Living with Parkinson's Disease - Meet others & come say hi

Welcome to the Parkinson's Disease group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with Parkinson's or caring for someone with Parkinson's. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with Parkinson's, coping with the bumps and offering tips.

Chances are you'll to be greeted by fellow member and volunteer patient Mentor, Teresa (@hopeful33250), when you post to this group.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
Let's chat. Why not start by introducing yourself?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Parkinson's Disease Support Group.

I think being a caregiver to my husband is probably the hardest thing I've ever done, mostly because he fights me for everything. But God has given me the strength to get through 3 years of this so far. I get very little support from my kids since they have young kids of their own, who are involved in everything you can imagine. Thank God for girlfriends will let me vent would help judgment as many of them have been through similar things. I wish you all peace and knowing that you're doing your best and God's blessings to get you through day by day.❤️

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@sillyblone @graziellaz
Sorry about each of your husbands. I'm not a doctor, but I'm just checking that they have tried a medication like requip along with L/C? It helps me with motor functions every day. (Sorry if this is repetitive.)

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@nova11723
He is so drowsy with his seizure meds. He also uses Seroquel. All of this drugs are not fesible with my spouses meds. Covid messed his heart up as well. Too my diagnosises that have led to meds that take a toll on him. He still gets some benefit from Carbodopa. He has very high blood pressure and he takes to type of drugs..they make him fatiqued even with lower levels. He also has Hypothyrodism and it just tires him when that wears off. Thank you for caring and your suggestions.

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Thank you for your quick reply and follow up information. Wish I could keep my husband in a more positive mood but he feels that "if I can't do what I used to do, what's the point of living." Sometimes it really gets to me but thank God I have girlfriends who let me vent and don't judge me. It good to know you are here for advice too. Thank you and God bless you with the strength to go on each day.

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@graziellaz
Yes, It seems to be a pattern. My spouse has seizures which keeps him from doing some rehab.He has been using his walker more. He is able to walk freely at home. Following directions is not easy for him to understand. Since Parkininson's is a movement disorder most patients and or family members get frustrated for the fear of falling. Actually , my spouse fell on our driveway. He did not want to wait to get in the garage where the floor is flat. I think he forgets what he is able to do and what he cannot. He of course is in end stage Parkinsons. Limited things that he can or cannot do anymore has been hard for him. He tells me " I want to be normal again". I just try to keep him positive or suggest something like a movie or a puzzle, cards, etc. That does not always work. Keep a dairy of things that stick out to you and or/changes that concern you. Stay positive, which is exhausting and overwhelming at times. If you need a good cry..do so. Allow yourself to be whatever emotion you have and by all means take care of yourself..You matter too.🫂💞

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@sillyblone @graziellaz
Sorry about each of your husbands. I'm not a doctor, but I'm just checking that they have tried a medication like requip along with L/C? It helps me with motor functions every day. (Sorry if this is repetitive.)

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@sillyblone
Thank you so much for your reply. My husband is currently in acute rehab after I took him to ER when he could no longer stand on his feet. He was fine the day before. This has happened twice so far -- once it was 22 days after he got out of rehab (and I take him to outpatient rehab 3x week) and the most recent was 32 days after he came out of rehab. Not one doctor can explain why this happens almost every month. They told me that I should leave him in bed for a few days and see if he's better.....basically they do not have any explanation for this. They did increase his Carbidopa/Levoidopaado and think this should help. Only time will tell. He's coming home from rehab next week and now we start counting the days again. Is this what happens with your husband? My husband does great at acute rehab -- he works hard and comes home in pretty good shape but refuses to do any work with me or by himself. It is exhausting. Thanks again for your info. All the best.

