Husband newly diagnosed

Posted by momshmallow @momshmallow, 6 days ago

My husband is only 62 and was just diagnosed with Esophageal cancer. It sounds serious and I am very frightened. I want him to go to Boston which is only 35 minutes away where they appear to have a specialty group. How long can the wait be?

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@jmaaccg

My husband (62 years young) of 40 years was officially diagnosed with esophageal cancer on Monday. We had a egd on May 30, doctor told us then he had a tumor and it was cancer. Biopsy came back Monday confirming his diagnosis. Also his ct showed suspicious spots on his liver and kidney. Our world and emotions are a mess. Our appointment with the oncologist is next week. Most of what we have read has not been encouraging. Reading everyone’s stories is giving us hope. We serve a God who can heal and our trust is in Him.

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@jmaaccg
So sorry to hear about your husband's EC diagnosis.
I also had a tumor in my lower esophagus back in 2022 that was cancerous. I ended up getting 28 days of chemo and radiation at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa Florida. And now the tumor and EC cancer are gone without requiring surgery. I hope you can have the same experience. Let us know how it goes, and we will be pulling for you.

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@jmaaccg

My husband (62 years young) of 40 years was officially diagnosed with esophageal cancer on Monday. We had a egd on May 30, doctor told us then he had a tumor and it was cancer. Biopsy came back Monday confirming his diagnosis. Also his ct showed suspicious spots on his liver and kidney. Our world and emotions are a mess. Our appointment with the oncologist is next week. Most of what we have read has not been encouraging. Reading everyone’s stories is giving us hope. We serve a God who can heal and our trust is in Him.

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Being strong for each other is so important. Hi I’m Scott I’ve had EC since July of 2024. So I don’t know what treatments you might get. So I had flot treatments that is 4 chemotherapy treatments within a two month period with 3 different chemo drugs. Then waited 5 weeks had surgery with 2 surgical teams 9 hours. Waited 4 more weeks and had 4 more chemotherapy treatments. Through all this I had a I got this attitude always positive. Also my wife, my boys and my family were the greatest support team I could have possibly had. My oncologist my surgeons all the nurses were awesome. This is the most important part of this journey. So it’s so important you trust your doctor or doctors. Ask any all questions you have. Great doctors won’t shy away from your questions. Should have a nutritionist also that will help with all your concerns about eating and keeping weight on. I had a j tube for 7 months because I couldn’t eat or drink. That was great for keeping weight on for me. That’s and option if need be. So my treatments have been done for 2 months now. Eating is getting better depending on foods. You’ll have ups and downs. But you got this!! There’s other patients on here also that can help with different aspects of this cancer. Also I’m 62!

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Thank you Scott! I am trying really hard to be strong for my husband and rally all the friends and family support that I can. I truly believe in people power. It definitely takes a village. I wish you strength on your journey and I am blessed to have your support.
--Shelly

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@jmaaccg

My husband (62 years young) of 40 years was officially diagnosed with esophageal cancer on Monday. We had a egd on May 30, doctor told us then he had a tumor and it was cancer. Biopsy came back Monday confirming his diagnosis. Also his ct showed suspicious spots on his liver and kidney. Our world and emotions are a mess. Our appointment with the oncologist is next week. Most of what we have read has not been encouraging. Reading everyone’s stories is giving us hope. We serve a God who can heal and our trust is in Him.

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I am almost in the same boat as you. My husband will be 62 next week. We have been together for 42 years. He also appears to have a spot on his liver and his lymph nodes may be involved.
We still have so many tests to get through.
But this group is amazing! Many survivors and so encouraging!
Sending you hugs and strength.

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@dsh33782

@jmaaccg
So sorry to hear about your husband's EC diagnosis.
I also had a tumor in my lower esophagus back in 2022 that was cancerous. I ended up getting 28 days of chemo and radiation at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa Florida. And now the tumor and EC cancer are gone without requiring surgery. I hope you can have the same experience. Let us know how it goes, and we will be pulling for you.

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I wish that it will be so. Though I fear his may have spread. Time and more tests will tell.
I am so grateful for your encouraging support.
Stay safe.
Shelly

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My sister had been diagnosed with Esophageal Cancer last week and was advised not curable only treatable/Managble.She had stent put in airways and also they are going to put another in food pipe.They said lymph nodes become cancerous tumor on throat.We as family so scared and worried about my sister.Is there any help for her?Can this be cured doctors are saying they can not do surgery only chemo and Immunotherapy.Can somebody please help if you have any information.Thank you

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@abzeabz

My sister had been diagnosed with Esophageal Cancer last week and was advised not curable only treatable/Managble.She had stent put in airways and also they are going to put another in food pipe.They said lymph nodes become cancerous tumor on throat.We as family so scared and worried about my sister.Is there any help for her?Can this be cured doctors are saying they can not do surgery only chemo and Immunotherapy.Can somebody please help if you have any information.Thank you

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Hi Scott here, this is the hardest news you can hear I know. So you can and should get second opinion. Try and find a tumor board they discuss cases with multiple doctors to go over treatments and potential surgery. I had stage 3 EC treated with chemotherapy and surgery and chemotherapy again. That started August of 2024 first found out. Treatment chemotherapy started October 7th surgery January 3rd other chemotherapy February 9th finished April 5th. There maybe other alternatives also. Trials might be available also. Don’t give up hope ok there’s been different treatments on this forum also. Hope this helps be well!! Scott

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@jmaaccg

My husband (62 years young) of 40 years was officially diagnosed with esophageal cancer on Monday. We had a egd on May 30, doctor told us then he had a tumor and it was cancer. Biopsy came back Monday confirming his diagnosis. Also his ct showed suspicious spots on his liver and kidney. Our world and emotions are a mess. Our appointment with the oncologist is next week. Most of what we have read has not been encouraging. Reading everyone’s stories is giving us hope. We serve a God who can heal and our trust is in Him.

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My husband is taking ivermectin and fendendazole as we wait for our oncology appointment next week. Several people have told us about this combination helps to break down the cancer cells. Has anyone tried it?

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@goldenshadow

Hi Scott here, this is the hardest news you can hear I know. So you can and should get second opinion. Try and find a tumor board they discuss cases with multiple doctors to go over treatments and potential surgery. I had stage 3 EC treated with chemotherapy and surgery and chemotherapy again. That started August of 2024 first found out. Treatment chemotherapy started October 7th surgery January 3rd other chemotherapy February 9th finished April 5th. There maybe other alternatives also. Trials might be available also. Don’t give up hope ok there’s been different treatments on this forum also. Hope this helps be well!! Scott

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Hello Scott!
Where would one look for a tumor board?
I will ask the doctor at Brigham and Women's today.
Thank you!!

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@jmaaccg

My husband is taking ivermectin and fendendazole as we wait for our oncology appointment next week. Several people have told us about this combination helps to break down the cancer cells. Has anyone tried it?

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I am following this as well.
Interested in seeing any answers.

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