Living with lung cancer - Introduce yourself & come say hi

Good morning Lisa.....diagnosed with Stage 4 in February of this year. What a shocker....out of the blue!! It has been a real "roller coaster" since then, but doing my best to stay positive. Will have my next PET on May 9 to see if the Tagrisso is doing it's "magic".....keeping fingers crossed. If having side effects is a positive thing, then I am confident that it is working. My major complaint right now is shortness of breath and cough. I can handle the fatigue and occasional diarrhea. Other effects are minimal. So thrilled to hear that you are three years out.

Thank you for this forum.....I feel like I've found an "oasis in the desert". I'm into my second month of taking Tagrisso, and am experiencing a lot of side effects....mostly shortness of breath and cough. Mostly good days, but some "not so good".

It's good to know I'm not alone in this.

Hi! I am Mary, and my husband has Stage 4 NSCLC. Originally diagnosed with Stage 1 in 2013. Had a wedge resection and everything was fine on all his scans. Then in 2020, out of the blue, it advanced to Stage 4. It had spread to his femur, liver, and brain, as well as both lungs. He had whole-brain radiation, which impacted his short-term memory. Then he was on a combo of chemo drugs, then switched to chemo/immunotherapy. Unfortunately, the chemo was killing his red blood cells faster than his body could produce them. So we took a "chemo vacay" in 2021, which was only supposed to last a month, but his scans kept showing no growth. In November 2022 the scans showed new growth. His oncologist said he wasn't strong enough to go back on treatment and referred us to hospice. During that time, he went from 180 lbs. to 131 lbs.

Hospice put him on a steroid to increase his appetite. He has gained 22 lbs. in two months. Woohoo!

We were originally told he had 3-4 months. We are now at 5 months and counting. Since he has gained weight, he has more energy and more awake time. It's like I got my husband back.

I know this is going to sound horrible, but I am so confused and conflicted. I planned around the time frames given to me. Trying to figure out if I should buy one or two airline tickets to our nephew's wedding in August. Should I sign up for an art class in a distant city in the not-so-distant future? Is he getting better? Should he have another PET scan to see how/if it is progressing?

His cognitive functioning gets worse every day, and he is experiencing urinary incontinence. I strongly suspect the cancer is back in his brain.

So I have to decide whether to stop hospice and try to convince his oncologist to take him back to do another PET scan or continue as is with hospice. I know the rationale for not doing a PET scan is that if you aren't going to have treatment, it doesn't really matter what the scan shows. But treatment was halted because he was so weak. Now he's doing so much better. I just don't know what to do or think.

Our anniversary is May 8th. I didn't think we would make it, but now it looks like we will be celebrating 47 years. And I am thrilled. Please don't get me wrong. I love my husband dearly and want to keep him as long as possible. I am just flummoxed by his improvement and really don't know what, if anything, are the next steps.

Sorry this is such a long introduction to the group.

2yrs ago I had lobectomy for a stage 1 tiny spot that was biopsied. Dr said I didnt need oncologist because they got the cancer out clean. 9 months ago I was being treated for sciatica. After 6 months of orthopedist an mri showed cancer on my glute muscles. Stage 4. Pet showed some tiny spots on my lung and one lymph node involved. Radiation took the pain and swelling away. Now getting keytruda. I’ve had 3 infusions. My rump hurts now and I want a scan to see what’s happening. Dr says not to worry, that sometimes during immunotherapy the cancer can grow. How soon after starting keytruda should I expect a scan?

I too had Stage 1 Adenocarcinoma. I had a upper left lobectomy and no chemo. I had scans every 6 months and then yearly. That was 9 years ago. Enjoy and be grateful for every day as most others aren’t as fortunate to be diagnosed as Stage 1.
Bring a former smoker it is not surprising that I now have cancer in my upper right lobe. I keep reminding myself that everyday is a gift. Appointment with surgeon and EBUS at the end of the week. i refuse to let this take away from the joy and contentment I have in my life.

Good Morning! I am right there with you! I just had my segmentectomy LUL, for NSCLC (Adenocarcinoma)and a little wedge (Granuloma -benign), 3 weeks ago, today. I feel good, but this IS SCARY! Reading that after someone has gone through the same thing, they suddenly have stage IV somewhere else. I am only scheduled to have a CT every 6 months for the next 2 years. No chemo or radiation was “necessary” as my cancer was stage 1A. But I have read some of these other posts that say there cancer was stage 1 and it happened. Well, I know that God has me in HIS hands and whatever HIS will, will be done. I think the best things to do are remain Positive and treat myself a lot better and try to be healthier, by way of exercise (walking for now), food intake (Lots of fruit and veggies) and mindfulness/gratitude. If cancer does come back, hopefully this will all help me fight it again, like Mary- who has been living with cancer for 25 years! Everyone! KEEP UP THE GOOD FIGHT!