Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself

Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?

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Profile picture for looloo2 @looloo2

@jap57 my husband has been on a couple different HDT medications. Restarted Lupron and has continued therapy for the last four years as well, will stay on it until insurance no longer covers it. My question is, how often are your bone scans and MRI’s scheduled, and have you experienced bone issues. The side effects of HDT are horrible for my husband.

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@looloo2 I assume when you write "HDT" you mean ADT, i.e. Androgen Deprivation Therapy. If the side effects for your husband are terrible, he might be interested in an ADT drug, transdermal estradiol, that is being considered by more patients and clinicians, that doesn't have the same set of side effects. UCSF is hosting a seminar at 9 a.m. tomorrow
https://meded.ucsf.edu/events/6th-urotoday-journal-club-prostate-cancer-patients

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I’m new here. I was diagnosed in April 2025 after a couple blood tests for my medical showed PSA 7.9. Biopsy showed Gleason 8. Had surgery in June 2025…post op negative margins, 1 of 12 lymph nodes had cancer as well as seminal vesicles. PSA post op 0.27 at 30 days, rose to 0.31 at 60 days. Started Zoladex in November 2025, Nubeqa in Dec 2025 and 20 radiation treatments in January 2026. PSA is currently undetectable…..hoping it continues!

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@jeffmarc thanks. PSA remains undetectable. PET and bone density scan coming up this month. Oncologist said PET would detect bone mets.

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@looloo2
The pet scan is much better for finding bone mats than the bone scan.

Good to hear they’re doing a DEXA scan too.

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@looloo2
Bone density scans are what they give you every two years.

The bone scan for metastasis you can get more often.

I hope your husband‘s PSA stays low.

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@jeffmarc thanks. PSA remains undetectable. PET and bone density scan coming up this month. Oncologist said PET would detect bone mets.

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@jeffmarc thanks for responding. My husband diagnosed 10 years ago stage 4 Gleason score 9 metastatic. Proton focal radiation twice. Recurrence after 2 years post discontinuing Lupron. PET scans every 6 mos. They were every 3 mos., but PSA undetectable and insurance won’t cover every 3. Bone scan only every two years. Journey has been rough. Hope the best for you.

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@looloo2
Bone density scans are what they give you every two years.

The bone scan for metastasis you can get more often.

I hope your husband‘s PSA stays low.

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@looloo2
Hi doctor has me do bone scans and CT’s every six months. That’s as long as my PSA stays undetectable. We’re to start rise then I would probably get a PSMA PET scan pretty soon.

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@jeffmarc thanks for responding. My husband diagnosed 10 years ago stage 4 Gleason score 9 metastatic. Proton focal radiation twice. Recurrence after 2 years post discontinuing Lupron. PET scans every 6 mos. They were every 3 mos., but PSA undetectable and insurance won’t cover every 3. Bone scan only every two years. Journey has been rough. Hope the best for you.

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Profile picture for looloo2 @looloo2

@jap57 my husband has been on a couple different HDT medications. Restarted Lupron and has continued therapy for the last four years as well, will stay on it until insurance no longer covers it. My question is, how often are your bone scans and MRI’s scheduled, and have you experienced bone issues. The side effects of HDT are horrible for my husband.

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@looloo2
Hi doctor has me do bone scans and CT’s every six months. That’s as long as my PSA stays undetectable. We’re to start rise then I would probably get a PSMA PET scan pretty soon.

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I have had radiation two different times at Mayo. Neither time was proton beam, did not even suggest it as an option, so I disagree with you that they “sell” Proton beam treatment. I have been on Lupron for over 4 years now. Yes there are side effects but I am alive.

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@jap57 my husband has been on a couple different HDT medications. Restarted Lupron and has continued therapy for the last four years as well, will stay on it until insurance no longer covers it. My question is, how often are your bone scans and MRI’s scheduled, and have you experienced bone issues. The side effects of HDT are horrible for my husband.

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I have a Gleason score 3+4=7 75 years old. MRI on spot as mentioned about and a small spot 3+3=6. I am scheduled for cryotherapy only on the 3+4=7 spot. Dr said we will monitor the other spot.

I chose cryotherapy because les evasive than radiation and faster recovery. Also leaves me with more options in the future. Looking to hear from anyone that has experience with cryotherapy.

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Hello, dear friends!
My name is Denis, 49 year old.

My story

When I was 47, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer after an abdominal ultrasound. I started urinating frequently.
I had tests (PSA, bone scan, chest X-ray, prostate MRI, and prostate biopsy), and they showed a PSA level of 531 (Gleason 4+5), three bone metastases (rib, pelvis, and elsewhere), and lymph nodes (groin, cervical, and lungs).

Then my oncologist sent me for genetic testing, which revealed a mutation in the ATM gene. In other words, the cancer was hereditary. My father didn't have prostate cancer, but my grandmother did, and it most likely affected me.

The doctors refused surgery and said that if they removed the tumor, the cancer would quickly kill me. I listened to them and began treatment.

In the first month (only the first month), I took bicalutamide tablets and was given Zoladex 10.8 injections (every three months). I also completed six cycles of docitaxel chemotherapy over the course of six months.

After six months of treatment, my PSA dropped from 530 to 18.

I had a Positron Emission Tomography (PET) scan in August 2024, which showed a reduction in the size of the metastases in my lymph nodes and bones. The primary tumor in my prostate remained almost intact, having only shrunk slightly.

In September 2024, the doctors held another consultation and prescribed two more courses of Docitaxel chemotherapy, after which my PSA dropped further to 6. The cancer persisted.

Throughout this time, I was receiving Zoladex 10.8 injections.

In January 2025, I had another Positron Emission Tomography (PET) scan, which showed a significant reduction in the size of the lymph node metastases and the complete disappearance of the bone metastases. The primary tumor remained virtually intact, with only a 10% change in expression.

In February 2025, We had a third consultation, after which I was prescribed and start apalutamide, which I've been taking for almost a year, and Zoladex was replaced with Diphereline 3.75 (injections every month).

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@denis76
I feel for you and honestly I've felt like I hadn't seen anyone on here who's as bad as my husband's. His started a year ago with frequent peeing too, he was 55 and just finally went to the doctor with "enlarged prostate" and the doctor thought so too until the PSA came back at almost 300, then CT scan showed cancer outside the prostate and PSMA scan showed it all over his body! He started Firmagon (VERY reluctantly!!-he'd rather die than get his manhood taken away) he was supposed to switch to lupron but never did so we go monthly for injections, they also added zytiga with prednisone and over the summer he did 6 rounds of docetaxel.
Last week his PSA was 0.24 I think and it's been slowly going down after the initial decrease in the start and after chemo. It's a scary thought to know I might be a widow soon, but so far my husband is very active, he works out every day, eats pretty perfectly, looks fine, hair is growing back....Still it's hard, knowing that the end is nearer than we thought. His parents passed away in their late 90s 4 months before his diagnosis and my mom passed away 2 weeks after his diagnosis! I really can't handle another loss, with kids still at home too!
How are you feeling now and how is your family taking it?

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