Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself
Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.
I'm Colleen, and I'm the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you'll to be greeted by fellow members and volunteer patient Mentors, when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.
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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?
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@looloo2 I assume when you write "HDT" you mean ADT, i.e. Androgen Deprivation Therapy. If the side effects for your husband are terrible, he might be interested in an ADT drug, transdermal estradiol, that is being considered by more patients and clinicians, that doesn't have the same set of side effects. UCSF is hosting a seminar at 9 a.m. tomorrow
https://meded.ucsf.edu/events/6th-urotoday-journal-club-prostate-cancer-patients
I’m new here. I was diagnosed in April 2025 after a couple blood tests for my medical showed PSA 7.9. Biopsy showed Gleason 8. Had surgery in June 2025…post op negative margins, 1 of 12 lymph nodes had cancer as well as seminal vesicles. PSA post op 0.27 at 30 days, rose to 0.31 at 60 days. Started Zoladex in November 2025, Nubeqa in Dec 2025 and 20 radiation treatments in January 2026. PSA is currently undetectable…..hoping it continues!
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The pet scan is much better for finding bone mats than the bone scan.
Good to hear they’re doing a DEXA scan too.
@jeffmarc thanks. PSA remains undetectable. PET and bone density scan coming up this month. Oncologist said PET would detect bone mets.
@looloo2
Bone density scans are what they give you every two years.
The bone scan for metastasis you can get more often.
I hope your husband‘s PSA stays low.
@jeffmarc thanks for responding. My husband diagnosed 10 years ago stage 4 Gleason score 9 metastatic. Proton focal radiation twice. Recurrence after 2 years post discontinuing Lupron. PET scans every 6 mos. They were every 3 mos., but PSA undetectable and insurance won’t cover every 3. Bone scan only every two years. Journey has been rough. Hope the best for you.
@looloo2
Hi doctor has me do bone scans and CT’s every six months. That’s as long as my PSA stays undetectable. We’re to start rise then I would probably get a PSMA PET scan pretty soon.
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2 Reactions@jap57 my husband has been on a couple different HDT medications. Restarted Lupron and has continued therapy for the last four years as well, will stay on it until insurance no longer covers it. My question is, how often are your bone scans and MRI’s scheduled, and have you experienced bone issues. The side effects of HDT are horrible for my husband.
I have a Gleason score 3+4=7 75 years old. MRI on spot as mentioned about and a small spot 3+3=6. I am scheduled for cryotherapy only on the 3+4=7 spot. Dr said we will monitor the other spot.
I chose cryotherapy because les evasive than radiation and faster recovery. Also leaves me with more options in the future. Looking to hear from anyone that has experience with cryotherapy.
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I feel for you and honestly I've felt like I hadn't seen anyone on here who's as bad as my husband's. His started a year ago with frequent peeing too, he was 55 and just finally went to the doctor with "enlarged prostate" and the doctor thought so too until the PSA came back at almost 300, then CT scan showed cancer outside the prostate and PSMA scan showed it all over his body! He started Firmagon (VERY reluctantly!!-he'd rather die than get his manhood taken away) he was supposed to switch to lupron but never did so we go monthly for injections, they also added zytiga with prednisone and over the summer he did 6 rounds of docetaxel.
Last week his PSA was 0.24 I think and it's been slowly going down after the initial decrease in the start and after chemo. It's a scary thought to know I might be a widow soon, but so far my husband is very active, he works out every day, eats pretty perfectly, looks fine, hair is growing back....Still it's hard, knowing that the end is nearer than we thought. His parents passed away in their late 90s 4 months before his diagnosis and my mom passed away 2 weeks after his diagnosis! I really can't handle another loss, with kids still at home too!
How are you feeling now and how is your family taking it?
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