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@graziellaz
Yes, It seems to be a pattern. My spouse has seizures which keeps him from doing some rehab.He has been using his walker more. He is able to walk freely at home. Following directions is not easy for him to understand. Since Parkininson's is a movement disorder most patients and or family members get frustrated for the fear of falling. Actually , my spouse fell on our driveway. He did not want to wait to get in the garage where the floor is flat. I think he forgets what he is able to do and what he cannot. He of course is in end stage Parkinsons. Limited things that he can or cannot do anymore has been hard for him. He tells me " I want to be normal again". I just try to keep him positive or suggest something like a movie or a puzzle, cards, etc. That does not always work. Keep a dairy of things that stick out to you and or/changes that concern you. Stay positive, which is exhausting and overwhelming at times. If you need a good cry..do so. Allow yourself to be whatever emotion you have and by all means take care of yourself..You matter too.🫂💞

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@graziellaz
Unfortunely, yes! My spouse should glow in the dark. Numerous CT, MRI's and EEG. He has seizures and sometimes low blood sugar's. I can usually tell if it is one or them both. He has has PD since 2013. When u know what it looks like..trust your gut. I went with him so many PT visits and he is good for awhile..then again he is weak and won't exercise( and they are so easy to do) He gets apathetic..Leave me alone as I want to watch TV. I used to do them with him and he took no initiative to go further. We worked out for 5.5 yrs. at the YMCA! It was a Parkinsons program. Get hooked up with the Parkinson's Association/Micheal J. Fox. They have you tube videos that are good. Don't be discouraged if he does not want to participate. It seems to be the case for some men. I think us women call it"Pride". Keep in touch and I will answer as soon as I realize u have sent me something. Caregiving is hard and no one ever asked for it. Keep ur head up and don't feel like u cannot question a physician. I did it quite frequently through his dealing with every issue u can imagine. Strong women stick together!! I would like to know when you find out new things and maybe I can spare u from the healthcare system that does not always look out for our loved ones!! 💕🫂

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@sillyblone
Thank you so much for your reply. My husband is currently in acute rehab after I took him to ER when he could no longer stand on his feet. He was fine the day before. This has happened twice so far -- once it was 22 days after he got out of rehab (and I take him to outpatient rehab 3x week) and the most recent was 32 days after he came out of rehab. Not one doctor can explain why this happens almost every month. They told me that I should leave him in bed for a few days and see if he's better.....basically they do not have any explanation for this. They did increase his Carbidopa/Levoidopaado and think this should help. Only time will tell. He's coming home from rehab next week and now we start counting the days again. Is this what happens with your husband? My husband does great at acute rehab -- he works hard and comes home in pretty good shape but refuses to do any work with me or by himself. It is exhausting. Thanks again for your info. All the best.

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Helo @sheilaz

As it has been a while since you last posted, I was wondering how your husband was doing. Are his symptoms being well-controlled?

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@hopeful33250 He is doing ok. Just a lot of off times. thinking about looking into the pump.

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Hello. My husband has PD for about 8 years.
We are in Rochester MN and wish to inform about a Support Group in Rochester at 125Live.
3rd Thursday of the month at 1:30.

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Helo @sheilaz

As it has been a while since you last posted, I was wondering how your husband was doing. Are his symptoms being well-controlled?

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@graziellaz
Yes, he has been taking Carbidopa/Levodopa 25-100 mg 3x a day and rOPINIRole 3x a day for about 8 months. It has helped with his walking as his right foot doesn't get stuck as much. Since he's currently in the hospital where they have PT geared to Parkinson, the Neurologist there wants to increase the Carbidopa and wean him off the rOpinirole. I asked that she consult with his current neurologist before doing that.
How do I get in touch with @sillyblone ?

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@graziellaz
I have been on that combination (Carbidopa/Levoidopa/Repinirole (Requip) for many years. The only reason that I see to wean somebody off of Ropinirole if their urges (gambling/sexual) are too strong. You should ask the neurologist why they want to have you wean off the Ropinirole and what the long-term plan is?

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@sillyblone Hi, I’m the one with PD. Just diagnosed and I’m 66 (female). I have mild symptoms but don’t know where to go from here. My neurologist is dealing with my very bad migraines right now. I feel like I’m falling apart since turning 65.

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@stephanie325 What has the your Neurologist said about your migraines? What are your PD symptoms? Hope all is addressed. Keep a diary of your health issues and describe how you are feeling in detail. It helps when you have to meet with any Dr. Hope you feel better soon.💞🫂

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