Living with lung cancer - Introduce yourself & come say hi
Welcome to the Lung Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with lung cancer or caring for someone with lung cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.
I'm Colleen, and I'm the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you'll to be greeted by volunteer patient Mentors and fellow members when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.
We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
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Hi Lisa! I was diagnosed as Stage IV and went directly to targeted therapy with no other treatments.
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3 ReactionsI would like to give hope to lung cancer patients. I was diagnosed in 2017 and am still here and plan Christmas with my family. I was given first Tarceva and now taking Tagrisso. Thank you.
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8 ReactionsHi again @loriwt, I'm glad you found us. There are certainly other members here with gene mutated cancers; EGFR, ALK. Many gene mutation lung patients are found at later stages. Were you diagnosed at a late stage? Did you go straight to the retevmo, or did you have other treatments/surgery?
Hello! I'm Lori and I was diagnosed with NSCLC RET+ in June 2022 and started targeted therapy (Retevmo) in July 2022. Anyone else RET+ and on Retevmo or similar?
The pillow is to hold against your incision area when you cough. The pressure helps with muscle spasm. There were none on the floor when I was in hospital so my nurse nabbed one from the cardiac surgery unit 🙂
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2 ReactionsThank you for the links. What is the pillow used for?
Jessica, you got some helpful responses from @pb50 and @spikeb1. You may also appreciate the tips shared in this related discussion:
- Robotic Lobectomy: What can I expect? What is recovery like https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/hello-from-the-bluegrass-state/
At Mayo Clinic, they give lung surgery patients lung pillows that are really helpful. Micheal, @corgimenow's husband is showing off his pillow post surgery here:
- My husband had lobectomy surgery: Mayo was wonderful! https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/mayo-was-wonderful/
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3 ReactionsThat’s a lot of great ideas
I’m not sure if my experience is typical but I really didn’t need any assistance at home. A friend and fellow nurse insisted on staying for a few days but she actually had to do very little. I had the surgery on 11/14 and was able to host Thanksgiving. (Someone else did the turkey but I was able
to do sides. ) I needed assistance with errands, appointments as not able to drive until first post-op visit.
I was 72 at time of surgery and otherwise healthy.
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3 ReactionsI went home on day 5. I had prepared for food that I could open and manage with one hand because I (erroneously) assumed I would have pain in the arm on that side - but no such issue.
I had prepared some meals and froze them and bought frozen entrees I enjoy and squeeze peanut butter and ice cream
And having meals like egg cups and chicken pie etc already made was helpful. Also I would have band aids and maybe a few sterile bandages and tape for your incision.
Oh. You may ooze out of the incision. Put old sheets on your bed before you go, and a towel under the sheet where you will lie - because that fluid will stain linens and your mattress cover. Ditto old pajamas.
If your shower has a handheld attachment that makes it easier to avoid the wound when shampooing, etc. get a baseball cap or bandana because your hair will be a fright for a while. 🙂
On balance, I didn’t really have an issue caring for myself.
Best of luck!!
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