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I lost both parents to COVID 3 months apart! Still can’t move forward
Adding to my loss I have. Even married to a Narcissist for 11 years! I’m finally getting away from him but he says horrible things to me like how glad he is my mom is dead, calls her filthy things and the same for my dad! I was very strong independent person and he has taken me to rock bottom!
With my parents deaths (( they’ve been divorced since I was 3) I have no support system for he alienated my friends and family! I miss and need my mom especially and can’t get over these untimely deaths!
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It is the beginning of a new chapter for you. No doubt you will have your challenges. But I implore you to remember that your parents would want you to be happy. I know it was my mother's greatest wish for me. I still hear her voice and she is still with me. I know you must also hear your mother and father's voices encouraging and supporting you still. I wish you a wonderful new adventure filled with love and happiness.
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For some weird reason, on this Christmas morning, I found the compelling sense to respond to your post. I am with you in pain reading it; in the past I have been there and am there today, with you. My life situation has created similar pain; I am not sure how to properly respond, but I can only say what’s in the deepest part of my heart. Being in the bottom of the pit is where I found my Father in heaven, I begged him to hear me, as I cried and surrendered, I felt his embrace and trusted enough to ask Him to help me recover. I remember praying to Him to just make me feel better, I remember telling Him, I didn’t care what happened but to please, please, make me feel better inside. It took some time, and we talked a lot after that day but Yes, He did help me! He is there now with you and me. May the Peace of Christmas gift you with love.
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