrink the size of the prostate.. that is why they waited 2 months after the shot to start the Radiation..

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I was first diagnosed with P C at my usual clinic in Central Iowa, I asked to be referred to Mayo Minnesota where they verified the condition.. I received 1 shot of Lupron at Mayo then went back to my home where the Radiation Oncologist there trained with the Mayo doc and the machine was similar. Mayo Minnesota said the Cancer Society would provide housing for me with a short waiting list... The 20 radiation treatments started 2 months after the shot.. no hot flashes.. and no more Lupron.. I graduated from treatments 6 months ago.. PSA way less than 1.. It had been 11 at the max. Before Radiation, Space material was inserted to separate the bowel from the Prostate a half inch.. but I still have some bowel side effects... I'm 82.. Grateful for such good results..

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@waynen

The Mayo staff said that the urination issue is common since they can't protect the uretha from the radiation. It's not a problem, if I take the flomax. The first time I stopped taking it to see what would happen. After a couple days, the pain came back. That was about 4 months after stopping the treatment. The second time we were on a trip and I forgot the flomax. That was about 8 months after the end of my treatment.

In regards to lupron, I had 3 shots 6 months apart. My Gleason score was 8. It became clear to me that not everyone has the same treatment. I had 20 radiations and some had as many as 44. Also, some didn't have any lupron treatments. I asked my doctor why the difference and he said it depends on the severity of the problem. I don't know if you've had a bone scan and MRI of your organs. Mine were clean, which is why I got only 20 treatments. One guy had his cancer spread outside the prostate and he got 44. Your radiation oncologist will consult with a team of doctors to see what treatment you should receive. I also met one guy who had it spread to his lungs and received chemo and radiation. They treat each case separately and try to make sure the cancer doesn't come back. That's the job of lupron. Even if you have surgery, you should take steps to prevent any recurrence. There's some good research that supports the use of lupron to prevent any recurrence.

Best of luck to you on your journey. Take it all in.

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Many thanks. Good counsel.

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@vernonkent

Replying to @frankstags
First hot flash for me was probably about two weeks after the Lupron shot. They have continued at seemingly random times.

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Same here

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@bobvan

Thank you for this info. May I ask a few questions? How long did you stay on Lupron? And how long have the negative side effects of Lupron lasted? Do you know how common the urination pain is among proton patients? Why did you wish to stop the Flomax? Your side effects sound worse than what I have heard from most others. Do you fell that is true, or are your side effects representative of most proton patients you have met? I certainly wish you the best in your recovery. Thank you for honestly sharing..

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The Mayo staff said that the urination issue is common since they can't protect the uretha from the radiation. It's not a problem, if I take the flomax. The first time I stopped taking it to see what would happen. After a couple days, the pain came back. That was about 4 months after stopping the treatment. The second time we were on a trip and I forgot the flomax. That was about 8 months after the end of my treatment.

In regards to lupron, I had 3 shots 6 months apart. My Gleason score was 8. It became clear to me that not everyone has the same treatment. I had 20 radiations and some had as many as 44. Also, some didn't have any lupron treatments. I asked my doctor why the difference and he said it depends on the severity of the problem. I don't know if you've had a bone scan and MRI of your organs. Mine were clean, which is why I got only 20 treatments. One guy had his cancer spread outside the prostate and he got 44. Your radiation oncologist will consult with a team of doctors to see what treatment you should receive. I also met one guy who had it spread to his lungs and received chemo and radiation. They treat each case separately and try to make sure the cancer doesn't come back. That's the job of lupron. Even if you have surgery, you should take steps to prevent any recurrence. There's some good research that supports the use of lupron to prevent any recurrence.

Best of luck to you on your journey. Take it all in.

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@waynen

Hi, I finished my proton beam therapy a year ago January 23. The main side effect from the proton beam therapy was pain during urination. Unfortunately, the uretha is going to get radiated. Mine began about a week after the treatment started. They prescribed flomax to address the pain. It solved the problem, but over the last year I've tried to stop flomax, but regretted it and started it again. I also had strong urges at unfortunate times, which went away after six months. As far as lupron, I've had some hot flashes, but actually not real frequent. More bothersome was the weight gain, and tired feeling. In May, I should be free of the lupron effect.

I had my treatment at the Phoenix Mayo and they are first class. We have a condo here so housing wasn't an issue. I did meet several people who stayed for free at the lodge next to the Mayo Clinic. It's worth checking out. Mayo does have a service to help find housing.

Good luck. Take the tour they give and get to know the other guys wearing those "cute" shorts in the waiting room. You all have a lot in common.

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Thank you for this info. May I ask a few questions? How long did you stay on Lupron? And how long have the negative side effects of Lupron lasted? Do you know how common the urination pain is among proton patients? Why did you wish to stop the Flomax? Your side effects sound worse than what I have heard from most others. Do you fell that is true, or are your side effects representative of most proton patients you have met? I certainly wish you the best in your recovery. Thank you for honestly sharing..

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